I broke up with a leo and I regret it.

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omlunn
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7 Years

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I broke up with this guy thinking he was playing with me and wasn’t serious about me when I actually fell for him. I quite regret it now since I can see how hurt he seems. I can tell I hurt him a lot. I don’t know what I should do. It is clear he doesn’t want to talk to me anymore. Maybe, I might have done the same thing... pretty sure, I would. I feel devastated. I wrote him a big text explaining. He left me on read. I am ready to do anything to get him back. I think the thing we had between us was so precious, it’s not just the attraction but also the friendship was great. 😔 I do not know what to do. I’m ready to apologize for hurting him. I’m ready to let go of all my ego and pride. I just want him back.
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Nameless Nemean
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It's probably too late. Sounds like you were acting out of your own insecurities. Granted the Leo may have not communicated his emotions well while you two were together (Leo men aren't great in that department). However insecurities, and the games that come with, are a quick way to lose a Leo (regardless of whether or not the Leo is secure or insecure themselves).

You can apologize, but do it so that you can let go and move on with your life. There's a really good chance the Leo will not respond or will never speak to you again (if he's truly done). Also even if he does come back, he will be different to you.
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Meowpie
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Posted by omlunn
I broke up with this guy thinking he was playing with me and wasn’t serious about me when I actually fell for him. I quite regret it now since I can see how hurt he seems. I can tell I hurt him a lot. I don’t know what I should do. It is clear he doesn’t want to talk to me anymore. Maybe, I might have done the same thing... pretty sure, I would. I feel devastated. I wrote him a big text explaining. He left me on read. I am ready to do anything to get him back. I think the thing we had between us was so precious, it’s not just the attraction but also the friendship was great. 😔 I do not know what to do. I’m ready to apologize for hurting him. I’m ready to let go of all my ego and pride. I just want him back.
You can try to see if he is comfortable for an open communication. Try with a text approach stating you would like to call him and speak to him. If he still have a soft spot for you, he would reply with a yes/no at least rather than putting you on read.

Be sincere and apologize, and open up raw that you want him back at his terms. See what he will respond, but as previously shared by others be prepared it's a no once he made his mind.

Even if he does come back, as Chuckcem said, it will not be the same but that doesn't mean with time or patience you can't melt his heart and win him back if you did you part. We just want prove that you are sincere and determined to want us back before we open up to you again.

-Fight through the fire and come out the other side alive-

Good luck.
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omlunn
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7 Years

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I’ve seen him twice this week and both times, he was teasing me. He was like why you tryna talk to me?.. and guess what? I didn’t even say anything. He was the one trying to talk to me. I was drinking this yogurt drink and it has a weird smell but I love it and I know, he HATES it. He asked for the drink, obviously because he was trying to talk to me. He was behaving like a baby around me these two days.

I know things would not be the same between us but I don’t know if I should let go of hopes totally.