
Mishmorecookie
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Posted by ChuckcemThat's what I learned with a Leo friend. Time would really fly for them if things were busy in their life - they would usually be surprised, when we talked again, that so many days had passed since our last contact. What I started to do is if I didn't hear from them after a certain amount of time, I'd call to say hello. They would be happy to hear from me and they'd fill me in about what they had been up to. If they were going through a hard time, they weren't the type to call me up to tell me, but they would be open about it if I called them and asked how they were doing.
Leos can also pull the disappearing act by mistake if we get extremely busy. We pride ourselves on being able to handle our lives and sometimes need to back away to figure all of the things we have to juggle. However, when we go into this mode, we don't necessarily go silent altogether. Reaching out to us is still easy to do, we just won't be the ones initiating contact. If you ask us what's going on, we'll let you know.

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I couldn't believe it at all. They say that I offer no explanation and go quiet for weeks on end. Now I know I've avoided people and situations in the past, mostly because I can't deal with anything negative, depressing or anger-inducing. Also not a fan of confrontation. But I'm pretty sure that if somebody I was avoiding decided to reach out to me, I'd deal with it. Given that they did it in a diplomatic manner.
Question is this, do Leos do the disappearing act? Or am I an odd one out.