Leo woman ruined our friendship

hello everyone, I'm in need of some advice.

I'm a scorpio woman leo moon

my "friend" Rachel (not real name) is a leo woman sag moon

quick story how she ruined our friendship 3 weeks ago.

One of her high school friends, Courtney (not real name) came to visit her on November 18th and we all planned to go out that night. We went out and had a few drinks nothing too crazy. After a few drinks we were leaving the bar and there was a long line to get out of the parking lot. Out of nowhere Rachel side swipes a parked car and security saw her do it. Luckily she didn't leave damage on her car or the other. The security guy told her to either have Courtney drive us home or uber. Well Rachel pulls off on the security guy to get out of the parking lot so he wouldn't take down her license plate. Courtney tell her to please pull over and let her drive us home. Rachel did not listen and she started driving us in the opposite direction.

We ask her where is she going? She states oh I'm going by this guy house!! We are looking confused and at this point I started screaming at her because before we left the bar we had a conversation about going get food not going to a man's house. After yelling at her Rachel pulled over (I had to use the bathroom really bad!). Courtney hopped out the car and told me to not get back in the car until she lets one of us drive us home. Well after about 5 minutes she pulls off on us and we never see her for the rest of the night!!! we end up catching a uber home!! Courtney end up sleeping at my house and was furious all night. The next day we hear from her and she tried to act like it was our fault! (reverse psychology) but we wasn't having none of it. We called her out on her bs and yeah well after that we haven't heard from her since! No apology no nothing!

Plot twist! I see her in a store 2 days ago with some guy (of course *eye roll *man of the week) she looked at me, turned her head and kept walking! Now after a week of the initial drama I was over what happened and just thought we were taking a break. But now I see she still is acting out and at this point I'm thinking about cutting her off completely. I'm trying to hold off on it but this girl clearly doesn't care about the consequences and how she acted it. Courtney said she hasn't heard from her either and she can no longer support her life style . This is the first time this has happened. I'm just in shock because I never thought she would do that to us. Now I know she likes to do reverse psychology on her buttery men but your friends? Wow.

Side note: We are all over 25 so this behavior is unacceptable.

Any advice? FYI I'm not contacting her so please don't mention it lol.

lmao at your response!!! Well maturity doesn't come with age. I mean you think you know a person than bam you find out they have a mentality of a reckless 18 year old. The kicker is how she always told me stories about people doing buttery shit to her like this and she turns around and do the same shit. Hurt people hurt people I guess.

LMAO at this story, yea this leo sucks, i wouldn't talk to her. Even if my friends did something to make me upset i get over it really fast and i know better than to treat my friends like that

Why are they like this? I don’t get it.

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Posted by oxygenthief
lmao at your response!!! Well maturity doesn't come with age. I mean you think you know a person than bam you find out they have a mentality of a reckless 18 year old. The kicker is how she always told me stories about people doing buttery shit to her like this and she turns around and do the same shit. Hurt people hurt people I guess.

That's why I'm not friends with many people now. A lot of people seem to think they can act like this and still be called decent people.

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Same! My circle is really small and I have no problem cutting people off!!! I’ve learned over the years to forgive. I think if she would have apologized instead of turning it around I wouldn’t be contemplating on pulling the plug permanently. As you know Scorpios can cut you off at the drop of a hat. I am trying to learn forgiveness but this one takes the cake.

I think you said it yourself. She ruined your friendship with this thoughtless act. Though I feel like this was brewing for awhile and that was just the final straw. Stay away from her esp if she's a drunk driver.

SugeredSap can you explain brewing for awhile? Are you referring to me making a decision or her actions?

Posted by Juliiette
she had a mini break down. idk. i see no reason to cut the friendship. people are not perfect.

Did you read the part that I saw her recently and she turned the other way? How long does a break down and avoidance last?

I care about an apology and acknowledgment that acting reckless can cause you to lose everything and friendships. The fact that you still acting the same shows that you don’t care at all.

Wow.

Childish af. I'm sorry but that's unforgivable to me. What if neither of you had a working phone and couldn't get that uber? Like fuck her.

Posted by Plutonian
Wow.

Childish af. I'm sorry but that's unforgivable to me. What if neither of you had a working phone and couldn't get that uber? Like fuck her.

Oh now that you mentioned it so when she finally pulled the car over I had to pee so bad that my purse dumped over and I thought I lost my credit cards and ID at the bar! Turns out it was in her car underneath my seat the whole time. So yeah that was missing all night and I had to cancel my cards.

Posted by Timon
Are your name Phoebe by any chance? Lol sorry couldn't help myself.

No my name starts with a C lol