It’s taking Leo forever to move out

This topic was created in the Leo forum by Jrsygrl on Thursday, December 6, 2018 and has 11 replies.

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@Jrsygrl
7 Years

After we split he started staying with a friend. He keeps making plans to pick up all of his belongings, but when he comes over he just wants to “chill”. Cooks diner for me and flirts a little. Would a Leo just use me as a storage spot? Or is keeping his stuff here keeping a door open? Should I be looking for signs he wants to get back together?

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@heliumfiasco
14 Years1,000+ Posts

Tell him how you feel. Hiding your emotions will only bring you pain. If youre holding them in to avoid the pain of rejection, it really doesnt matter... because youll hurt regardless. Step up and take control of how you want your life to go. You want him? Be bold. If he shuts it down... you can move on with peace and closure, and not wondering "what if".

Just say "I know you haven't gotten your stuff out yet, and truth be told I don't want you to"

If he says "no".... tell him hes got a week to get the shit out, because you need to move forward. None of this using you for storage or playing with your emotions.

You need to take control of your feelings and your desires.

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@LadyNeptune
10 Years25,000+ Posts

GIve him a deadline to get his shit out of there.

If he isn't paying rent he shouldn't have a key.

Once deadline passes change the locks and have his stuff out on the sidewalk.

Or sell it online. Offer up, let go

Call it payment for the 30 day notice he should've provided.

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@Jrsygrl
7 Years

Thanks everyone!! Great advise! I’m just going to tell him what I want! If he reject me well then he does.

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@Jrsygrl
7 Years

Posted by seraph

Posted by Jrsygrl

Thanks everyone!! Great advise! I’m just going to tell him what I want! If he reject me well then he does.

as he moves more of his winter sweaters into your dresser.

*hangs laundry to dry on your shower curtain rod*

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This is very much what he did, I’m hopeless when it comes to hI’m. Just can’t seem to kick him out. We spent the whole weekend together. What can I say he feeds my Gemini nature!

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@MoonshineLeo
11 Years1,000+ PostsLeo

Posted by Jrsygrl

Posted by seraph

Posted by Jrsygrl

Thanks everyone!! Great advise! I’m just going to tell him what I want! If he reject me well then he does.

as he moves more of his winter sweaters into your dresser.

*hangs laundry to dry on your shower curtain rod*

This is very much what he did, I’m hopeless when it comes to hI’m. Just can’t seem to kick him out. We spent the whole weekend together. What can I say he feeds my Gemini nature!

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Girl just be upfront with him lmao