So I am moving to a new place and Mr leo that I have been dating for 5 months wants to leave clothes at my place— He hasn't asked me to be his gf get should I let him?
He wants to leave clothes at my place but not official?!
Okay given me you guy's responses I definitely wont him. Some more information on our relationship. We've only had sex twice out of the months we've been talking. He says I'm his best friend and he loves me that he's moving to towards being boyfriend and girlfriend everyday. He always contact me everyday or every other day. Most of the time we hang out we just talk and catch up with each other. He says he wants to get his money right because he doesn't want me to feel like I have to take care of him. Which I haven't done. I'm a cancer so I do have to be careful about giving because it's just in my nature to give to anyone
so I think that I'm going to make a label and put it on the drawer that reads my boyfriend's stuff I bet he'll think twice about putting anythings in it
Posted by Gob_ShitePosted by youngali
Also some Leo can be users if they sense that you are a push over or anything like that.
Nope, most Leos are prone to being users. And you don't need to be a pushover - Leos just love pushing their luck.
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Funny i have noticed this of Leo males several but as a Leo lady myself I would rather suffer hardcore than ask for help or use someone. Even my parents no way will I ask them for help unless they are insisting.
Posted by Seraphlightbecause I just got out of a relationship 7 months ago and I want to make sure that I'm ready for another onePosted by CancerSunVirgoMoonAquariusRisingWhy are you still dating a guy who doesn't call you his GF after FIVE MONTHS— WTF??
So I am moving to a new place and Mr leo that I have been dating for 5 months wants to leave clothes at my place— He hasn't asked me to be his gf get should I let him?click to expand
Posted by ParisianCappylol well that answer is simple because I can
you have to write sooo much when you log in
First off I have never had a person say they wanted to do that so I really didn't know what it meant. secondly I don't want to give off any wrong impressions by allowing him to do something like that
Posted by CancerSunVirgoMoonAquariusRisingNope. If you have to ask, then that's probably a good indication something isn't quite right. So better question, why WOULD you let him leave his clothes at your place? Thinking as a Leo man, I'm wondering how this benefits you.
So I am moving to a new place and Mr leo that I have been dating for 5 months wants to leave clothes at my place— He hasn't asked me to be his gf get should I let him?
Posted by SeraphlightI was thinking the samePosted by CancerSunVirgoMoonAquariusRisingWhy are you still dating a guy who doesn't call you his GF after FIVE MONTHS— WTF??
So I am moving to a new place and Mr leo that I have been dating for 5 months wants to leave clothes at my place— He hasn't asked me to be his gf get should I let him?click to expand
Don't let him move his clothes in, it will save you throwing them out at a later date
Sounds like a flaky guy
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Posted by ChuckcemYea I would definitely say the fact that we currently dont stay in the same state makes it a little off..Posted by CancerSunVirgoMoonAquariusRisingNope. If you have to ask, then that's probably a good indication something isn't quite right. So better question, why WOULD you let him leave his clothes at your place? Thinking as a Leo man, I'm wondering how this benefits you.
So I am moving to a new place and Mr leo that I have been dating for 5 months wants to leave clothes at my place— He hasn't asked me to be his gf get should I let him?click to expand
Posted by AliensusedourbogrollYou would let him
I would!
Posted by AliensusedourbogrollAnd I really dont think he had been flaky bc he has never went more then 2 day without talking to me...now we talk everyday.
I would!
Posted by d0s3rHe offered to help pay more than half of the rent...
is he gonna pay rent?
otherwise free house for him
Wait are two diff people the op?
Posted by LionessLoverSame ! I am a leo lady I will do everything in my power to do something on my own, sometimes it hurts me to ask others for help (which is probably my pride) but I don't like to use people.Posted by Gob_ShitePosted by youngali
Also some Leo can be users if they sense that you are a push over or anything like that.
Nope, most Leos are prone to being users. And you don't need to be a pushover - Leos just love pushing their luck.
Funny i have noticed this of Leo males several but as a Leo lady myself I would rather suffer hardcore than ask for help or use someone. Even my parents no way will I ask them for help unless they are insisting.
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Posted by d0s3rPosted by CancerSunVirgoMoonAquariusRisinggirl...Posted by d0s3rHe offered to help pay more than half of the rent...
is he gonna pay rent?
otherwise free house for him
he ain't using u unless for emotional security...
maybe he's just going with feeling and can't rationalise
but 5 months does seem very soon
u may have to pretend u don't want this just to set a boundary. maybe set a temporal milestone
or u could go with the flow, if ur strong enough to get back up if he ever hurts uclick to expand
I like this approach thank you!
Posted by bkbella86No I couldn't get into my other account so I made a new one lol
Wait are two diff people the op?
Posted by VageenkaNo he has never stayed over...I have 2 young sons so im picky about that. Its not just a buddy that has only happened 2 times in all these months.
No, don't.
Why should he get the privileges that a boyfriend gets without making things official with you?
And I hope he's not staying over either. Unless he's just a fuck buddy.
Why would anyone want to commit to someone if they're already being treated like a boyfriend anyway? Makes no sense. This guy just hit the jackpot if he fears commitment.
Anytime I read "make it official" I feel like there is a guide to boyfriend-girlfriend relationships and I skipped a step. :/ I still don't know what "make it official" means and what it entails. Is there like, a candle ceremony?
lol I love the burger and fries idea!
Posted by d0s3rRight also remember that Leos like to make grand gestures and throw money around. That doesn't mean he's serious. Also Leos are natural talkers, we can talk to anyone we like all day long. Definitely take the time to get to know him better.Posted by CancerSunVirgoMoonAquariusRisinggirl...Posted by d0s3rHe offered to help pay more than half of the rent...
is he gonna pay rent?
otherwise free house for him
he ain't using u unless for emotional security...
maybe he's just going with feeling and can't rationalise
but 5 months does seem very soon
u may have to pretend u don't want this just to set a boundary. maybe set a temporal milestone
or u could go with the flow, if ur strong enough to get back up if he ever hurts uclick to expand
Posted by d0s3rI get what you're saying. He may actually be coming from a genuine place. Best bet would be to say something along the lines of, "At the moment I want to take things slow. I want to make sure that the guy who has his clothes at my house will also be the right man to bring around my children."
i mean i ain't saying he's out to hurt her...
but he might be about the grand gesture, as you say
and not really have his head in the right place
but from my exp. with leo's, he might take a no to this as rejection
very small issue but sounds messy... u agree?
Letting a Leo know why you're saying No and being open about your concerns (especially if it is in regards to children) will soften any potential blow to his ego. We respect honesty.
Posted by TheLibraMudraI love that you are so open minded and just helpful. THIS IS HOW TO MAKE A LEO FALL IN LOVE.Posted by aquanibThis reminds me of when I first saw my Leo after years. He spent a good amount of time at my house. Irish mumsie boy.
Wash 'em while you're at it.....
"My clothes needs to be washed"
"Ah, ok. The soap is in the cupboard above there. The dryer sheets are in the door next to it"
-blank stare-
"What?"
"You're not gonna do them?"
"What am I? Your mom? From what I see here, you have two functional hands that can get the job done. Let's see, 1, 2, 10 fine fingers"
-pompous Leo laugh-
"Ok, ok, you're right. How do I work this thing?"
"Are washer and dryers that different from America over there?"
"Well, no but my mum comes over for dinner and to do my clothes every Sunday at my house"
"What tha..."
In 2 years, I've got him trained pretty good 😛 LOLclick to expand
He wants to leave clothes at your place for what? If he does not spend the night then what does he need clothes over there for? Hmmm
Posted by CancerSunVirgoMoonAquariusRisingLmao! I was so damn confused.Posted by bkbella86No I couldn't get into my other account so I made a new one lol
Wait are two diff people the op?click to expand
Posted by MoonshineLeoMy thoughts exactly lol But I guess is a claming of territory from what Im reading. He has asked to stay over but I have to be sure its the real deal before he gets to just hang around my 2 and 6 yr old.
He wants to leave clothes at your place for what? If he does not spend the night then what does he need clothes over there for? Hmmm
Posted by ChuckcemI totally agree. I am honest and upfront about everything. Maybe that's why he always says Im his best friend that he feels like he can tell me anything. I have been in some very destructive relationships in the past. So honestly is a MUST 4 me... I just want be sure we are building on a very solid foundation. This is my first relationship that I've had the combination of being sexually attracted to someone and feel like they're my best friend it's like effortless.Posted by d0s3rI get what you're saying. He may actually be coming from a genuine place. Best bet would be to say something along the lines of, "At the moment I want to take things slow. I want to make sure that the guy who has his clothes at my house will also be the right man to bring around my children."
i mean i ain't saying he's out to hurt her...
but he might be about the grand gesture, as you say
and not really have his head in the right place
but from my exp. with leo's, he might take a no to this as rejection
very small issue but sounds messy... u agree?
Letting a Leo know why you're saying No and being open about your concerns (especially if it is in regards to children) will soften any potential blow to his ego. We respect honesty.click to expand
Posted by CancerSunVirgoMoonAquariusRisingThat's a solid mindset. Make him work for it, Leos need to chase a little to be truly invested (I say this as a Leo who HATES to chase, but loves the thrill of the hunt). If we have to work for it, and continue to pursue you, our egos take over and we convince ourselves that this pursuit is worth it. In our minds we think, why would we be chasing you if you weren't worth it? That would be silly, so you MUST be worth the effort after all.
I totally agree. I am honest and upfront about everything. Maybe that's why he always says Im his best friend that he feels like he can tell me anything. I have been in some very destructive relationships in the past. So honestly is a MUST 4 me... I just want be sure we are building on a very solid foundation. This is my first relationship that I've had the combination of being sexually attracted to someone and feel like they're my best friend it's like effortless.
Posted by ChuckcemPosted by CancerSunVirgoMoonAquariusRisingThat's a solid mindset. Make him work for it, Leos need to chase a little to be truly invested (I say this as a Leo who HATES to chase, but loves the thrill of the hunt). If we have to work for it, and continue to pursue you, our egos take over and we convince ourselves that this pursuit is worth it. In our minds we think, why would we be chasing you if you weren't worth it? That would be silly, so you MUST be worth the effort after all.
I totally agree. I am honest and upfront about everything. Maybe that's why he always says Im his best friend that he feels like he can tell me anything. I have been in some very destructive relationships in the past. So honestly is a MUST 4 me... I just want be sure we are building on a very solid foundation. This is my first relationship that I've had the combination of being sexually attracted to someone and feel like they're my best friend it's like effortless.click to expand
Thank you for the response..What would you consider making him put in the effort lol it seems simple enough but it can very
Posted by CancerSunVirgoMoonAquariusRising
Thank you for the response..What would you consider making him put in the effort lol it seems simple enough but it can very
So you said you've been dating for 5 months, but aren't boyfriend/girlfriend yet. Is that something you want with him? Are you two exclusive? Have you broached the topic on your own? If it's something you want, feel free to let him know. I generally find that when a girl is in love with guy, she won't necessarily wait on him to bring up the labels. She may poke at him about it or just mention it outright. Sometimes it's easier if you initiate the topic to gauge his reaction. The question is, do you want that?
I also assume if you've been dating for 5 months, he's actually taken you out on dates correct? I have a friend who "dated" a guy for a year and they didn't really go out on a date. They just "hung out". Setting proper and firm dates with you is a must (that's "dates", plural). These of course do not include "Netflix & chill"...and no movies. You can't really get to know a person at the movies. This will show that he not only has initiative, but is willing to put his money where his mouth is. You should not have to suggest a date to him.
Since it's been 5 months, make sure you eventually know the answers to the following questions: What are his goals in life? Where does he see himself in 5-10 years? What was his longest relationship? What was his last relationship? How's his relationship with his family, especially his mother? How does he feel about kids? Does he have any as well? Does he want some of his assume (if he doesn't)? What are his hobbies/what does he do for fun? Where does he see the relationship with you to going (an easy way to bring up the boyfriend/girlfriend topic)? What's his favorite food? etc etc.
Also make sure you've met his friends and vice versa. This will give you a decent indication of who he hangs out with regularly. This will let you know the type of environment in which he chooses to place himself. If you really feel like things are getting serious, you're also going to want to meet his family, but that can wait until you two are "official".
Posted by CancerSunVirgoMoonAquariusRisingPosted by ChuckcemHe took me out a couple times when we first started to date. A friend of mine and myself went out with all of his friends. He does have a 4Posted by CancerSunVirgoMoonAquariusRising
Thank you for the response..What would you consider making him put in the effort lol it seems simple enough but it can very
So you said you've been dating for 5 months, but aren't boyfriend/girlfriend yet. Is that something you want with him? Are you two exclusive? Have you broached the topic on your own? If it's something you want, feel free to let him know. I generally find that when a girl is in love with guy, she won't necessarily wait on him to bring up the labels. She may poke at him about it or just mention it outright. Sometimes it's easier if you initiate the topic to gauge his reaction. The question is, do you want that?
I also assume if you've been dating for 5 months, he's actually taken you out on dates correct? I have a friend who "dated" a guy for a year and they didn't really go out on a date. They just "hung out". Setting proper and firm dates with you is a must (that's "dates", plural). These of course do not include "Netflix & chill"...and no movies. You can't really get to know a person at the movies. This will show that he not only has initiative, but is willing to put his money where his mouth is. You should not have to suggest a date to him.
Since it's been 5 months, make sure you eventually know the answers to the following questions: What are his goals in life? Where does he see himself in 5-10 years? What was his longest relationship? What was his last relationship? How's his relationship with his family, especially his mother? How does he feel about kids? Does he have any as well? Does he want some of his assume (if he doesn't)? What are his hobbies/what does he do for fun? Where does he see the relationship with you to going (an easy way to bring up the boyfriend/girlfriend topic)? What's his favorite food? etc etc.
Also make sure you've met his friends and vice versa. This will give you a decent indication of who he hangs out with regularly. This will let you know the type of environment in which he chooses to place himself. If you really feel like things are getting serious, you're also going to want to meet his family, but that can wait until you two are "official".
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year old son that I met. He truck drives but but is also chasing a music career. He would live in the studio if he could....He is very close with his family mom and dad though they are not together. He said that he talked to his mom and dad about me. He ended a 6 yr on and off relationship with his sons mother...8 months ago I did aswell hints the moving slow. Oh and he loves kids so do I.. I actually got his son a couple gifts for christmas this past year. I asked if he liked them and this is what he said..to his about who got him gifts.
"I told him a beautiful woman that cares about you like a loving mother did he told me to tell u thank you"
I pretty much know the answer to all the other questions. And I did kind of come right out and asking about being girlfriend and boyfriend. And he said he's getting closer and closer every day that he wanted to make sure his money was right before taking on the commitment..not ever sure what that means lol. But every day no matter where he is he always lets me know when he is thinking of me. He actually messaged this to me randomly one day
"No matter where i am u will always be my baby and I think of u every day we will be together in the future god willing if u still want it love in kisses boo"
Interesting. My uncle was a truck driver, those hours can be crazy. Him leaving his stuff at your place makes a bit more sense due to his schedule, BUT he needs to make things official in that case. Since he too has a child, I can understand him taking things slow on his end as well.
A couple of dates is cool, but the dating should continue. In fact for any solid relationship, the dating should never stop. That's one of the key factors of happy couples, they still act like the relationship is new, even decades later. Even if money is tight, there are plenty of inexpensive ways to spend time together.
When I say, "Have him put in the effort" is basically means make sure he is courting you properly. Aside from the boyfriend/girlfriend label, is there anything you want to see in a relationship between you two?
A couple of dates is cool, but the dating should continue. In fact for any solid relationship, the dating should never stop. That's one of the key factors of happy couples, they still act like the relationship is new, even decades later. Even if money is tight, there are plenty of inexpensive ways to spend time together.
When I say, "Have him put in the effort" is basically means make sure he is courting you properly. Aside from the boyfriend/girlfriend label, is there anything you want to see in a relationship between you two?
Posted by TheLibraMudraPosted by aquanibThis reminds me of when I first saw my Leo after years. He spent a good amount of time at my house. Irish mumsie boy.
Wash 'em while you're at it.....
"My clothes needs to be washed"
"Ah, ok. The soap is in the cupboard above there. The dryer sheets are in the door next to it"
-blank stare-
"What?"
"You're not gonna do them?"
"What am I? Your mom? From what I see here, you have two functional hands that can get the job done. Let's see, 1, 2, 10 fine fingers"
-pompous Leo laugh-
"Ok, ok, you're right. How do I work this thing?"
"Are washer and dryers that different from America over there?"
"Well, no but my mum comes over for dinner and to do my clothes every Sunday at my house"
"What tha..."
In 2 years, I've got him trained pretty good 😛 LOLclick to expand
This is hilarious 😄 😄 😄
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