confusing leo behavior

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Leanae
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8 Years

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Leo man asked me if I loved him during sex and why. He also asked me if he proposed would I say yes.About a week later I asked him if he loved me. he said , of course. You are awesome. He says that but doesn't want to be in a relationship. Sometimes he does not respond to me. He says that he is taking time alone. When I said that I am just sex to him, he told me that I was wrong nd was pissed off that I said that. Is this possible or is it a mind game
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Nameless Nemean
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Posted by Leanae
Leo man asked me if I loved him during sex and why. He also asked me if he proposed would I say yes.About a week later I asked him if he loved me. he said , of course. You are awesome. He says that but doesn't want to be in a relationship. Sometimes he does not respond to me. He says that he is taking time alone. When I said that I am just sex to him, he told me that I was wrong nd was pissed off that I said that. Is this possible or is it a mind game
Let him know that if he truly loves you, he needs to be willing to take the next step because thats what you want. Let him know that you currently feel that he's only keeping you around for sex. If he's not into it, then let him know that you deserve a man who values you enough to lock you down.

If he gets angry and starts trying to flip the script, let him know "If you feel this strongly then put up or shut up. Do you want a relationship or not?" Guys like this will try to mak you feel guilty. He'll try to throw all of the things he's "done" back in your face. Let him know that "real love doesn't keep score". Let him know that you're looking for a commitment and he should contact you when he's on the same page. Then leave it at that.

I've always felt that the worst time to say, "I love you" is during sex because it's so easy to say. That's not to say that it isn't meaningful, but if sex is the only time he can express these emotions then the love isn't real. He just really loves the sex.