HELP with Leo Woman that doesn't give me attention

Hello I have fallen in love with a leo girl, she is ultra extrovert and very social. I'm a libra and also the same social, extrovert and I would say we are both very good looking. When we met it was like love at first sight after I approached her she seemed very into. She was constantly texting me and asking me to see each other, we could talk about anything for hours without getting bored, always happy and in harmony, because we do have lots of things in common. We also have a very sexual magnetic attraction and after sex, she would usually talk to me about kids and marriage even if it was too fast to bring that to the table. So I felt very secure of her feelings and what we had. But after a couple of months she just stopped texting often and now she is very independent, she always puts herself first and I feel I'm prince charming constantly trying to catch back her attention with gifts, nice details and she doesn't evens say thanks now. Suddenly, she barely texts me back and when that happens I prepare for the worst as I think she wants to break up with me but then suddenly after two or four days she sends me a text saying she loves me and that I'm the most important person in her life.

My friends are divided and some say she is playing me, others say she is really in love with me that I just need to give her space. But seriously how can I make her talk to me more often when we are not together? It's driving me crazy because when we see each other the chemistry is still there and we have a great time. But because of my job I'm constantly traveling and I do need her to be more communicative.

Well it sounds like she really does love you. Sometimes i can take a few days to myself and it may SEEM like I’m being more independent but my heart is always with you. She might want to project that she’s being independent because she keeps bringing up the future which means she really takes you serious. Maybe she doesn’t want to come off as clingy so she does he own thing for a little bit but always comes back to tell you she loves you because she doesn’t want you to think her distance has anything to do with leaving you.

Just talk to her. Be open and honest. If you want her to communicate more tell her, she might be relieved to not have to fake her independence. And trust me she does notice small gifts, she will always think of how she can top the gift. Maybe for your birthday or random so don’t assume she doesn’t notice :p

When she talks about the future how do you respond?

We, Leo girls are playful, that's why it is sometimes difficult to understand us. From my point of view, I'd say she loves you.. If a Leo says something like that, then it's true. We like when men chase us, so I suggest to do so, but don't be too pushy. We never get bored of gifts and compliments if they aren't too cheesy.

If u are worried, I suggest to talk to her - we like honesty and respect truthful people.

And trust me - she is thankful for your gifts even if she forgets to say it out loud. 🙂

You are completely safe in this situation!

Posted by MoonshineLeo
Well it sounds like she really does love you. Sometimes i can take a few days to myself and it may SEEM like I’m being more independent but my heart is always with you. She might want to project that she’s being independent because she keeps bringing up the future which means she really takes you serious. Maybe she doesn’t want to come off as clingy so she does he own thing for a little bit but always comes back to tell you she loves you because she doesn’t want you to think her distance has anything to do with leaving you.

Just talk to her. Be open and honest. If you want her to communicate more tell her, she might be relieved to not have to fake her independence. And trust me she does notice small gifts, she will always think of how she can top the gift. Maybe for your birthday or random so don’t assume she doesn’t notice :p

When she talks about the future how do you respond?

Well she has not brought the future in a while even though I really been acting more in love with her. When she first mentioned it I told her we are not ready to have kids yet because we have been only dating for 9 months. But recently when I brought back the subject she said she's not that certain if she ever wants them and that she is too stressed with life at this moment. Sometimes I feel the more in love I act the more I push her away. Before I used to play ''the cool dude hard to get'' and she was all over me, but I really love her I don't want to act cocky just to get her attention. I have told her already many times we need to talk more but nothing has changed, and she always puts work and family issues as an excuse but the reality is the day has 24 hours and she could find at least a few minutes for me...I am a person that requires a bit extra attention perhaps but I won't see her in person until March because of my trips and I feel I can only fix stuff with her when we talk face to face. So I guess I will have to wait

Posted by Phoebz
We, Leo girls are playful, that's why it is sometimes difficult to understand us. From my point of view, I'd say she loves you.. If a Leo says something like that, then it's true. We like when men chase us, so I suggest to do so, but don't be too pushy. We never get bored of gifts and compliments if they aren't too cheesy.

If u are worried, I suggest to talk to her - we like honesty and respect truthful people.

And trust me - she is thankful for your gifts even if she forgets to say it out loud. 🙂

You are completely safe in this situation!

Thank you! I just get ultra insecure when we are apart. Maybe is just that she is not good with long distance ...she said it from the beginning tbh...

I hope I can talk with her soon and be able to fully talk these subjects sometimes she is really good avoiding things that are a bit tense to discuss. She is the second leo I have dated. My first girlfriend was also a leo and we lasted 4 years but then suddenly she changed her behavior and I discovered she was cheating so is hard for me to trust my current girlfriend when I notice mixed signals.