My Leo man says that he's tired and doesn't want me anymore because I didn't want to do something that he wanted to. I text and he still responds, he calls and I answer....he's forgiven me and I've forgiven him for things. He always compares me (I hate that) In his world he can never do any wrong. I feel so empty and disrespected at times. When things are good they are actually great but as soon as he gets mad he takes it away and becomes so rude and obnoxious. He says that he's about equality and has done his part. He says he's king and what he says goes but at what cost? I don't feel like I have a voice with him. In my mind I know things can be better and how simple things can be. I want him back in the right way. Any advice on getting him back? Or what I should or shouldn't do to not upset him and keep things at peace?
Leo man and virgo woman , i want him back!

Why would you even want someone like this back? You're chasing an illusion, an ideal that you've created in your mind. Stop chasing after someone who clearly doesn't value you. Get some self respect and move on with your life. It makes no sense to pursue someone who actively pushes you away.
Let's recap, he compares you to other people (women I'd assume), never admits to his own faults, disrespects you, is rude, considers himself a "king", and doesn't give you a voice. This guy sounds controlling and manipulative. You need to recognize that your relationship was far from perfect and stop investing in something that's broken. It's like trying to build a house on quicksand.
As a Virgo woman you may be prone to trying to "fix" what is broken, be it a person, a circumstance, or a relationship. In your mind it's all so very simple and it frustrates you that the Leo can't see that. The problem is this ideal is in your mind alone. You can't change a person, nor can you "perfect" them. Stop wasting time on this type of project and find a man who will treat you with care, who is willing to consistently reciprocrate your feeings.
Let's recap, he compares you to other people (women I'd assume), never admits to his own faults, disrespects you, is rude, considers himself a "king", and doesn't give you a voice. This guy sounds controlling and manipulative. You need to recognize that your relationship was far from perfect and stop investing in something that's broken. It's like trying to build a house on quicksand.
As a Virgo woman you may be prone to trying to "fix" what is broken, be it a person, a circumstance, or a relationship. In your mind it's all so very simple and it frustrates you that the Leo can't see that. The problem is this ideal is in your mind alone. You can't change a person, nor can you "perfect" them. Stop wasting time on this type of project and find a man who will treat you with care, who is willing to consistently reciprocrate your feeings.
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