I keep finding that a lot of people that I meet really like me when they first meet me, and they only have good things to say about me, but then after they get to know me for about 2 days, they become distant and give off the vibe that they don't really like me. I'm a Leo with a Virgo rising, which kinda, well, is not that good of a combination.
i dunno. i'm a leo-virgo cusp and ppl seem to either fall in love with me or are ok with me but keep their distance. i don't often run into ppl that don't like me at all. at least, it's been a while anyway. the only time it was like that for me was when i was a hormonal, angsty teenager. back then it was either u loved me or hated me. now that i'm in my mid-20's i'm a different, more mature person that is comfortable with myself. i read somewhere, a long time ago, that there is a huge difference in a sign when the person is in a juvenile or mature state of being. the attributes that i typically see in a leo's sign description are more of the juvenile (immature) kind but when a leo hits maturity (and i'm not referring to physical age) i hear that most of the "negative" traits are toned down and we can actually be some pretty kick ass ppl.
It happens to most people with opposing rising and sun... Don't completely blame your sun. With your Virgo rising you probably attract a lot of Earth and water but when they get to know you the true sun personality clashes with their sun. I have a Virgo rising too and I attract a lot of Tauruses ... And if that is the case with you it could be understandable why they would be turned off. Leo and Taurus are VERY incompatible.
I'm a virgo but i can really relate to you.Maybe they want us to take the lead but i'm less of a talker and more of a listener so i don't know if there is a down fall to that situation.
throughout my life people have been jealous of me ,because of my looks figure ,clothes i wear etc: and that includes people who are a lot younger or older than me one older person goes on holiday about 4 times a year ,her house is paid for ,material wise she is much better off because i have my health ,etc:she is jealous quite often people say i look nice ,because i make an effort,i don't think people make an effort much ,they just look casual younger people are jealous ,my figure is better,i have achieved something they havent at the end of the day it is down to these people to make an effort,not moan or get jealous.
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Does this happen to any other Leos?