I'm not sure of this at all....

Hi,

I'd like some insight into a weird situation that has arisen again. In September 2007, I see on my mobil a text from someone (mind you I see that the text was sent to me in the middle of the night when I was sleeping) but I didn't recognize the number at all. In the text it said "they were still thinking of me" and wrote their cell number. After two days of wondering why this text was sent to me, I wrote back asking who they were. The person wrote back their name. Still had no clue of who they were. After a few texts back and forth over a couple of days, I found out his age. However, it bothered me that he's always send me texts in the middle of the night when I was sleeping. I told him I didn't like that, I wanted him to pick up the phone and call me. He said he couldn't because he works in the middle of the night (but he can text? is what I thought). I asked him how he found me. First he wrote he met me in town and I wrote back he must be mistaken because I don't go to town. Then a bit later on I found out he met me at my job (I work part-time in a supermarket) and he saw my necklace with my name on it. He said he found my number through information and thought I was so pretty he took contact with me. I thought this whole thing was a bit creepy. He asked me out to the movies, but I told him I had to meet him at my job (where I'm safe and also see if I'd recognize him). He didn't do that, but sent me a picture of him on my cell. He asked for my picture, but I refused saying he didn't need a photo since he already knew who I was. He accepted that. Then I'd get good night messages on my cell when I woke up in the morning. He'd write I was the girl for him and he only wanted me. He also wanted me to call him, but hell no, I wasn't going to do that. I wrote to him in March 2008, that I think it's time for him to show his face to which he ignored which was fine by me (I'm an Aqua). Then in May 2008, I suddenly get a text out of the blue saying good night and hugs from him. I didn't reply to this. I let months go by. The day before his birthday, which is August 5th, I sent him a text saying this is the last time he'll ever hear from me. I wrote happy birthday to him. I also said that he and I are on different paths in life and wished him luck. I said he must not reply back to my text. That's it and I vowed never to have any contact with him. He did not reply back so I was glad about that. Life goes on. I'm busy with schooling and working. Continue..

Then on Thursday, November 26th, all of a sudden I see he's sent me text. I couldn't believe he still had my number. I had deleted his and moved on. As usual, I see he sent the text after 2 in the morning when I'm sleeping. In this text, he writes: Hi, I still think you are a fantastic lady. Good night hugs from him. I was like what the hell is going on. What's the deal? Why contact me after such a long time? I don't understand this at all. I haven't replied back to him and I'm not going to. I just don't understand this.

So my thing is for the gals who understand Leo men and Leo guys out there: Is this normal behavior from Leo men? Why bother taking contact with me? Any insight would be helpful. Remember, I've never "met" this man that I know of since I see so many customers. I thought Leo men are upfront and direct. I don't see that here at all.

jeez, forget the sign business... he's just plain creepy!

what's weird about ur situation is that i had something similar happen to me as well. it turned out to be someone i knew but he was too chicken shit to confront me.

really creepy!

To answer someone's question if I'm desperate. Absolutely not. I didn't know if he was someone from my past and was playing a game. After a bit of time, I realized he wasn't anyone I knew from before. I've never spoken on the phone with him because I refuse to call him and never will. People use different outlets to get in touch with people. This Leo guy chose an outlet albeit creepy which I don't understand. What I don't understand is why he would pop up again. It doesn't make sense to me.

Hi Mystical, to answer your q's... No this is not typical Leo behaviour! As the others have said, it's just plain old weird. He's behaving very mysterious and I dont think many people would find it endearing. He declined to meet up with you, but informed you he knows you through work and got your number some how. He souds like a stalker in the making to me, he prob leaves you for some time when he's seeing someone and text's agin when he has nothing better to do.

My advice would be to change your number as this will just keep happening.

I hear you, xxxLeogalxxx. Thanks for your reply. I have closed the book regarding this Leo guy. In fact, I did it in August 2008. This is why it makes no sense for him to, out of the blue, text me in the middle of the night (as he always has). You could be right that he contacts me when he isn't seeing someone. I never found it endearing at all. In fact, I thought the whole thing was absurb. I asked for him to meet me which he never did or at least that I know of, because he's never made himself known to me. I see so many customers. Thankfully, I'm not the desperate kind. I find him a coward to be honest. I still don't understand why he's so mysterious. A friend of mine says that he's probably shy and I replied back: "Gimme a break."

He hasn't become a pest which is good. I wish him good luck. He will never hear from me. I hope I meet someone soon who isn't into game playing.

Well I can definetely see why you're so consumed with this situation...after all, you're an Aqua & you like to know everything. It bothers us Aquas when we know that someone is trying to probe into our minds & yet we not have any control or knowledge on the person trying to do such a thing. He simply activated the curious side of you & of course when we Aquas don't understand something (even when it's not worth it & when others would've stopped trying a long time ago) we keep it going until we finally have closure & know all that we need to know. So I understand that.

But on to this guy...I don't think this has anything to do with him being a Leo. First of all, his way of getting into contact with you was very creepy & down right suspicious. If he was that in love with you from when you 1st saw you at your job (or so he claims) then one would think that he would've kept coming to your job to see you. And I'm assuming that he hasn't done so or else you would've recognized his picture, b/c at that point he would've probably been a "regular" customer. Secondly, don't fall for the whole "I can text but not call you" line b/c that's bull. We both know that. Unless he sleeps for most of the day & then goes to work from his bedroom, it's unrealistic that this guy doesn't have time to atleast text you or talk to you at times during the day. This guy is probably married. And thirdly, if this guy was really that amazed by you, he would've made an effort to give into all your demands (calling you, coming to see you.) He can't be THAT interested in you or else he would've recognized that he had your full & undivided attention & would've made a move. He went to great lengths to find you & get in contact with you so it doesn't make sense that once he acheived this, he'd purposely make it so that you 2 will never be anything except for 2 anonymous people. Hell, for all you know, this guy is probably some stalker or criminal who plays this kind of game with different all the time. Bump the Aqua side in you that likes to investigate. Quit responding to this guy. Better yet, change your number. You could be playing with danger & not even know it. It's not worth it. His behaviors are NOT normal

To answer your question on why he's still being so persistant, my answer is that I don't know. You shouldn't be suprised though that he's acting this way. After all, this guy has already shown you that he doesn't go about doing things in a normal fashion. One thing I will say though is that this def. has NOTHING to do with his zodiac sign. I think you need to change your number & possibly even let your co-workers know about this b/c I've heard of situations like this before & they've turned out deadly. It would be different if this guy eventually showed his face to you, but something is wrong here. There is a REASON why he's being so discreet & so hidden. And the truth is that you shouldn't wait around to find out. Anywho, maybe the reason he's still being so persistant is b/c he has nothing else better to do. Maybe he does this with so many women all the time, thus there's no set schedule or consistency or routine for when he gets into contact with you. If you want to use the Aqua side in you that is curious & likes to investigate, hell investigate him to the POLICE! Do a number search & try to find out who this guy is. Go down to the court house or ask around to your friends on how you can find out about this guy. After all, if he was able to find you & know things about you from just knowing your name & where you work, then the same can happen if the tables are turned. If you're going to entertain this situation or spend time on this situation, spend your time the RIGHT way. The truth is, you may NEVER know who this guy is & it's obvious that after a year or more of him still insisting on being discreet that you probably never will know. If you're THAT tired of this guy then do something about it. Change your number.

BEEP ..... BEEEP ..... BEEP ..... weirdo alert is going off .... block his number honey.

Krysrenee7:
Thank you very much for your response. It made a lot of sense. It explained why I've had a hard time understanding this. I'm a typical Aqua girl and usually I never give much time to anything that doesn't mean something to me. However, I always had a weird feeling regarding this Leo guy. To begin with I thought the whole thing was bizarre (and still do). Since he was being so mysterious, I thought in the beginning, it had to be someone from my past. I was hoping it was someone else who I haven't had contact with in years. As the time went on, I realized it wasn't who I thought it was. I have tried to do a number check on him. I get nothing up. However, a friend of mine found out his full name and when his birthday is. When I say his name to people nobody knows of him. I talked to my boss at work and he said the whole thing sounded strange which I agreed with. You are right though, this Leo guy is probably married. The Leo guy has written he has a daughter so he could very well be married. I don't understand the good night texts though. That is something which baffled me at the time. He hasn't been a pest though and that is why I haven't contacted the police. You are right also that I probably will never know who he is even though he has claimed I'm the one for him. I found the whole situation so bizarre and ended it. This is why it stunned me a little when 15 months later, he pops up again which is something I don't understand. I don't waste my time on him and haven't tried to find out who he is in over a year. I don't buy the line "I can text but not call". I wrote one time to him that I don't want him texting me in the middle of night and that he should meet and call me. Both of which were ignored and it sent red flags up in my Aqua mind. Changing my number is something I might have to do if he continues to contact me. It just sucks that I'd have to change my number for someone who I don't even know. Another thing your right about is that it doesn't make sense for him to go to great lengths to get in contact with me just to let it go.

LS,
Long time no see. Hope everything is well with you. I get you with the weirdo alert. It's just something I've never experienced before. I had a Cancer guy interested in me and he would call 3 times and send 4 texts an hour. That was way too much for me. I don't understand some men.

Hey Mystical!

When I saw your post here, I wondered if that old leo guy from forever ago had resurfaced. I don't get on much anymore. I hope you are well. hugs!