My leo boy flipped~

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@browcode27
9 Years

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Heylo lovely Leo people! ^.^

I am caught up in a weird situation with my current boyfriend who is a Leo and thought id get some perspective here. I'm a Virgo and we've been dating 6 months now and we are pretty psyched about being together. Today we were sitting at my place watching a show we like and suddenly he gets a call about some work trip. He then tells me about a girl he almost hooked up with at a previous work trip once. Somehow we started talking about our past dating experiences. Although we know about each other's exes we usually don't talk about it. So today I thought, maybe id wing it and just tell him what all I've been up to till before I met him. BIG mistake.

He visibly recoiled and looked at me like I had grown two heads. He was shocked, spacey and super snappy all while and even told me "its boring to listen to your hook up stories. You've just been super reckless, whats the fun in that". I thought he was maybe a bit jealous but he was borderline disgusted. I've never dealt with a Leo who has a prudish streak before, and I was kind of zapped by the way he reacted. He even made a condescending dig at it. And to my horror I figure out today that his definition of "dirty talk" and "casual date" is so much more milder and PG13 than mine :/ he isn't like that with...stuff. So I had NO clue. He's 24 ffs.

Now..he knows my dating history, id been very open about it from the start. But now that we discussed things with actual details and all...it seems like we have totally different dating personas. Im afraid he is behaving like im weird and its kind of upsetting me cause frankly, it shouldn't bother him considering we have a good thing going on right now and that's all matters. Is this judgment or a tantrum or just him pouting Idk. Its like he got a different personality suddenly. Advice please? 🦇
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17 Years10,000+ PostsLeo

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You say it's like he got a different personality suddenly.. well couldn't it be that's how he feels about you right now, that he discovered your other personality? That you are not how he thought you were. Contrary to popular belief the past matters. Big time. Which is why it should be aired out before attempting anything serious.

Don't understand couples who agree not to talk about the past. It's what defines you and there's something to be learnt that you cannot learn by just knowing the person in the present. Imo