lioness craves lions touch but..

Hello, I'm a sexy early 40 something lioness who's sexual desires are more needing than my boyfriend the leo. Sometimes say most times he's in pain with the medical problems he has and not intimate for seems like a month of sundays. I crave sex, touching, romance sharing which I havn't been getting lately from him. How can I keep this alive? I've thought of entertaining the thought of fulfullng his fantasy, and all men seem to have the same one, though I'm not bi, and very nervous about the curious part to try lol so what's my choices, be honest.

WTF - I cry for attention from my hottie daily, some times several times a day, she says I am getting too much. She is wrong of course. I am sorry this is happening. I was ill and even had herniated discs from a snowboarding accident but all I could think about was how long it would be before I could get some.

Here is my plan for you:
1. The first thing that needs to be done is to sit down and talk. Plan this accordingly so he doesn't think it is a witch hunt. A couple glasses of wine (truth serum) should do the trick and no distractions, Then talk... Nobody talks anymore, we just react to something that is wrong and sometimes make the wrong decisions. A menage tois will not solve this problem. If he cannot be intimate the old fashioned way something else is wrong and you need to get back to the basics. Ask if he is seeing someone else and look at his eyes when he answers. You will be able to tell if he is lying. I cant lie to my goddess to save my life. Then if all is well... go to step 2
2. Relaxation Phase - Start with an act of compassion for his condition and give him a massage with no expectations that it needs to go anywhere. Wear something sexy underneath your normal clothes and light some candles. Have him lay down on the bed and reveal what youre wearing when you start the massage. Then go to town and work out the stress. Dont dive into the happy ending or he will catch on you have ulterior motives. It doesn't have to end with you having sex, but at least give him something sexy to think about for the next time.
3. Re-Connect Phase - with things you like to do together. Change the way you look each time you get together. Sometimes the same look and monotony can get to both parties. I dont say this to be mean, but when we know what to expect it isn't exciting.
4. Watch a movie, a classy menage movie so you can experience the excitement without risking something that could very well end the relationship altogether.
5. Use aids in the bedroom if you haven't already, ie. toys. I love this step...Nothing excites me more than seeing the one I care about getting excited while I use a toy on her. She means more to me than anything in the world and knowing I excite her is more than enough satisfaction for me.

Good Luck. And to be honest there are hordes of Leo's out there that would love to be with you and the fact that you are even willing to consider this act of intimacy. Hell I am getting all tingly thinking of it.

what the... did u say he suffers from a medical condition? that he's in a lot of pain from it? then ur here to complain about ur lack of intimacy? that is so freaking insensitive and egotistical! look, i understand what ur talking about. i get it. u have ur needs as well but u seem to completely down play his problem as if it revolved around u. i suggest letting him go because it would be in both of ur best interests. u need to be touched, he needs someone to understand and accept.

At 40, a woman is in her "prime" sexually. Even if he cannot have full intercourse, he can still hug, kiss , cuddle and pleasure you. I think his "problem" is something more. You deserve a man who wants to make you happy.