More Leo news! How fast should I expect things

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JoPodie
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I posted recently about a Leo and have been reading forums. I have to say I am begining to learn the Leo way!

After some sporadic texts and one failed meeting we met successfully and had a wonderful time. It was not a date simply because I wanted to meet him first a bit (we only texted) and we ending up just talking for hours! He said loved the time spent. Even for a first meeting he kept speaking in future tense... I spare details but he spoke as if we were already an item Perhaps because we Text for quite a while and we were freakishly comfortable with one another. (He was very charming!) it was flattering but definitely..cringy.
I like it, but I also like taking my time. His motto seems very carefree and open. I get the feeling holding back will cause confusion for him. I don't want to lose his interest, but I also don't want to have gone through months of pre/early dating phase in the first month of knowing him. Tis funny because I read that Leos don't move all that fast. My last Virgo was very meticulous and did not mind a slow journey

So the real question is, if leo man really likes a woman, would he expect things (ie intimacy, title, quality time) so early on? Like within first months of knowing her? Also if he is moving fast is he moving on even faster ?

I also think Leo woman can answer just as well 🙂 what pace do u prefer
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Yep, if we know, we know and there's no reason to wait. That doesn't mean that after the fact things don't happen that we decide to back off, but Leos tend to be focused on the "now". We tend not to cross a bridge until we come to it.

Enjoy your time with him and don't analyze too much. If it's working now, don't put up too many obstacles. If there are any issues down the road, the relationship you build now will determine whether the issues later are worth dealing with. We'll deal with anything if we are generally happy with the person we're with. Too many "what ifs" tend to drag us down.
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Posted by AriesLove
They move fast. All the ones I know and very impatient. But I wouldn't move at their pace, move at your own. If they like you they will slow it down and will stick around.
Yes, Fifth House is very comfortable with good things,

and being captivated by someone who also likes us

is definitely a very good thing... but we are also fixed,

and like Arieslove said, if we like you and you want to

move like a snail (not while keeping us guessing, mind you),

we can see the value in that, as well.


If you're asking for investment like that though, the same will

be expected of you... js.

🙂