AriesFireKnight
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How you make a Leo stop hating you
You can't make her stop hating you, but she probably doesn't actually hate you in the first place. She might be thinking of ways to MAKE you get over her, especially since she can't get rid of your presence for a while. She wants you to hit the delete and reset button completely and probably feels that you haven't. She might also be kicking herself for showing you any vulnerability and/or ever feeling any towards you. You're just going to have to absorb it. I would say soak it up and let it be transformational to you in some way (positive). You might get a chance to clear the air with her later, but that's just it.. LATER.
Posted by AriElla7I think you're just right dude with a cute profile pic :3 I have a leo guy that is my friend too and I know that this sign is just damn hard headed, so I guess if I follow her vibe she will somehow turn to be ok.
You can't make her stop hating you, but she probably doesn't actually hate you in the first place. She might be thinking of ways to MAKE you get over her, especially since she can't get rid of your presence for a while. She wants you to hit the delete and reset button completely and probably feels that you haven't. She might also be kicking herself for showing you any vulnerability and/or ever feeling any towards you. You're just going to have to absorb it. I would say soak it up and let it be transformational to you in some way (positive). You might get a chance to clear the air with her later, but that's just it.. LATER.
The thing is that I'm a restless guy and I always look after solutions in the present time and i feel really bad when I know I have an unsolved thing going on. My perfect scenario will be just her saying: " we're ok, lets pretend that nothing happened and get rid of this awkward tension" and in this way I will not feel like someone is constantly judging my inner state and I could push that reset button you were talking about much more easier.
To be honest, the fact that she rejects me make me more interested in her than in the period she was friendly with me and I have the feeling that this certain thing make everything worse. Is that trill of the hunt that I crave for as an aries, even that I know the situation is pretty messed up. Whats your advice in this situation?
I read your story. The thing is a Leo can tell when someone is trying to manipulate us. It's the gift of being born right after cancer, we have good intuition. If she feels like you are trying to make a fool out of her her pride will stay up and it may never come down. The thing is you ARE trying to make a fool out of her and this is why she "hates" you. You weren't interested to begin with so why string her along? She initiated she was interested first and you knew from your friends she was and you still doubted her and tried to make her look foolish for liking you. She noticed this and immediately said she was not interested in a relationship with you. You took this as she's hurt, and she may be but at the same time she knows you are playing with her emotions and she doesn't want to get involved anymore. It seems to me like you want her to chase you but you already ruined anything good that could happen out of this. Even if she decided to pursue something with you the games you have played will haunt her and I really don't see this ending well. I think you should let her be.
Posted by MoonshineLeoOk, you are mistaking here. I wasn't the one to start the conflict, and for sure I wasn't trying to make a fool of her in any real life situation. I was very nice to her (I'm not that nice with ppl I just met but I was with her). All the problem emerged from her telling me the "old boyfriend and relationship" excuse just to reject me in a typical girly way, and this is understable, most girls do this kind of stuff... WRONG, it wasn't right because I didn't told her I like her or so, I've just been nice with her, giving her attention and a kiss on the cheek one time I left her at her home. It was an awkward situation, I didn't felt like going for physical contact but she goes in for a hug, so I kissed her on the cheek especially for her to notice that we are just damn friends for now. That's was all.
I read your story. The thing is a Leo can tell when someone is trying to manipulate us. It's the gift of being born right after cancer, we have good intuition. If she feels like you are trying to make a fool out of her her pride will stay up and it may never come down. The thing is you ARE trying to make a fool out of her and this is why she "hates" you. You weren't interested to begin with so why string her along? She initiated she was interested first and you knew from your friends she was and you still doubted her and tried to make her look foolish for liking you. She noticed this and immediately said she was not interested in a relationship with you. You took this as she's hurt, and she may be but at the same time she knows you are playing with her emotions and she doesn't want to get involved anymore. It seems to me like you want her to chase you but you already ruined anything good that could happen out of this. Even if she decided to pursue something with you the games you have played will haunt her and I really don't see this ending well. I think you should let her be.
The fact that she told me that, hurt me because it was a stupid and premature rejection and I was offended because of it, so I was very blunt about the situation she was right then. This particular thing made her to feel like a fool, because she was so pridefull to reject someone that wasn't that interested. I didn't joked on her, or done anything else than bluntly present her the situation so she could realise how stupid she was acting.
Then I ignored her until I've cleared my mind. That's all I'm guilty of.
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Leos don't hate, they despise.
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