Banini is befuddled again

Okay, so there's this other girl that I met at this club, who is also a leo, and like I met her a while ago, but it was just a few days that I saw her there, and she gave me a ride home and we exchanged numbers. She told me to call her when I went to a comedy show because she wanted to go too. So I did but just got her voice mail. Then she called me back the next day, and said she had only just gotten the message because her phone is lame. She wanted to hang out, so I met her at this burger place because I had just been at the gym and was hungry. We hung out there until it closed and talked and talked like forever. Then I said she should come to another comedy open mic I was going to, and she was really excited and said she would bring a bunch of people, and to keep calling her if she didn't pick up because her phone is lame like that. So I called her three times, and nothing. I left a message once. She'll probably call me tomorrow or something. Whatever. I guess I'm just venting on here. Two leos probably aren't the best idea anyway, but she seems really cool. Except for the phone thing.

This sounds really promising. See if she calls you back. Perhaps you should arrange your dates in advance, that way even if the phone doesn't work, you know you are going to see each other.

Okay, well she called me! And now we're going to go to the club. Except I'm like broke so I'm paying with coins. How embarrassing.

you seem to fall in and out of love quickly.. are we hearing about "the girl in the train, or the coffee shop or the church maybe next week"—

Well, don't leos tend to do that? I actually don't usually. This is really weird. It used to be I would have a crush on like one girl for a year or so. Maybe I would tell them, maybe not, but it never really went anywhere. This year I've had a crush on this girl for like the whole year, but sort of like off and on, and in between I've had a bunch of crushes on other girls. I haven't gone back to the mall to see the other girl, because I'm sick of filling out applications, and I called that store and the manager was like, you're not one of the ones I selected to interview, sorry. If another store there decides to interview me then maybe I'll go back. I just got back from the club, which was fun.

This chick is weird you guys. She offered to let me take her car home from the club so I wouldn't have to walk, even though I only live a few blocks away. Then she asked if I was planning to stay up late. I said probably. Then when I got home I was working on some music, and she text messaged me, seeing if I was up. I said, yep. Then she asked if I normally stayed up late, so for fun I said I was just doing it for her. Then a while later she asked if I was calling it a night. I said I was working on music, and asked what she was doing. No reply.

Just relax and don't worry about it. What will be, will be.

Sounds like it is going well.

Well I'm horrible at taking hints. If that was what she was hinting at, I hope she doesn't lose interest as a result of me not picking up on it.

Do you guys think I should call her tonight to see what she is doing?

No. Call tomorrow durring the day.

Yeah well, no I don't have anything to do, and it's Friday night...

LOL...coffee in a month dame...hows that going? Oh yeah, October right...

It seems like she wanted you to invite her over that night, or it was for future reference that you stay up late, so she could call you or come over anytime even on late nights...

Pre Booty call interview 😛

Hmm... Well she text messaged me today so I called her and she said she was going to this one place with these two other guys. She says all her friends are guys for the most part.

I saw the one month coffee girl at the club the other night. I was trying to talk to my ex-roommate who I haven't seen for a while, and she kept trying to squeeze in between us, so I pushed her off and told her to go away. I think I'm gonna call her in October just to piss her off.

LMAO

good job banini, now the tables have turned...dont call her though.

If she tells you most of her friends are guys she means it, so dont get all jealous and confused when she says she's goin out with them.

**If she tells you most of her friends are guys she means it, so dont get all jealous and confused when she says she's goin out with them.**

I'm not jealous at all. I don't think anyway.

Thanks archer, I really appreciate that. Okay well I called the leo girl an hour ago, and she didn't answer so I left a message. She did tell me her phone is whack though, so I suppose I could try again.

Nope, I probably should have called her earlier. She'll probably call me around 1am now, watch.

Well, she didn't. Oh well.

I still haven't heard from her! What's going on here...?

banini, I think you have called enough. And I am sure she can check her messages no matter how screwy her phone is. If you can leave them, she can check them. Who doesn't have access to a 2nd phone nowadays? Put her out of your mind and focus on other things or people for now. When she is ready she will call you.

Very good advice, purrrfect. I've been through the same thing (as you might have already read) with waiting for the guy to call. It gets you nowhere.

Banini, please just put that girl out of your mind. The more you think about it, the more you could get mad. Believe me, I've been through hell regarding a certain guy and been mad and sad as hell (excuse the langauge). What will probably happen is just when you've forgotten about her, she'll suddenly call. It's happened to me with a certain guy. Always when I moved on, he always knew when to call. I've never been able to figure out he knew when to call. I'd joked to myself he and I were 'nsync. Anyway, no joking intended here. All I'm saying is it looks like this girl wants to see how long it will go before you contact her again. Just so she can see if you really like her. You've done your bit. Now it's her turn to meet you halfway.

Very good advice, purrrfect. I've been through the same thing (as you might have already read) with waiting for the guy to call. It gets you nowhere.

Banini, please just put that girl out of your mind. The more you think about it, the more you could get mad. Believe me, I've been through hell regarding a certain guy and been mad and sad as hell (excuse the langauge). What will probably happen is just when you've forgotten about her, she'll suddenly call. It's happened to me with a certain guy. Always when I moved on, he always knew when to call. I've never been able to figure out he knew when to call. I'd joked to myself he and I were 'nsync. Anyway, no joking intended here. All I'm saying is it looks like this girl wants to see how long it will go before you contact her again. Just so she can see if you really like her. You've done your bit. Now it's her turn to meet you halfway.

Sorry for the double posting. Computer problems. Oops!

Okay well she called me again last night, but I was doing comedy, so I had my phone off, and then she text messaged me to see if I wanted to hang out, but I had to go to bed for work.

She likes you.

Just call her tomorrow.

oops, I already called her today, but she didn't answer.

did she call last night or tonight?

just as long as you returned the call, it is all good. 🙂

Hmmmph. This butter is getting annoying. But then again, if she doesn't call me back until a few days later when I'm in the middle of something else, and doesn't answer when I call back, she doesn't get to hang out with me either.

why? what happened?

did she not return your call?

Not yet.

maybe it is a leo thing?

just go about your plans and either she calls back or she doesn't. I think she will though. I think she likes you. She is just a bit flakey.

yeah.

I'm not sure if she's really being flakey though or if her phone is just really really stupid. But then still, if her phone is THAT stupid, she should get a new phone right?

My leo friend rarely answers her phone...she ignores calls and claims her phone sucks...she's also a bit flakey.

If a leo's not into, they will definitely let you know.

Huh. Well, last night I text messaged her to see what she was doing, and immediately she called me back, and said when she heard from her other friends she would give me a call. I had to work today so I eventually just went to bed, and then she texted and called me at like 2:30 am! She wanted to get coffee at a starbucks drive through. I just went back to sleep.

So, nothings really going on here. We've talked about getting together a few more times, but it never seems to work out. Whatever.

I would suggest just let her simmer down a bit as you are too available for her right now so she may thinks she has it easy with you. You always return TM or calls and always call her.

Do not call her...keep busy...she likes you but just needs some "missing time" (to miss you)

"missing time"

relationships are stupid... maybe I will just become a stalker.

lol!

relationships are stupid... maybe I will just become a stalker.

"Let me know if you need some help, maybe we can get a bulk discount on duct tape and rope..."

Oh, well I wasn't actually gonna do it, I just joking.

It has now been two weeks since I last called her, making it over two weeks since I've heard from her. I hope she didn't die from her health problems. Or she doesn't like me. Maybe she thinks I don't care about her health problems and I'm only interested in having her be an audience member at one of my shows.

Should I do anything or just forget about her?

I can say this with complete honesty .. I have absolutely no idea.

sorry honey. maybe someone else knows more.

"It has now been two weeks since I last called her, making it over two weeks since I've heard from her. I hope she didn't die from her health problems. Or she doesn't like me. Maybe she thinks I don't care about her health problems and I'm only interested in having her be an audience member at one of my shows."

LMAO...as I said before Banini you are adorable...sad, but adorable.

Maybe you should call. Is this the aqua girl...oh i dont know youve got too many women...
FOCUS on one at a time damnit!

Well, if it takes being sad to learn whatever I need to learn, then by George Washington's wooden teeth, I'm gonna be sad. And adorable. This is the Leo one that I met at the club.