Leo with venus in Cancer man who I went on a date with

Hello everyone!

A couple of weeks ago I met someone and we kept making eye contact and he gave me his number. We went on a date last night and it was sooo nice, we didn;t stop talking and were really affectionate with each other. He said he wants to see me again and has been texting me today. He opened up about his past as well.

The thing is that he also said that he is 26 and two years ago was in a difficult relationship (his only relationship that lasted one year) where the girl was very depressed and suicidal, so he is afraid of relationships now. He said he likes to go with the flow and not looking for anything serious, but he said something along the lines of he could change his mind if he gets on with the right person.

Is that a bad sign? Should I just not go out with him, if I would like a relationship eventually? My way of dating is not to be too serious at the beginning, but to have fun and go with the flow as well and if we get on then go into a relationship which is what I said to him. But to automatically rule out a relationship is a bit odd to me..

His sun is Leo, Venus Cancer, moon in capricorn, mercury in virgo and mars in taurus, with ascendant in aquarius.

I am sun in taurus, venus cancer, moon aries, mercury aries, mars cancer and ascendant is capricorn 🙂

I think we seem compatible, and it was a great date and he wants to see me again. What would you do? Thank you all x

Not a bad sign be honest with him on what you want in a relationship ... That Mars in Taurus tell me he takes his time pursuing his passions... I have a Venus in cancer ... And I can tell ya... Cancer Venus people truly prefer to be in a domesticated relationship marriage ... We love the home and family very passionate about family which is a double wammy considering he is a Leo ... If you had a good time just go with the flow... And be honest with him... Leo sun Leo rising here cancer Venus ... My two cents

Hello,

Thank you! I too have venus in cancer, I am so so sensitive. I love affection, and he was so sweet with me... a bit guarded as well. However he is in a music band and very busy with that, maybe he wants to get that out of his system. I am seeing him on Tuesday so let's see...

You're going to have to pace yourself with this guy. He has the right placements for longevity, but he will move a bit slower than you'd expect. His Moon in Capricorn will make him methodical and driven towards success in all things (relationships included). He won't take any unnecessary or unmeasured risks as a result. This has already been conveyed to you by his analytical mind/Virgo Mercury. His Taurus Mar will be very patient in his pursuit of you as he seeks the comfort you too desire in a relationship.

Your biggest obstacle will be keeping that Aries energy of yours in check. Also your Cancer in Mars need for security may make you a bit anxious if you're not getting the results you desire. Moodiness and passive aggressive behavior will not be a good strategy here, so don't succumb to it. Focus on creating a comfortable situation between you. Since he's still a Leo don't be afraid to be direct and communicate with him either. Just be aware to not be pushy when you do this.

Also as a Taurus, understand that your way is not he ONLY way. A really quick way to turn off a Leo guy is by trying to stubbornly do things the way you see fit. Be sure to back off and let him lead at times. Understand that his mind is creative and prone to grand ideas. He may not see your method as the best one, which will be a point of contention if you can't compromise. (It's the reason I refuse to date Taurus women, though the friendships have always been great).

So to make it easy, just let him know that you like him and would like to take things slowly to get to know him. Let him know that are looking for a relationship with a man who is strong enough to handle it if he's up to the task. His response will tell you everything you need to know.

I love love love your response. Thank you. I can get impatient due to my Moon aries :S I let the man take charge, I used to try to force things and it always backfired. I will tell him what you suggested, to take things slowly. Thanks 🙂

Hello,

I went out with him again and it was soooo nice. He's so affectionate and said it's so easy with me as if he knew me in a different life, and that it's a shame I had to leave the country for a while (the next day I left to go to my mums house and will be here for 6 weeks). He said he takes things very slow and doesn't want a relationship, that he can get convinced to be in one and that he likes me. I said we've only been on two dates and want to take things slowly too.

We texted a bit since I've been away, the last message I sent him was two days ago. He asked me how I was enjoying myself and I said I miss him but was having a very good time, and if he's excited about his project to finish this weekend. I sent him a photo as well. He didn't answer my text :/ is that a bad sign...?

my plan is to just focus on my time with my mum during these 6 weeks and not be around my phone, I told him I wouldn't be able to text much. But still strange he didn't answer, I hope he didn't get freaked out about me Saying I miss him :S