I am a Leo Man ask me anything! (Page 6)

Hi Leo man,

I'm a Gemini girl who has falling in love with Leo man from the first sign. I had been dating 2 Aries guys but non of them can bring me this feeling. Actually we was dating for over a week. Everything was great. We just meet in the wrong time, he's planing moving to LA and I'm planing moving to NYC. We both have a strong feeling and deep down we know that we are really compatible. But today he texted me and told me that we shoulnt keep hanging out bcuz he is not ready for anything serious ( he just get out relationship on April) and he said if we keep dating then everything will become serious. It's hurt me, I know he was right, we shouldnt. He want completely disconnect but I convince him that at least we should keep in touch. He said he's ok with that.

I know it's stupid to give a hope in a Leo man since we both moving away but when I look into his eyes I know he is the one. Do you think that is a good idea to keep in touch with him? Can I develop relationship in long distance with him? And anyone out there who had been in relationship with Leo, especially on and off pls give me advice

Thank you

If a Leo man wants to disconnect, it only means he really is not into it. Just let it go 🙂

Posted by osiris626
If a Leo man wants to disconnect, it only means he really is not into it. Just let it go 🙂

If He wasnt really into it why would he texted me everyday? and treat me like a queen? He told me about his family or is it just a game? He told me he just get out a long term relationship about 4 months ago, he is not ready for anything serious and he dont wanna date me cuz he know he will get serious about it and it could end up he move away and we broke up .

Hey, I have a question, I recently reconnected with a leo sun/taurus moon about 2 months back. He straight away told me he had a crush on me when we were in class (about 10 years back!)and asked if i was seeing anyone. I said it was complicated and we left it at that and spoke about other things.

Since we both lead extremely busy lives we've talked only a couple of times on weekends. During texting he starting sending me hearts and kissy faces and roses. (I know it's silly and juvenile but in our country we don't just do that)
At first i ignored them but a few of days ago i told him that things are complicated at my end and i didn't want to make him uncomfortable but i can't reciprocate the flirting and i don't just want to lead him on either.
He said it was cool and stopped replying.

I said hey, about 2 days later and he hasn't replied.

What i'm asking is, did i hurt his ego? or now that he knows i'm not available for dating, he wont even talk to me anymore?
He seems like a nice guy, I'd like to be friends with him.

(I'm sorry, my post got posted like 5 times, i had to hide the extra ones, how do i delete them?)

(I'm sorry, my post got posted like 5 times, i had to hide the extra ones, how do i delete them?)

I am a aqua.. and my friend is a leo, he havent been his self since we gotten into an argument , and the nite of labor day we had a date which he cancel and when I went by his house he had antoher car in the driveway , he told me he misses me , and then he ask why I unfriend him on facebook , but he want say anything else, should I call him cause I called and text til Saturday nite and he said to stop calling and texting cause he was trying to sleep so i havent bother him since.. what u think i should do

Should I call my leo male who we been friends since I was 10 recently gotten back in contact for the last 4 years and been dating since the last year , however we gotten into an argument labor day weekend and saything this , we are in two different state 4 hours away but havent been himself now he has call me or text but he will respond to my text .. I saw a car in his driveway the last day of my visist which he told me he head something to do and wasant going to be at home , but he tells me we are friends and he misses me, then he thought I unfriend him on facebook and ask me why ? what should i do

Posted by ninaP
Hey, I have a question, I recently reconnected with a leo sun/taurus moon about 2 months back. He straight away told me he had a crush on me when we were in class (about 10 years back!)and asked if i was seeing anyone. I said it was complicated and we left it at that and spoke about other things.

Since we both lead extremely busy lives we've talked only a couple of times on weekends. During texting he starting sending me hearts and kissy faces and roses. (I know it's silly and juvenile but in our country we don't just do that)
At first i ignored them but a few of days ago i told him that things are complicated at my end and i didn't want to make him uncomfortable but i can't reciprocate the flirting and i don't just want to lead him on either.
He said it was cool and stopped replying.

I said hey, about 2 days later and he hasn't replied.

What i'm asking is, did i hurt his ego? or now that he knows i'm not available for dating, he wont even talk to me anymore?
He seems like a nice guy, I'd like to be friends with him.

Who wants to be 'just friends' with someone they have a big fat crush on?

Torture!

Leave him be, if your situation is too complicated. 🙂

Posted by Montgomery

Posted by ninaP
Hey, I have a question, I recently reconnected with a leo sun/taurus moon about 2 months back. He straight away told me he had a crush on me when we were in class (about 10 years back!)and asked if i was seeing anyone. I said it was complicated and we left it at that and spoke about other things.
Since we both lead extremely busy lives we've talked only a couple of times on weekends. During texting he starting sending me hearts and kissy faces and roses. (I know it's silly and juvenile but in our country we don't just do that)
At first i ignored them but a few of days ago i told him that things are complicated at my end and i didn't want to make him uncomfortable but i can't reciprocate the flirting and i don't just want to lead him on either.
He said it was cool and stopped replying.
I said hey, about 2 days later and he hasn't replied.
What i'm asking is, did i hurt his ego? or now that he knows i'm not available for dating, he wont even talk to me anymore?
He seems like a nice guy, I'd like to be friends with him.

Who wants to be 'just friends' with someone they have a big fat crush on?
Torture!
Leave him be, if your situation is too complicated. 🙂

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torture for him. Big cats don't like that, even if you believe it is good in your heart that keeping him at arms length is "humanitarian" for you. Nope. It is NOT. You're dealing with someone's heart and soul. Let him find another woman who wants him 100% all of him. My husband has Leo planets, and he cut off his ex's. Same here with me. There is no room for people who have "feelings" that are romantic for you. Move on lady.

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Posted by Montgomery

Posted by ninaP
Hey, I have a question, I recently reconnected with a leo sun/taurus moon about 2 months back. He straight away told me he had a crush on me when we were in class (about 10 years back!)and asked if i was seeing anyone. I said it was complicated and we left it at that and spoke about other things.
Since we both lead extremely busy lives we've talked only a couple of times on weekends. During texting he starting sending me hearts and kissy faces and roses. (I know it's silly and juvenile but in our country we don't just do that)
At first i ignored them but a few of days ago i told him that things are complicated at my end and i didn't want to make him uncomfortable but i can't reciprocate the flirting and i don't just want to lead him on either.
He said it was cool and stopped replying.
I said hey, about 2 days later and he hasn't replied.
What i'm asking is, did i hurt his ego? or now that he knows i'm not available for dating, he wont even talk to me anymore?
He seems like a nice guy, I'd like to be friends with him.

Who wants to be 'just friends' with someone they have a big fat crush on?
Torture!
Leave him be, if your situation is too complicated. 🙂

+100000
torture for him. Big cats don't like that, even if you believe it is good in your heart that keeping him at arms length is "humanitarian" for you. Nope. It is NOT. You're dealing with someone's heart and soul. Let him find another woman who wants him 100% all of him. My husband has Leo planets, and he cut off his ex's. Same here with me. There is no room for people who have "feelings" that are romantic for you. Move on lady.

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Good to have you back.

@Mont 😆 😄



kitten powah!! 😄

Leoman, I was dating a leo guy who I let move in with me from living with his daughters mother and his baby. He told me he hated her and that she gets him mad to the point where he wants to punch her. She is also a leo. Is there a chance of her getting him back? I worry about it because he goes to spend the night sometime. We recently had a little disagreement and he left and didn't call for 2 days. I put him out and now he's back over there. We have talked since then and he says it was best to not come back because he wants to be around his his kids. How can I get him back?

I'm a cappy girl and I met a leo/virgo man cusp. He said he loves me even if we've only just met. He seems real. Hahahah
Does he mean it? What do you think?

Posted by theleoman
Great post !

I'm a confused and in love. Ive been seeing this leo woman for about a month. We started out as really really close friends by the 4th day I was kissing her passionately. Problem is she has a boyfriend a sag for the past 3 years, she connects with me emotionally and physically. How should I handle this? I love her very very much. I'm not gonna run the other way I'm not a coward!

I have 1 and i'll try and get straight to the point as I'm mindful of ur time in attending to ur fan club 😉. I'm married to a Virgo am a taurus woman with 52 leos around me 40 family others friends Prior to hub I've only been engaged and dated leos for whatever the reason they r drawn to me (I/ mutually ended things) however 1 (I'm only now hung up on 1 we were involved 24 yrs ago I feel something is incomplete as we were too young and immature and not ready for the electricity between us (his words) anyway he's my child's godfather (we have stayed at arms length and been respectful) however since he broke off a 6 yr relationship (she apparently looked like me) and I'm about to dissolve my marriage - we r working together on family things all the time including sorting out my house - he has always watched out been protective of me - next he has volunteered to do everything possible for me and my son we r even cleaning up my new home together - my mother just died and hub could not cope with it all so my child's godfather stepped in to be by my side thru the whole ordeal (when he found out about my mother dying we both cried). We r next working on my building project together again he is doing this so I'm safe with my son and not stressed (no he's not a builder this is in his spare time in between his work hours. We will be spending every day - night - eating together and making decisions on the house together for the next 8 months or more however long it takes- he is also getting involved with my sons school activities- everything my hub cannot cope with he is doing. Hub is always around with these things except he's always out of it or passed out. In my leos words (his concern is for me then my son) - now that u have the history - my question is when the time is right how do I bring up the topic of us --- or am I just wasting heart beats and our friends and family r wrong about him liking me and wanting to approach me but won't do it now because I am still married. Believe me now that we are a lot older i think we both like the adults we have become from 24 yrs ago. I tend to feel he's just being a good friend and we will stay in the friends zone - he does want what I want ---- I'm confused I say he's a friend others see more.. Which is it?

^ I just want to ask, if you and your husband are planning for a divorce. Because maybe, just maybe, this Leo man is indeed in love with you, but then can't step in because you are still married.

Also, I want to ask, what do you feel for him?

My hub is into some weird things which is a bad influence on my child and family -- he refuses to seek treatment. Truthfully, I feel 1 kiss will reveal everything. (Because I feel now he's just being a good friend and helping me however if we kissed we r no more in the friends zone so In honesty it would be starting from the beginning and becoming reacquainted as more than friends.. This time I would welcome and not reject his caring respectful attention affection towards me in addition i would reciprocate his tender loving nature - I was way too firey 24 yrs ago - his words I was too scary - now he says ur the best most special woman I know apart from his mum sister and niece) I have never been clingy or possessive with any Man - he used to get under my skin - I had never met a man who was completely selfless and has not ever said yes or no he's just always there when I need him -- I was young and naive he taught me how to feel close to a man.... I thought it was just about sex however the more he got to know me the more he started to care about me and my family ---- so when he got too close after the 3rd year of us seeing each other I realised I could not care about him the same way and that he deserved a more giving woman than me.. I always thought about me at the time I was more important but then over the years we both have shared our vulnerable side with each other even though we were both just married then - we have always written to each other sharing deep thoughts even if we did not talk on the phone often and now our situation it is what it is..

My sexual experience with Leo men kinky definitely but I'm a lot more kinky than them and yeah curiosity kills the cat - injuries and all we still stayed together - it's that intrinsic connection - once ur win their heart no escape - ur treated like no other woman 😉

Hi leoman - can u offer some advice - my leo man as usual everytime I need him he's there however since my mothers funeral yesterday (he was there and said I looked beautiful) I have not heard from him .. We r in the same social and work circle (he has not been online for 3 days (most unusual) - his work assoc and friends have not heard from him either (they contacted me yesterday and today our history apparently indicates that I'm the only 1 who can influence him in a positive way) - I have sent him a couple of emails and a couple of texts (i very rarely chase him unless his friends work assoc plead for him to contact them.... so given he and I are embarking on a building project next week - many contractors wanted to talk to him - I don't know what to do - could my mothers death funeral have affected him - I know I'm affected by it all.

I have one Mr.Leo , okay so the first time this leo guy and i layed eyes on eachother it was as if we were looking right thru eachother heart. And every since than its like whenever we see eachother the eye contact is just soo, i cant explain it but i see it in his eyes that he wants me just as bad as i want him, but he has yet to approach me as far as askin me out, so my question is whats the deal?,lol should i approach him or play this lil cat and mouse game a lil longer

Make urself irresistible to him the way u look compose urself make him feel proud of u - mark him meaning - ask him about him - praise his good side - admire his achievements but each time ur with him u make the eloquent exit - leos love romance --- thru psychology it makes him think of u more rather than giving away ur power to throw urself at him if he's like my past leos (they have many admirers willing to do that - so u have to stand out - many leos r most patient for the right woman)

Posted by RITA170570
Hi leoman - can u offer some advice - my leo man as usual everytime I need him he's there however since my mothers funeral yesterday (he was there and said I looked beautiful) I have not heard from him .. We r in the same social and work circle (he has not been online for 3 days (most unusual) - his work assoc and friends have not heard from him either (they contacted me yesterday and today our history apparently indicates that I'm the only 1 who can influence him in a positive way) - I have sent him a couple of emails and a couple of texts (i very rarely chase him unless his friends work assoc plead for him to contact them.... so given he and I are embarking on a building project next week - many contractors wanted to talk to him - I don't know what to do - could my mothers death funeral have affected him - I know I'm affected by it all.

. All good on my end - he needed some time out after my mums funeral (where he was there was no reception) and out of the 200 messages he received from everyone - he skimmed thru them and called me first - he was worried I might be too stressed with everything going on 🙂

😉 Got it. Thanks for that. Im excited but patient to see where this could go, i KNOW its gonna be worth it.

Truthfully if u want him back - give him what he wants (I don't mean throw urself all over him and pamper his ego) male psychology is very different to females - leos love to feel respected and admired -however the act lies with how it's done.. Of ur on person look at him straight in the eye and change ur tone - praise him as an equal not a plaything telling him how hot he is (don't get me wrong he'll get a kick out of it) but he won't take things that seriously [this is my experience with leo males in my family]

Forgiveness accept u were young and naive

Pardon my ignorance what's the distinction between an evolved and an unevolved leo - what are the signs

Hi Mr.Leo. Are Leos good matches for Libra girls like me? I like a Leo but what's a good way to attract him??

I'm a Capricorn woman and she is a Leo woman

We met online, went on our first date.
Things between us got intimate on the first night. (: (I love ya'll Leo women) lol.
Well everything was going right....until I realize I left my phone in her car. :/
I told her that i left my phone in her car, and she went through it. (at least I was assuming at the time)

Two days of texting her and she has gone MUTE!
I felt a little weird about it all.
So the next day she texted me randomly going off about the things she seen in my phone.

She told me how she never wanted to speak to me again and how i'm like everybody else.
She did offer to bring my phone, but she ends up standing me up.
I know Leo's are serious about loyalty and trust.
so i was thinking about going by her job buy some roses/teddy bear and writing her a poem sincerely.
I just wan't to prove to her that i'm sorry and that i'm different, and that she has my attention.

What should i do——?

Posted by RITA170570
Pardon my ignorance what's the distinction between an evolved and an unevolved leo - what are the signs

I'd like to know this too actually...

Seriously ladies - leo men need their space it can be a lot or a little - keep the lines of communication open sporadically but with no pressure and try to make that elequent exit first - it makes them think of u more - remember they don't like to be alone - they love praise and admiration - u need to be as independent as u can be concerned with ur own interests ur own presence he will come to u if he knows he's been respected as ur man (how they feel that depends on them) - the reward for you comes a lot later - a man needs to feel respected and not inadequate - think of a lion as an animal he is king of the jungle - he has many duties to fulfil for himself however he always belongs to his pride and will defend his pride and know sometimes he likes to be a playful kitty cat (which we love about them but on the most part they're a lion)

No response yet re: distinction between unevolved leo and evolved leo

Still awaiting ur reply - re distinction between unevolved leos and evolved leos

No I'm a taurus - with 48 leos including newborns 52 who surround me every day - hub is a Virgo - sorry for the repeat messages computer not working

Something is going on with my ex leo man - I see talk to him a lot and boy does he protect and think highly of me - tells everyone - must be my girly girly side (no idea) anyway today I saw after 24 yrs an ex wife and a 6 year ex girlfriend - he is still wearing my ring (when we got together that day and exposed our vulnerable side to each other we went to a flee market laughed bought this ring.and cherished a very long intimate night then I realised I was not ready to give myself completely as in emotionally to him i decided I was not the woman for him I could nt cope with all the constant attention and affection we mutually parted but always stayed close (I think I had trust issues - he continued to value me) So because of who I am I asked him when I saw it in a photo last year (he said I love this ring and what it represents - I will not ever take it off even when it broke I had it re soldered) so today he went to give me his business card and was shaking --- I still have his pearl which was turned into a ring with a diamond but in a box. So yeah I have no idea does he like me as a friend - a fuck buddy or has a possible genuine interest in me for something more and thru becoming more and more reacquainted he will know if he wants something more - I truly feel he's being polite and a good friend however I'm a firm believer if a man wants u he will make it known and be obvious - moveountains and show u ---- dilemma I'm about to break up with hub and he's broken up with his ex of 6 yrs

Ok everything was going gr8 - communication - friendship and then it turns out he has invited me out a few times with him and work associates and clients however our computers were playing up and I never got his invitations (I still think he sees me as a good friend nothing more). Anyway he contacted me 3 times today in his own way he said he needed me there however I had some legal stuff to attend to with his friend (he's a lawyer) so I arrived in the end of my leos gathering he still acted polite and introduced me to his colleagues and clients (just like old times) however he needed me to be there at the beginning which bruised him a little however he requests 'every 3 months he has get-togethers with clients and additional work associates he wants me there every time' and the in between his work and flying out to supervise and monitor work done - he's at my house doing everything for me.. What this means I have no idea - may be a job offer in the future 🙂

My question is will I win my leo over to become involved with me romantically and lovingly or is it just a sex thing he wants with me

Posted by RITA170570
My question is will I win my leo over to become involved with me romantically and lovingly or is it just a sex thing he wants with me

Not usually.. If you've had sex with them already then it's very unlikely you will "win a Leo over" into an exclusive and romantic relationship - they usually already park you in their heads as to what you're about and they're pretty fixed about that!

Ok thx for the reply sorry I'm still confused ----- out of the blue he called me before flying out for work - he's worried about me - I dealing with someone in a business arrangement who rubs me the wrong way - my leo stood up for me yesterday and swore at this guy for calling me troublesome - any way the last conversation with my leo a few minutes ago was 'good luck on today (this guy today is a .......!) I want u to know I'm here for you - Rita u know I will take care of u' I replied 'I know it's a business thing - thank u' he then said 'u know to me ur more that.... Leaving now - know I'm there with u today - anything u need let me know - I call u and email u - then when I get back next week then I'll come over and see u - make sure ur ok - I know u will be great today I have complete faith in u - remember I'm here for u Rita ciao'
All this aside we were involved 24 yrs ago we were extremely young we were each others first adult intimate relationship we grew together in 3 years thats how long it lasted on and off - I just was so closed back then in being in something serious.. So that was the last time that sex came into play for us (then one very long night - his words of 'wild passionate lovemaking' - everything changed he described it as 'a soul filling experience' he never knew 'our souls would melt into 1' we both not ever in our life experienced this - the next day we were literally inseparable we got a gift to commemorate our union - him a puzzle ring (his words the puzzle is now complete) and me a heart shape box with symbolic pearls (my name means pearl until he could afford to give me a real one) in side was his house key (his words the key to my heart) --- that night I thought I can't do this I will hurt him with my present distrust issues - it's better he be with someone else only after last year he confessed no other woman has been like me - he thought his recent girlfriend who he broke up with would be like me but I she was not - because I'm me no one is like me or him for that matter. To cut an extremely long story short - he has never taken the ring off unless to get fixed from that night.. I don't have a clue what goes thru a leos mind when he values a woman so highly and been involved with before - he was also talking to our mutual friends about me again last night.

Do u think I'm wrong to think he sees me just as a good friend or is it what friends and family see where they feel things are happening slowly because I'm about to

Ok thx for the reply sorry I'm still confused ----- out of the blue he called me before flying out for work - he's worried about me - I dealing with someone in a business arrangement who rubs me the wrong way - my leo stood up for me yesterday and swore at this guy for calling me troublesome - any way the last conversation with my leo a few minutes ago was 'good luck on today (this guy today is a .......!) I want u to know I'm here for you - Rita u know I will take care of u' I replied 'I know it's a business thing - thank u' he then said 'u know to me ur more that.... Leaving now - know I'm there with u today - anything u need let me know - I call u and email u - then when I get back next week then I'll come over and see u - make sure ur ok - I know u will be great today I have complete faith in u - remember I'm here for u Rita ciao'
All this aside we were involved 24 yrs ago we were extremely young we were each others first adult intimate relationship we grew together in 3 years thats how long it lasted on and off - I just was so closed back then in being in something serious.. So that was the last time that sex came into play for us (then one very long night - his words of 'wild passionate lovemaking' - everything changed he described it as 'a soul filling experience' he never knew 'our souls would melt into 1' we both not ever in our life experienced this - the next day we were literally inseparable we got a gift to commemorate our union - him a puzzle ring (his words the puzzle is now complete) and me a heart shape box with symbolic pearls (my name means pearl until he could afford to give me a real one) in side was his house key (his words the key to my heart) --- that night I thought I can't do this I will hurt him with my present distrust issues - it's better he be with someone else only after last year he confessed no other woman has been like me - he thought his recent girlfriend who he broke up with would be like me but I she was not - because I'm me no one is like me or him for that matter. To cut an extremely long story short - he has never taken the ring off unless to get fixed from that night.. I don't have a clue what goes thru a leos mind when he values a woman so highly and been involved with before - he was also talking to our mutual friends about me again last night.

CONTINUED.... Having pc issues.. Sorry

Back to my situation..


Do u think I'm wrong to think he sees me just as a good friend or is it what friends and family see where they feel things are happening slowly because I'm about to dissolve my marriage and he's just come out of a long term relationship (my break up has nothing to do with him - my hub is severely ill won't admit there's a problem and won't get help therefore my baby boy and I live constantly in fear of what my hub will do next (I don't want to deal with police psych emergency teams ongoing ambulances anymore - I have no more fight in me - my hub is to take the journey on his own) my baby boy and I deserve a real settled functioning loving life

Still awaiting some feedback leoman

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Posted by RITA170570
My question is will I win my leo over to become involved with me romantically and lovingly or is it just a sex thing he wants with me

Not usually.. If you've had sex with them already then it's very unlikely you will "win a Leo over" into an exclusive and romantic relationship - they usually already park you in their heads as to what you're about and they're pretty fixed about that!

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So tell me leoman what's going on with my leo he's been contacting me more than 3 times a day every day even now where he's travelling he contacted me at 4:16 am today letting m know every day what he's doing where he is and telling me he cares about my son and me and how he just wants to know how I am.. He has just asked me to go to his place so he and I can discuss vent all our personal private thoughts without Interruptions. (It's time to have a
heart to heart as a private meeting). I told him I'm dissolving my marriage 3 days ago hence he's requested we have this private meeting tonight at his house [i always say i will not cross that line (I don't even know why I'm saying when I'm sure he just sees me as a friend)

The funny thing is 24 years ago when I last was at his house - we literally had endless sex (his words we made wild endless passionate love to one another) but may be since it was 24 us ago (he's forgotten) who knows how many women he's had he's now single and I'm married although not for long --- today is my wedding anniversary my hub did not even acknowledge me (lights r on no ones home) my leo is so angry with my hub his words 'why is he not loving and treating his wife like a spacial woman deserves to be treated' 'what is he not loving his wife like she deserves to be loved' I just cried and said 'overall I married the wrong man' and he said 'I married the eying woman'..... Can someone help me make sense of all this?

I married the wrong woman he said

Anyway it will be at his place next week - him saying he's back with his ex - him not seeing me that way - I'm no longer an interest that way - me having a child would be something he won't take on or consider - my hub and family presents too much - he's been seeing someone or he just wants to stay single (i agree with my leo it's too hard to talk openly from the heart in public or the phone)

Or he no longer attracted to me who knows

Posted by BeautifulLoyalty
I'm a Taurus woman and I've been talking to a Leo man for about a month now. His birthday is coming up and I was thinking about doing a sexy photo shoot in a gold swim suit and sending it to him in a bday card that showers him with compliments. Being an Aug. 21st Leo, would he like this or is it too inexpensive and not up to the standards of luxury that Leos like?

what present did u go for..

As for my situation as much I would love wish for him to have strong feelings towards me however as u said 'a leo never goes back' so I stay in the friends zone;(

My leo an is the one who keeps reaching out to me everyday more than 3 times a day - spending loads of money on me - requesting I always be by his side at events (so if its sex he wants like u said he has his admirers (women r dime a dozen for him) - I will allow him to do his whatever protective thing with my son [i hope 1 day he will cave and tell show me how deeply he feels towards me but until then we just express a tight friendship.