Things are going good, we talk everyday and usually he initiates every conversation. Wants to know everything about me, conversations are vey natural and fun. Being a Sagitarius I can be impulsive and have taken risks in relationships but that never seems to be succesful so I am TRYING to hold out as long as I can because I know Leos love the chase. But how long is a right amount of time to hold out? He says I'm amazing, beautiful, funny, and he can see himself dating me. Its still so early. I am still kind of playing hard to get and I said maybe on Valentines Day I'll do something special if we make it. He invited me to stay over so what do you think are the limits/do's and donts?
How long should you wait before you let a Leo devour you?

They would bang you on the first night if you let them but I will tell you what my leo said about first date sex. "I don't like women that give it up fast it makes me feel as if anyone can have her if I got it quickly." This is the same guy who couldn't stop hugging and kissing me on our first date and thankfully I survived it without ending up on my back.
Do it when you're ready and not a moment sooner. The chemistry I am sure is amazing but wait until he has established a relationship and value for you first. Words are just words until then. I am holding out because I need to build up trust with him and all he can do is respect that.
Do it when you're ready and not a moment sooner. The chemistry I am sure is amazing but wait until he has established a relationship and value for you first. Words are just words until then. I am holding out because I need to build up trust with him and all he can do is respect that.
Posted by EveryOunceThank you for the advice, how long have you been seeing each other? I am planning on holding out for the same reasons.
They would bang you on the first night if you let them but I will tell you what my leo said about first date sex. "I don't like women that give it up fast it makes me feel as if anyone can have her if I got it quickly." This is the same guy who couldn't stop hugging and kissing me on our first date and thankfully I survived it without ending up on my back.
Do it when you're ready and not a moment sooner. The chemistry I am sure is amazing but wait until he has established a relationship and value for you first. Words are just words until then. I am holding out because I need to build up trust with him and all he can do is respect that.

Posted by Saggie1220We had our first date last night and been communicating by phone for about a month. He has made it clear that he is only looking to get to know me and that he wants me to be in the same head space which I am.Posted by EveryOunceThank you for the advice, how long have you been seeing each other? I am planning on holding out for the same reasons.
They would bang you on the first night if you let them but I will tell you what my leo said about first date sex. "I don't like women that give it up fast it makes me feel as if anyone can have her if I got it quickly." This is the same guy who couldn't stop hugging and kissing me on our first date and thankfully I survived it without ending up on my back.
Do it when you're ready and not a moment sooner. The chemistry I am sure is amazing but wait until he has established a relationship and value for you first. Words are just words until then. I am holding out because I need to build up trust with him and all he can do is respect that.
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You have to take your time with ANY guy, you want them to be somewhat emotionally invested in you before they sleep with you (if a relationship is what you want) from my experience
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