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Okay, I have a question for you. It may have already been asked, but what the hay. I cba to go through all of these posts right now. But anyway, my question is: as one person, why do you think you can speak on the behalf of all Leo men?
Posted by FireDragonScorpio
hmmmm...deliciously filthy 😛
I wish they had like buttons on these forums.... iLike! I know the filthiest Leo.... can't get enough of him!
Forget about what he's thinking, what the hell are you thinking? Hoping to grow on him like a fungus? Make him love his fungal appendages?
^Lmao! Wow, you're in bed and he doesn't initiate? The problem is you've laid yourself out on a silver platter and what comes easily is easily taken advantage of. Get some self respect if you want a real relationship and make the guy prove himself to you before hopping into bed.
I've just come out from a marriage and seriously speaking thinking it was just for fun.. But it is affecting me more than expected. I had thought that i will just do wat ever i wanted for a while.. But had accidentally let emotions get the better side of me. You guys can judge all you want but you have no idea how hard this whole year has been for me and everything that i had to go through....
Sorry I was harsh Libragurly but sometimes it's the only way to get through to people. But look at it this way, you kind of did this to yourself by getting involved without thinking you'd get involved which is not logical but understandable when your emotions are awry. Get away from him and get yourself in a better place. Sending positive vibes your way! 😉
Donna's sorry too. She's sitting here looking at me with those big puppy dog eyes. Is that a tear? Oh noesssss!
I have tried previously to stay away from him, but never seems to work. Those times when i've talked to him i felt that i needed to stay away and just remain normal friends but he seems to get me around his finger again.
I had one potential guy who really cared about me and liked me... but i made myself distant and lost him because of my buddy.
Last night i went out on a date with someone that remembers where i use to work 6 years ago even though i didnt know him then. But all i could think about was my buddy... It is really affecting me a lot. The past couple of days he hasnt really been talking to me like he normally does and its driving me crazy. Every time my phone lights up i get disappointed in hoping that it is him but its not.
i had asked him if something was wrong and he just told me he needs his own time as well. I have tried to refrain from contacting him first but for the past month he calls me in the morning first so later on during the day i would see him a message saying thank you. In a way it was also an excuse to be in contact with him.
i had thought that things between us were slowly developing, but then these couple of days of him being cold again is driving me insane. i know it is my own fault by getting involved and thinking i wouldnt get involved but i think it has come to a point when i think i have fallen way to far... at the beginning he was my run to person when ever i was upset and i guess i let myself get to comfortable with him.
I had one potential guy who really cared about me and liked me... but i made myself distant and lost him because of my buddy.
Last night i went out on a date with someone that remembers where i use to work 6 years ago even though i didnt know him then. But all i could think about was my buddy... It is really affecting me a lot. The past couple of days he hasnt really been talking to me like he normally does and its driving me crazy. Every time my phone lights up i get disappointed in hoping that it is him but its not.
i had asked him if something was wrong and he just told me he needs his own time as well. I have tried to refrain from contacting him first but for the past month he calls me in the morning first so later on during the day i would see him a message saying thank you. In a way it was also an excuse to be in contact with him.
i had thought that things between us were slowly developing, but then these couple of days of him being cold again is driving me insane. i know it is my own fault by getting involved and thinking i wouldnt get involved but i think it has come to a point when i think i have fallen way to far... at the beginning he was my run to person when ever i was upset and i guess i let myself get to comfortable with him.
Hi Leoman, it would be good if you could help me with this situation. I've recently met a Leo man and we spent great time together, in fact he was really acting all "leoish" in his courtship, he brought me to all the romantic places and treated me like a queen, we shared many laughs together and many people thought we were really 'connected' and had a fun personality together. The thing is I couldn't spend more time with him because I had to leave for another country, I didn't want to remain in contact at first but he insisted on asking for my email. I didn't at all like to become emotionally attached to anyone and hence decided to not keep in contact, however I'm also missing him and wonder if I should email him, we never talked about any of our feelings but he did imply that he would like to see me again before I left. I just felt really happy when I was with him because he did many nice things to make me happy and feel adored while I actually did hardly anything for him, except offer some jokes and my company. I'm not sure what to do, whether I should drop him a note or go back to see him. I don't know how he feels because we never shared any of our feelings. I would like to know if he is "serious" about this and would like something more before I decide to write him.
Hi Leoman,
I am Virgo. I met this Leo guy and we were talking to each other about 2 months. I been married for 19 years and in the process of getting a divorce. I told him I don't know if I am ready to get into a relationship. I have broke it off with him 7 times in the last 2 months. This last time I guess he had it. It was basically because he felt I did not trust him. I asked him a question he told me the answer but there was a misunderstanding and I had to find out on my own. He did not like that. It amazes me that I suppose to trust him within 2 month after a hurtful marriage. Is he thinking about himself and not considering my situation? Anyways I apologize, told him he was right and etc. Told him I missed him. Haven't heard from him. So I decided that I not going to call him I tried and he didn't respond. I did a lot of special things for him and he was very impressed with me and how I handle things. He always told me that what he loves about me. I called it off because he called me cancerous. I am not sure what that means but I know it wasn't nice. I told him that he is going to let his pride get in the way of us. I said pride leads to destruction. I told him to man up and tell me if it is over. He responded told me I didn't trust him and I was the one who called it off. Which is true. However, he can just cut me off like this? So my question is by ignoring him would that bother him? or has he moved on? or thinking? Do I want him back sort of kind of. I kind of want to have the last word and would like to know how he feels. What do you think Leoman?
I am Virgo. I met this Leo guy and we were talking to each other about 2 months. I been married for 19 years and in the process of getting a divorce. I told him I don't know if I am ready to get into a relationship. I have broke it off with him 7 times in the last 2 months. This last time I guess he had it. It was basically because he felt I did not trust him. I asked him a question he told me the answer but there was a misunderstanding and I had to find out on my own. He did not like that. It amazes me that I suppose to trust him within 2 month after a hurtful marriage. Is he thinking about himself and not considering my situation? Anyways I apologize, told him he was right and etc. Told him I missed him. Haven't heard from him. So I decided that I not going to call him I tried and he didn't respond. I did a lot of special things for him and he was very impressed with me and how I handle things. He always told me that what he loves about me. I called it off because he called me cancerous. I am not sure what that means but I know it wasn't nice. I told him that he is going to let his pride get in the way of us. I said pride leads to destruction. I told him to man up and tell me if it is over. He responded told me I didn't trust him and I was the one who called it off. Which is true. However, he can just cut me off like this? So my question is by ignoring him would that bother him? or has he moved on? or thinking? Do I want him back sort of kind of. I kind of want to have the last word and would like to know how he feels. What do you think Leoman?
hi..i am new to this forum
I really enjoy the company of fire signs in-person, but on these forums they all seem so....simple, and a bit boring. Everything is so surface-level :/
WHERE'S THE DEPTH?
WHERE'S THE DEPTH?
Why do you cheat?
how long can a leo man go without talking to someone he loves... like NC thing....
Why do 98% of the leo guys I encounter urk me? I always just wanna punch them in their smug face..
Tuesday and i told him , when you are ready you know how to find me,,but i wont be waiting for ever
You are .. right but what i seen on his wall tonight i will never want to talk to him again some girl said hey baby i am sorry about last night i will make it up to you . you forgive me ...After seeing that i cant be mad because we are not together but i don't need to waste anymore time
habit but i will
may i ask you a question?
firstly, i'm a libra girl from asia. i'm having a crush with a leo man, and well we're not very close. he once chat with me but it never happen again.
question: is it wrong or not to make the first move? like starting a chat with him? and what type of girl do a leo man like? thank you 🙂
firstly, i'm a libra girl from asia. i'm having a crush with a leo man, and well we're not very close. he once chat with me but it never happen again.
question: is it wrong or not to make the first move? like starting a chat with him? and what type of girl do a leo man like? thank you 🙂
Hello, So a Leo guy contact me for a hook up relationship which I agreed, but then we got to know each other and began having a thing for each other, so went on a date, but on the date we ended up making out, and now all he wants to do is stick to a hook up relationship? Is there anything I could do to get him interested in a real relationship?
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Like, with covert romance and all that stuff women subtly do that men don't always pick up on, then before they know it they've been wifed!
...and don't any men be coming in here saying they knew about it before they did get wifeyed, you know you're lying lol
lol....that's just what happened with me and the crab 'cept it was the other way around....i was 'wifeyed' by HIM!!
Here's one: Do you guys really just idle your engines until your ready for the "responsibility" of a relationship? What if an amazing woman comes along, but you're "not ready"? Do you just let her pass you by? My Leo for some reason seems to think I will wait forever either that or he doesn't really care if I move on although he's super possesive & jealous telling me I belong to him even though we've never more than just kissed lol!
I will answer any Leo questions from now on 😉
Any questions I'm fit to answer as a lion-crab...
Posted by enfant_terrible
Any questions I'm fit to answer as a lion-crab...
Are you on the cusp of Cancer, Enfant?
Hahahaha LMAO @Enfant Terrible.., "I will answer any Leo questions from now on"
Mr. LEOMAN: typical LEO started this thread then it got to messy for his royal higness & RAN for the hills!!! HA!
Mr. LEOMAN: typical LEO started this thread then it got to messy for his royal higness & RAN for the hills!!! HA!
Wow, Leos are crazy. And I might be crazier for being into one myself...
So enfant... let me try you out buddy with a few questions:
1. Maybe it's not Leo specific, but I feel like Leos make excuses for EVERYTHING. And as soon as I challenge their lame excuses, they either get pissed, get quiet or don't call for days... Dad is a leo and I'm "kinda" dating one now and have dated a few in the past... it's the same song. Question is: do I continue to call them on their bull (not everything now, just their bull) in my raw, scathing way (and then give them my love after) or do I soften my approach?
2. I've been introduced to people close to him as everything but the woman he's dating. I feel like a man who is proud to be dating someone would introduce them as special friend or my date or my girl...am I being unrealistic with this expectation? He introduced me to his daughter, a lot of his close friends (not his best friend though, but I think he knows about me) and his Mom knows about me but no arrangement is there to meet yet. I think I can make a strong guess as to why... within the last 4 years, he's gotten divorced and then broke up with his girlfriend (who he calls his friend and who was living with him). I call BULLS*** on the girlfriend thing...I felt like he should've said something to me about it instead of finding out in an odd way. I'm not mean guys, but there is a back story that I'm just not going to get into (unless you people force me into going into it...)
3. Every time I pull back, he pulls forward and I feel like I get weak too soon because he runs cold shortly after I give in (not sexually give in, but making myself available give in). So I'm considering cutting my losses. What are your thoughts about talking to him about it vs. just cutting it off? The "relationship" has come a long way in 1 year and seems like its on track, but he recently introduced me as a coworker (which we are) to his friends. And in my mind I was like, "Coworker? I just gave you a rockin' blowjob!" So I don't take lightly to that.
So enfant... let me try you out buddy with a few questions:
1. Maybe it's not Leo specific, but I feel like Leos make excuses for EVERYTHING. And as soon as I challenge their lame excuses, they either get pissed, get quiet or don't call for days... Dad is a leo and I'm "kinda" dating one now and have dated a few in the past... it's the same song. Question is: do I continue to call them on their bull (not everything now, just their bull) in my raw, scathing way (and then give them my love after) or do I soften my approach?
2. I've been introduced to people close to him as everything but the woman he's dating. I feel like a man who is proud to be dating someone would introduce them as special friend or my date or my girl...am I being unrealistic with this expectation? He introduced me to his daughter, a lot of his close friends (not his best friend though, but I think he knows about me) and his Mom knows about me but no arrangement is there to meet yet. I think I can make a strong guess as to why... within the last 4 years, he's gotten divorced and then broke up with his girlfriend (who he calls his friend and who was living with him). I call BULLS*** on the girlfriend thing...I felt like he should've said something to me about it instead of finding out in an odd way. I'm not mean guys, but there is a back story that I'm just not going to get into (unless you people force me into going into it...)
3. Every time I pull back, he pulls forward and I feel like I get weak too soon because he runs cold shortly after I give in (not sexually give in, but making myself available give in). So I'm considering cutting my losses. What are your thoughts about talking to him about it vs. just cutting it off? The "relationship" has come a long way in 1 year and seems like its on track, but he recently introduced me as a coworker (which we are) to his friends. And in my mind I was like, "Coworker? I just gave you a rockin' blowjob!" So I don't take lightly to that.
leo men we dont from anything we always fight it out
Posted by Libra Chameleon
1. Question is: do I continue to call them on their bull (not everything now, just their bull) in my raw, scathing way (and then give them my love after) or do I soften my approach?
2. I've been introduced to people close to him as everything but the woman he's dating. I feel like a man who is proud to be dating someone would introduce them as special friend or my date or my girl...am I being unrealistic with this expectation?
1. If you feel that you need to call him on his shit all the time, it can either mean the two are you are simply not compatible enough and should consider finding someone you have more in common with spiritually, OR you need to learn how to pick your battles. My two cents.
2. No you're not being unrealistic, but of course it depends if the two of you have defined your relationship as "official"? This may not have anything to do with him being a Leo, but if you want a Leo answer I can only tell you that Leos are usually proud of their girlfriends and WANT to show them off. But if you haven't defined your relationship yet maybe he's scared of your reaction to him introducing you as his gf?
Hello theleoman!
I hope you can help me! I have been having an affair with a Leo male that I work with for 10 months. ( Nobody knows at all, and no i am not ugly! Ppl would be shocked that i was with HIM) We have worked together for over 10 yrs, then one day he just started to be more friendly towards me ,and started to stare at me all the time ! And just generally starting acting really weird! Up to this point I would not have really thought that I liked him, but after he stared into my eyes I can honestly say ... Wow! And then things started to happen between us. Now to be honest when I reflect back this affair was really started a year prior to things ever "happening"with us. He emotionally trapped me in his web! He had called me twice , got me to call him once , and numerous other " small" things. ( I even think he stroked my hair when i was resting in the coffee room , but he DENIES THIS venomously, but when i looked up i seen him quickly leaving the room lol, i woke up feeling loved) He'd Always have coffee with me as well, and go out of his way in general to see me at work , plus would try and work with me. So we would spend 8 hrs a day together. We shared LOTS OF personal things. and became good friends. Then bang ,We are fooling around ! How iI went from staring into his eyes to a " NO RELATIONSHIP, relationship" is beyond ME! ! And the next thing I know our friendship is almost nonexistent , as he used to share stories of his.other Girlfriends, and his personal life, He told me right off the bat " no commitment, no relationship" which i was fine with ....at first . as i am normally very unemotional ( why he picked me maybe?) The more we hooked up the less he shared. I tried to end it three times as I told him I had developed "feelings for him! Once when drunk i said the L word in a text... His response "aww that sucks .. " As he didn't want anything from me he said, so i would Call it quits and tell him it was OVER! Then somehow it was back on— We work together and see each other EVERYDAY! And i remember thinking , why the HELL WOULD HE WANT ME? To hook up with somebody you see everyday? Because seriously 90% of his GF's live out of town.! So they can't " control" him lol. So today i have for the 4th time called it quits. I have " feeling", he has none ? And he has MANY gf''s I found out. HE asked me today why can't I share? I am 8 yrs older, and a Aries/ Taurus cusp. Why WONT he let me go if he has others?
I hope you can help me! I have been having an affair with a Leo male that I work with for 10 months. ( Nobody knows at all, and no i am not ugly! Ppl would be shocked that i was with HIM) We have worked together for over 10 yrs, then one day he just started to be more friendly towards me ,and started to stare at me all the time ! And just generally starting acting really weird! Up to this point I would not have really thought that I liked him, but after he stared into my eyes I can honestly say ... Wow! And then things started to happen between us. Now to be honest when I reflect back this affair was really started a year prior to things ever "happening"with us. He emotionally trapped me in his web! He had called me twice , got me to call him once , and numerous other " small" things. ( I even think he stroked my hair when i was resting in the coffee room , but he DENIES THIS venomously, but when i looked up i seen him quickly leaving the room lol, i woke up feeling loved) He'd Always have coffee with me as well, and go out of his way in general to see me at work , plus would try and work with me. So we would spend 8 hrs a day together. We shared LOTS OF personal things. and became good friends. Then bang ,We are fooling around ! How iI went from staring into his eyes to a " NO RELATIONSHIP, relationship" is beyond ME! ! And the next thing I know our friendship is almost nonexistent , as he used to share stories of his.other Girlfriends, and his personal life, He told me right off the bat " no commitment, no relationship" which i was fine with ....at first . as i am normally very unemotional ( why he picked me maybe?) The more we hooked up the less he shared. I tried to end it three times as I told him I had developed "feelings for him! Once when drunk i said the L word in a text... His response "aww that sucks .. " As he didn't want anything from me he said, so i would Call it quits and tell him it was OVER! Then somehow it was back on— We work together and see each other EVERYDAY! And i remember thinking , why the HELL WOULD HE WANT ME? To hook up with somebody you see everyday? Because seriously 90% of his GF's live out of town.! So they can't " control" him lol. So today i have for the 4th time called it quits. I have " feeling", he has none ? And he has MANY gf''s I found out. HE asked me today why can't I share? I am 8 yrs older, and a Aries/ Taurus cusp. Why WONT he let me go if he has others?
To theleoman ;or any other Leo's
I would also like to add that we would see each other two times a week. ( privately) Never on weekends, and we do not talk or text outside of work. Ever. I also work with LOTS of men, so i tend to have them all over me at work, so anytime he would be making his way to "look" at me himself, i would go out of my way to text him ASAP to reassure him he was the ONLY one for me! If he has others why did he care, why be jealous? Why text me " oh they are flirting with you, they want something for sure! ". I tried to make sure he was NEVER jealous! I always pumped his tires up, complimented him, and raved about how great he was! Yes ,I had a feeling he had "others", but I figured if he was spending so much time with me he eventually fall for me. I am not a cocky , or arrogant person ,so when I say this it is only to state that he would not be embarrassed by me if we were found out, I am told i am VERY pretty , I am exotic looking , " hence" the male attention I get, plus the fact I am 8 yrs older then the Leo but look very young. I work with a good male friend of this Leo who has said he is VERY PICKY, and has high standards, so maybe he is embarrassed by me? Even though he knows I am wanted by many other co- workers! I am by nature a very possessive,, jealous person , which i have hid, as i didnt want to scare him away. So today when he admitted he had lots of women he sees , it broke my heart. I tried to just carry on like I have for these ten months, but well, the hurt is too much. I said it was over (again), And i admitted that I had to " admit" I was a Very jealous and possessive person, not his type at all! He laughed and said "well get over it", and as I said in my first post his reply was "why couldn't I share him? " HELLO Is he even hurt by it ending,where I am bawling my eyes out! what is up with this man? Did he ever like me? Or was I just a filler till he find " the one" . I need to know so I don't end up taking him back, i have fallen hard. Why has he come back when I've done this to him 3 times prior? KNOWING full well i am" in love" ,why hook up with somebody you can never really avoid? Since his history is to only have long distance relationships? i would also like to point out that he approached two men who he thought were seriously interested in me and asked if I slept with them! They are both 10 yrs younger then me as well. And he joked and said they wouldn't want an old woman like m
I would also like to add that we would see each other two times a week. ( privately) Never on weekends, and we do not talk or text outside of work. Ever. I also work with LOTS of men, so i tend to have them all over me at work, so anytime he would be making his way to "look" at me himself, i would go out of my way to text him ASAP to reassure him he was the ONLY one for me! If he has others why did he care, why be jealous? Why text me " oh they are flirting with you, they want something for sure! ". I tried to make sure he was NEVER jealous! I always pumped his tires up, complimented him, and raved about how great he was! Yes ,I had a feeling he had "others", but I figured if he was spending so much time with me he eventually fall for me. I am not a cocky , or arrogant person ,so when I say this it is only to state that he would not be embarrassed by me if we were found out, I am told i am VERY pretty , I am exotic looking , " hence" the male attention I get, plus the fact I am 8 yrs older then the Leo but look very young. I work with a good male friend of this Leo who has said he is VERY PICKY, and has high standards, so maybe he is embarrassed by me? Even though he knows I am wanted by many other co- workers! I am by nature a very possessive,, jealous person , which i have hid, as i didnt want to scare him away. So today when he admitted he had lots of women he sees , it broke my heart. I tried to just carry on like I have for these ten months, but well, the hurt is too much. I said it was over (again), And i admitted that I had to " admit" I was a Very jealous and possessive person, not his type at all! He laughed and said "well get over it", and as I said in my first post his reply was "why couldn't I share him? " HELLO Is he even hurt by it ending,where I am bawling my eyes out! what is up with this man? Did he ever like me? Or was I just a filler till he find " the one" . I need to know so I don't end up taking him back, i have fallen hard. Why has he come back when I've done this to him 3 times prior? KNOWING full well i am" in love" ,why hook up with somebody you can never really avoid? Since his history is to only have long distance relationships? i would also like to point out that he approached two men who he thought were seriously interested in me and asked if I slept with them! They are both 10 yrs younger then me as well. And he joked and said they wouldn't want an old woman like m
Leo man: after becoming best friends with my Leo while in a relationship with a man a broke up with my Leo and I realized how much in love we were. I traveled and lived with his parent for 3 months overseas. He helped me realize and overcome an addiction and we grew stronger. While overseas I promised I wouldn't speak to some of those old influences and not once but twice I responded to a an old "friend" or two and he began checking my Fb messages and not saying anything to me. I confronted him to try and clarify things when he threw all deserving bombs at me (that he found unexceptable). I really have no reason why I didn't just block communication at the time unless that was part of my addiction. He's given me chances and I screwed up. He doesn't think I care for him when I've never had someone love me like he does ever in my life I don't know what's wrong with me and there is nothing I can say. I won't promise and I understand he's disappointed and hurt I would be also!
I am working on me now and I told him whether he will be with me or not that because of him these changes are going to happen because I need to be a better person.. I don't expect him to wait around and see but i don't want to lose him forever either. I am back in the states and he is still overseas. He was suppose to come back to me in a couple months so I feel there is time but will I be able o get him back? It's only been 24hours he hasn't responded to me and I deserve it but I would never be unfaithful to him. It's sucks it took it to get this far for me to really see what I nee to do.
Tell me from a Leo's perspective is there hope? How can I earn his trust again? I used to tell him everything it wasn't until I was afraid he wouldn't like the truth that I would lie..
I am working on me now and I told him whether he will be with me or not that because of him these changes are going to happen because I need to be a better person.. I don't expect him to wait around and see but i don't want to lose him forever either. I am back in the states and he is still overseas. He was suppose to come back to me in a couple months so I feel there is time but will I be able o get him back? It's only been 24hours he hasn't responded to me and I deserve it but I would never be unfaithful to him. It's sucks it took it to get this far for me to really see what I nee to do.
Tell me from a Leo's perspective is there hope? How can I earn his trust again? I used to tell him everything it wasn't until I was afraid he wouldn't like the truth that I would lie..
Posted by 1234life
To theleoman ;or any other Leo's
I know this may be late but others may be in similar situations. This leo man is the same as i was in my younger days. The thrill and competition is just too much for us to resist. We leo males are gamblers, we gamble with everything - the more emotion we feel for a woman the more we will gamble that she will not meet our standards by going hot and cold. It's our greatest test that any woman can be put under. This means when the test is failed and the woman leaves we simply shrug and say 'Knew she wasn't the one, she always seemed like she was weak'.
This is the same when we have multiple lovers or are having affairs. You see, our capacity for emotions and the fact that we live from the heart means that we can be the best and worst people to know. Our skills are second to none with women and this fact alone makes breakups run off our shoulders like water of a ducks back. The majority of leo males will have had their heart broken in much younger years and that is truly devastating for us. You will never know the true extent this does to us and i will not disrespect my fellow leos by divulging too much here. We grow up with very idealistic views of love and relationships that young people can never hope to maintain. This in itself makes us think that what we want the most we will never obtain.
After this first heartbreak is healed we never truly invest ourselves into a relationship again. It just never feels safe, the more a girl tries to force us to commit the more scared we become because the pattern is the same as our first heart break. We would rather break the hearts of others than our own heart and this is why we will take on multiple lovers, remain hot and cold and even have affairs - it is so that we can give women the pleasure without ourselves getting too confined or injured. When these liaisons end we have multiple partners to help us remain unaffected and continue in the same light as before throughout life. The worst thing you can do is threaten to leave if things do not change. We do not like feeling jealous so to protect ourselves from this destructive emotion we'll have multiple women on the burn. Our pride is so damaging when we do not keep it checked that we will joke about other men wanting to sleep with our conquests because we would be less prideful if they didn't. Of course if they were getting more attention than we were we'd be too jealous to refrain from doing stupid things.
I am being very negative here and we have so many good qualities i cannot name them all here. I am not going to promote us in response to your posts as i am purely discussing it from what i've read. I will not try to defend the leo man you have there and of course i have done nothing you know about to have to defend myself here. I hope i have given you a fair input to assess the situation for yourself. I personally would advise not falling into this man's lair any more. Leo's will keep up their 'routines' for many many years because they are what get us the women in the first place. Stay safe.
Neu.
I am being very negative here and we have so many good qualities i cannot name them all here. I am not going to promote us in response to your posts as i am purely discussing it from what i've read. I will not try to defend the leo man you have there and of course i have done nothing you know about to have to defend myself here. I hope i have given you a fair input to assess the situation for yourself. I personally would advise not falling into this man's lair any more. Leo's will keep up their 'routines' for many many years because they are what get us the women in the first place. Stay safe.
Neu.
Posted by Msericac81
Leo man: after becoming best friends with my Leo .
Hello,
I'm another Leo male. Leoman may be off on one of our famous (or infamous) adventures so i'll explain what i can.
If i understand your post properly: The fact that you were originally friends with this leo and it turned into something more means that he is worried the same will happen again. He cannot 'trust' friendships because a friendship led to love for him and you. I do understand that he may be scared you will relapse into your addiction again but Leo's do not back down from challenges and he will help you through this again if your relationship is strong enough. I do not advise relapsing however. I have been with many women and the one's that have 'suffered' the most from me have been secretive types. I do not mean that you are being secretive about these old friendships but what i am referring to is the possibility that he has had a similar experience at some point. The best relationships i have had have been with woman that will invite me in to watch them chat with their friends on facebook or whatever, or who laugh at a friends text and then tell me what they've said so that we can laugh together. I have never been threatened by these occurrences this way. I know not every woman would do this and i would never ask a woman to do it either, but i am still eternally grateful to those women that have freely offered the experiences to me.
A recurring theme i am seeing are these comments of 'He still hasn't got back to me for x amount of time'. I'm not going to lie, Leo men are very versatile and self sufficient. You will not become his woman at all because he needs you. Hell you may not even become his woman because he wants you. You have become his woman because he deems you worthy. That does not mean he will automatically respond to you in rapid succession. We devote our time to the people we are physically with. We deem it unfair to be on the phone all the time when we are with you and its the same when we are with anyone else such as friends or family etc. We are also highly focussed on work or some fanciful idea or maybe what we will do to you when we next see you. We are daydreamers, entertainers and men that will not shy away from anything except emotional turmoil.
Anyway that's enough of that.
My advice here will not suit a lot of women. But you've asked a leo male for help and i will explain to you what would make me take a woman back after something like you've described (Yet this is less than a 1% chance because i don't give up lightly on a woman and when i do its because it truly can go no further.) The advice is as follows. You must say that you love him and that if he values that at all he is to state what he deems acceptable and unacceptable behaviour from you. If this list is acceptable to you tell him that you can live with those terms as long as you are together. You must add after this that now the list has been stated it can not be altered by him or you. A leo needs boundaries like anyone else. I advise you do this because we leo's have a tendancy to trample over things A LOT. We are born leaders and we will lead constantly, in every situation, at all times, without relenting. If you do not set a boundary to this you will lose yourself and us leo's will not like that. We will not see it as our fault at all. We will lose pride in having you on our arm and this will lead to the end of the relationship faster than boundaries will. Leo's respect authority because they demand respect for their own authority.
Further more, always be truthful to your leo. The more painful you think it will be to him the more you MUST be truthful with him. We are courageous and it takes a lot to truly hurt us. We will shrug off minor things very rapidly so long as we can shrug and say "She loves me enough to be honest with me". This of course does not covering cheating or any other major hiccups in a relationship. Never hit our children either - we prefer to teach them with words and lessons, they are little people in our eyes.
Neu.
My advice here will not suit a lot of women. But you've asked a leo male for help and i will explain to you what would make me take a woman back after something like you've described (Yet this is less than a 1% chance because i don't give up lightly on a woman and when i do its because it truly can go no further.) The advice is as follows. You must say that you love him and that if he values that at all he is to state what he deems acceptable and unacceptable behaviour from you. If this list is acceptable to you tell him that you can live with those terms as long as you are together. You must add after this that now the list has been stated it can not be altered by him or you. A leo needs boundaries like anyone else. I advise you do this because we leo's have a tendancy to trample over things A LOT. We are born leaders and we will lead constantly, in every situation, at all times, without relenting. If you do not set a boundary to this you will lose yourself and us leo's will not like that. We will not see it as our fault at all. We will lose pride in having you on our arm and this will lead to the end of the relationship faster than boundaries will. Leo's respect authority because they demand respect for their own authority.
Further more, always be truthful to your leo. The more painful you think it will be to him the more you MUST be truthful with him. We are courageous and it takes a lot to truly hurt us. We will shrug off minor things very rapidly so long as we can shrug and say "She loves me enough to be honest with me". This of course does not covering cheating or any other major hiccups in a relationship. Never hit our children either - we prefer to teach them with words and lessons, they are little people in our eyes.
Neu.
Posted by Libra Chameleon
Wow, Leos are crazy. And I might be crazier for being into one myself...
So enfant... let me try you out buddy with a few questions:
1. Maybe it's not Leo specific, but I feel like Leos make excuses for EVERYTHING. And as soon as I challenge their lame excuses, they either get pissed, get quiet or don't call for days... Dad is a leo and I'm "kinda" dating one now and have dated a few in the past... it's the same song. Question is: do I continue to call them on their bull (not everything now, just their bull) in my raw, scathing way (and then give them my love after) or do I soften my approach?
2. I've been introduced to people close to him as everything but the woman he's dating. I feel like a man who is proud to be dating someone would introduce them as special friend or my date or my girl...am I being unrealistic with this expectation? He introduced me to his daughter, a lot of his close friends (not his best friend though, but I think he knows about me) and his Mom knows about me but no arrangement is there to meet yet. I think I can make a strong guess as to why... within the last 4 years, he's gotten divorced and then broke up with his girlfriend (who he calls his friend and who was living with him). I call BULLS*** on the girlfriend thing...I felt like he should've said something to me about it instead of finding out in an odd way. I'm not mean guys, but there is a back story that I'm just not going to get into (unless you people force me into going into it...)
3. Every time I pull back, he pulls forward and I feel like I get weak too soon because he runs cold shortly after I give in (not sexually give in, but making myself available give in). So I'm considering cutting my losses. What are your thoughts about talking to him about it vs. just cutting it off? The "relationship" has come a long way in 1 year and seems like its on track, but he recently introduced me as a coworker (which we are) to his friends. And in my mind I was like, "Coworker? I just gave you a rockin' blowjob!" So I don't take lightly to that.
I'm going to add my view on this having just had a barny with a woman over the same issue and i'll explain to you what i point blankly refused to explain to her. I never define the girls i'm with as Girlfriend or anything of the sort. I think i'd introduce my wife as the wife however when i get married.
The reason behind this is the connotation. As a Leo Male i want what i have with a particular woman to be special. If i add a tag that everyone uses to it it somehow minimises it in my head. The other reason i don't do it is because of the questions i get asked. I'm usually with girls that every man wants and every man wants to know what they are like at this and that (you can imagine the questions males ask each other) i got really tired of this after a while and again it degraded the woman i was with in my mind. I'm not saying these are good reasons but as a leo i do not show everyone everything. I am a showman and each sphere of life is a different show - it's all part of me yet the special person sees it all, most people see a fraction. I really dislike these separate parts leaking into each other and i truly hate women talking about me to their friends. I know it happens and i can ignore it until someone mentions something and thats when i get miffed. No tag means no questions and a life full of fun and inside jokes. It's not ideal i know, and i have used the term for some women but only after we've moved in together. I know it probably sounds strange but until defining moments as living together or marriage is anything really tag-able or certain enough to denote? I personally call all ex-girlfriends "Just a girl i knew" because that's pride talking. Pride is our worst enemy.
Neu.
Neu.
Hey .. I am a capricorn .. N I am madly in love with this leo guy ... He was with me at a coaching centre n used to stare at me .. Al the time .. I used to look back .. And soon he proposed me ..I rejected him because I thought he was just playing .. But then he was outside my house every night . So after 2 months I talked to him on facebook he proposed again . .I rejected but he was persistent .. And we stayed frnds .. But soon I fel in love n I proposed him ..he acepted .. Then as we became more attached .. He started getting anoyed .. He wanted to kis me and I didn't .. I was afraid of being too much in love .. He soon avoided me.. N said break up a lot of time .. I stoped him always .. One day finaly we met alone .. He tried to kiss me and I stoped him .. He broke up after that he used to abuse me also .. And said he was cheating . Also showed me pictures he said he loved her .. Not me .. I was shattered .. I begged him to let us stay friends he said ok but after some time left said my gf won't accept it because she knows about us .... After 3 months I called him again he picked up n I said him dat I love u ... He said me 2 but I can't marry u I love my gf .. But he got in a relationship wid me also .. Again we met alone .. And this time he kissed me and I let him... Then he broke up again .. After 2 months hjis gf caled me tried to create a misunderstanding between us and she did it.we fought and I didn't talk to him for 4 months .. One day we met after that and he smiled at me .. So I cald him .. We talked n he said sry no more I gave him my dairy .. And left .. Then after 2 months I caled him and he said I love you .. I said me 2 .. We r now together .. He treats me better good enough .. But he still has his gf .. He says I can't marry you .. He says I love her even made me say her sorry .. We meet sometimes and he loves kissing me .. He says he loves me .. I ammoving to anothr country after some time he said he wil also come there for our studies ... I really love him.. And I can't live without him .. I want to marry him ... But how ? Does he love me ? Can I make him love me ? Make him commit ?? Do. You think he loves me ?? Please help .. I am crazy about him .... Please help me .. Tell me what to do ..
Hey .. I am a capricorn .. N I am madly in love with this leo guy ... He was with me at a coaching centre n used to stare at me .. Al the time .. I used to look back .. And soon he proposed me ..I rejected him because I thought he was just playing .. But then he was outside my house every night . So after 2 months I talked to him on facebook he proposed again . .I rejected but he was persistent .. And we stayed frnds .. But soon I fel in love n I proposed him ..he acepted .. Then as we became more attached .. He started getting anoyed .. He wanted to kis me and I didn't .. I was afraid of being too much in love .. He soon avoided me.. N said break up a lot of time .. I stoped him always .. One day finaly we met alone .. He tried to kiss me and I stoped him .. He broke up after that he used to abuse me also .. And said he was cheating . Also showed me pictures he said he loved her .. Not me .. I was shattered .. I begged him to let us stay friends he said ok but after some time left said my gf won't accept it because she knows about us .... After 3 months I called him again he picked up n I said him dat I love u ... He said me 2 but I can't marry u I love my gf .. But he got in a relationship wid me also .. Again we met alone .. And this time he kissed me and I let him... Then he broke up again .. After 2 months hjis gf caled me tried to create a misunderstanding between us and she did it.we fought and I didn't talk to him for 4 months .. One day we met after that and he smiled at me .. So I cald him .. We talked n he said sry no more I gave him my dairy .. And left .. Then after 2 months I caled him and he said I love you .. I said me 2 .. We r now together .. He treats me better good enough .. But he still has his gf .. He says I can't marry you .. He says I love her even made me say her sorry .. We meet sometimes and he loves kissing me .. He says he loves me .. I ammoving to anothr country after some time he said he wil also come there for our studies ... I really love him.. And I can't live without him .. I want to marry him ... But how ? Does he love me ? Can I make him love me ? Make him commit ?? Do. You think he loves me ?? Please help .. I am crazy about him .... Please help me .. Tell me what to do ..
Posted by theleomanPosted by rocktressa
Hi Leoman >>> I appreciate all of your wisdom and I will post my soap opera on here soon but as of yet I must rest now for lack of sleeping and overindulgence of Jim Beam.... Im doing better as days go by but I fight a strong urge to just call him >>>>.HICCUP.... its beeen 6 days and no contact and he was the one who texeted me to say we should go seperate ways cuz i texted him asking where do i stand with him and that I was so confused by his "love me now ignore me tomorro antics". .. should I just give him a short sweet message or chalk it up to him calling me? Hi my leo lovin ladies ... yall just come down to new orleans and Ill make us all daquiris and well go dancing in the streets with the brass funeral marching band... of course Leoman you can lead the band..
you know we are all afraid to use bizzare tactics and we mask it will all this i want a relationship stuff so we are afraid to dig deep and say what we really want to say myself included lol
what makes a leo tick is sexual things.. shake it up tell him " you just want my pussy" then tell him " its his forever"
in his head he will say " i cant believe she just said that" but i guarantee he will want you see you more and more .
In a weired way you just told hmm you will be their forever and sex will never be a problem
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I think we all just want to have sex and for the person to be their forever and we only want it with one person, but in order to have that we feel we have to build all this stuff around that to secure
sex all the time and the person thereforeverclick to expand
I think what you are saying is complete BS....These women are asking you for advice, and all that you are doing is making excuses for the Leo man's behavior, and telling them, even though these men make you feel empty, still have sex with them, to cause them to further lose themselves in him.No. Hell no!!!Who cares that a Leo man loves sex...He would not be getting any from me, if he cannot treat me the way that I deserve to be treated...It is like rewarding him for a job not well done, and he reap the benefits...I understand that you are looking out for your fellow Leos, but this is BS!!!Point blank period. If he will not rom
I cut the Leo man that I was seeing the hell off...He is still trying to get back in good with me, but I shut him down...Ok you want sex, you want reassurance, but what the hell is he giving back in return? You do not ever give any man the best part of you, only to receive crumbs in return...Who cares about his insecurities,that is his problem not yours..And I must say this I have MANY Leos in my family. My father in particular is with a Taurus woman for many years...Yes, she sacrificed her happiness to be with him, only to be cheated on, and she is the care taker of everything. My dad basically lives off of her, and she let's him. He once told her right in front of me that she was not the one that he really wanted...He is still in love with my mother, who would not put up with his butter...But this Taurus woman stuck in there with him, reassured him of her undying love, and what did he give her in return, possibly an STD, children with other women coming out of the wood works, and MAJOR unhappiness. So ladies, listen to this Leo man all you want, but the message that he is putting out is clear,Even though the Leo treats you bad, just continue to stick around and have sex with him, and stroke his ego, and maybe he would eventually consider you as a worthy mate..Maybe...He is pretty much telling you ladies to settle, instead of kicking his butt to the curb, where he belongs, just cause he is a fellow Lion. No thanks!!!
easha23000- have some mercy on us girl lol
I am Sag women dating a Leo man. We were dating for six months. The first four months were great but for the last two months we have an argument every week. The arguments happen when I ask him about communication. After six months of dating I believe we should talk on the phone at least once a day, well that's what he got me use too especially on the days we don't see each other. To be honest any question I ask I have to accept the answer whether it makes sense or not. He claims the questions I ask hurt his feeling and make him feel guilty. He either gives me the silent treatment or he goes on texting rampage telling me I don't appreciate him and every character fault he has I rub in his face. So finally last night he said he doesn't want to see me any more because he doesn't feel like arguing with me and his choice was hard because he loves me. I'm okay with ending the relationship but I'm hurt for a couple of reasons; I feel like it's so sudden, I love him and I wasn't arguing with him when I asked the questions. I chose my words carefully. What gives? Why is he so angry with me? As a Sag I just want to know because I really don't understand.
hi I have already posted this on another thread but thought I would ask your opinion too
I have been chatting to a Leo guy we met up and have been on a couple of dates which were absolutely amazing and we even said that we couldn't believe how well we actually got on. The Chemistry was amazing and we had a kiss and a cuddle but that's it. His communication wasn't great before we met like he promised to call and then didn't and then called a day later. We met got on so well he was full of compliments and told me that he really liked me and hasn't liked someone like this in years. It was just amazing but then last couple of weeks he has backed off and I seem to initiate all the texts and he replies but not always. When he does reply they are lovely messages and always quite flirty. At first it was a mix of me and him initiating texts but lately its been me. He will sometimes just send me a random text like ask me how I am I reply and then nothing for 2 days—? I am so confused as I do like this guy and I know that we will be good together. So I have asked him directly whether he wants to see me again and I have not had a reply? he has been saying that he definitely wants to meet etc.... but why is he ignoring my texts when all I want to know is whether I should still pursue him or just walk away? His rising Sun is Scorpio, Sun is Leo and Venus Virgo. Please can someone explain this odd behaviour.
I am a Scorpio
I have been chatting to a Leo guy we met up and have been on a couple of dates which were absolutely amazing and we even said that we couldn't believe how well we actually got on. The Chemistry was amazing and we had a kiss and a cuddle but that's it. His communication wasn't great before we met like he promised to call and then didn't and then called a day later. We met got on so well he was full of compliments and told me that he really liked me and hasn't liked someone like this in years. It was just amazing but then last couple of weeks he has backed off and I seem to initiate all the texts and he replies but not always. When he does reply they are lovely messages and always quite flirty. At first it was a mix of me and him initiating texts but lately its been me. He will sometimes just send me a random text like ask me how I am I reply and then nothing for 2 days—? I am so confused as I do like this guy and I know that we will be good together. So I have asked him directly whether he wants to see me again and I have not had a reply? he has been saying that he definitely wants to meet etc.... but why is he ignoring my texts when all I want to know is whether I should still pursue him or just walk away? His rising Sun is Scorpio, Sun is Leo and Venus Virgo. Please can someone explain this odd behaviour.
I am a Scorpio
hi,
me and this leo man text occasionally not daily ... out of the sudden he ask me to text him daily ... why?
me and this leo man text occasionally not daily ... out of the sudden he ask me to text him daily ... why?
Posted by twinklebaby
hi,
me and this leo man text occasionally not daily ... out of the sudden he ask me to text him daily ... why?
How should we know?
I'm a Taurus woman and I've been talking to a Leo man for about a month now. His birthday is coming up and I was thinking about doing a sexy photo shoot in a gold swim suit and sending it to him in a bday card that showers him with compliments. Being an Aug. 21st Leo, would he like this or is it too inexpensive and not up to the standards of luxury that Leos like?
How do I handle a Leo's temper?
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