cancer and leo

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by cancerguy13 on Thursday, March 23, 2017 and has 11 replies.

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@cancerguy13
9 Years

Im a cancer male shes a female leo

Im not the typical cancer i have a lot of air in my chart.

Anyway do leo girl use guys for comfort after a break up and not honest? I hate having doubt so i told her dont fucking play me cause u just got out an abusive relationship.

Anyway things have gone so fast in a few weeks. Non stop i miss u's and hearts.. she has shown me pics of her family.. all very personal. Im a boxer so i dont so much time to spend with her when she is around and i worry when she gets bored she might cheat or betray me.

I still love her tho unconditionaly.

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@cancerguy13
9 Years

Man it would nice if this leo girl can stay a bit longer if not for a very long time in my life. And yea I feel very much protective of her, especially physically. I punched her abusive ex boyfriend in the face because he used to beat her up.

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@Chuckcem
14 Years5,000+ Posts

Well a LOT of girls can use guys for comfort after a breakup, it's called a rebound. Depending on how recent the break up was, her emotions may still be raw. It's not so much that she's using you on purpose, but she may have you set as a replacement.

Since you already know that she just broke up with someone, just be mindful of that. It's possible that she's being honest with you, but things could get shaky if the ex tries to come back into the picture. It just depends on if she got closure from the last relationship.

My advice it is to not focus on a relationship with her and have fun with the time you have with her. She may wind up sticking with you. It's too early to tell. Just be charming, play it cool, take her out, etc.

Also I know what I just said can be hard for Cancers, but just be chill and don't put too much pressure on needing to know where you stand with her. You'll drive yourself crazy and possibly push her away.

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@cancerguy13
9 Years

Very good advice I was thinking on the same lines.

She told me she blocked him everytime I get doubts about him and her coming back.

I know some of his friends and they told me they break up often so I raised this with her and she said yes it's true but now it's finally over.

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@cancerguy13
9 Years

And she can read my mind sometimes. She would go I know you think I miss him but it's not true and I would relax for a bit.

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@LadyNeptune
10 Years25,000+ Posts

You guys have history so your a natural choice for a fallback/rebound. Could also be that she really cares about you and wanted to be with you this whole time... We can't really say from the very little you've written here.

Take it slow with her and don't read to much into what she's saying. In 6 months of she's still singing the same tune you'll be able to trust those words a little bit more.

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@cancerguy13
9 Years

Yea I don't know what to think. It's all a little unclear what she sees me as.

Anybody can say things because at that time of hurt ofcourse its easier to like me and want to be with me more often. But also on the flip side she just recently traveled to Iran to celebrate the new year for a few weeks and she showed me her family photos. we talk on a daily basis and shes very responsive.

If I'm not telling you enough what do you want to know then?

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@Sugarsugar
9 Years

I could never use someone after a breakup. If I'm upset or heartbroken, the very last thing I want is to be with someone else. That just intensifies my feelings....because it's not the person I'm thinking of. I'd always rather be alone than spend time with someone I'm not really into. It's all or nothing for me.