My LEO Man is ignoring me

Hi Everyone,

This I believe will be my last attempt in trying to figure out what happened to my leo man ( well he's not really mine lol ) Anyways, I met this guy back in 2012 via online dating. We hit it off quickly and we would send text messages to each other almost every day. We would hang out and you know we would kiss and would lead to other things. but we are not always sexual.. I really really liked this guy but he just made me feel like we are just friends with benefits so I moved on. I got into a relationship and he would still text me here and there and whenever I would post something about my relationship on social media, he would be one of the first ones to react. Then after that, we had stopped talking for a while. According to him he is giving me my space and respects my relationship with my current bf. Late last year (2016) he has been sending me messages and was making me feel like he liked me. I opened up to him and told him that in the past " I wanted him " and he responded that he wants me too blah blah blah. We are living so far from each other, he lives in LA and I live in the Bay and I even said that since we are both busy I don't think the relationship will work out. And his response was "I'm pretty sure we will be able to make it work and make time". So sometime in 2016 we met up and I slept over his house (nothing happened) and then when I went back home he said to me that he's into me, I've changed in a good way and that I am more mature which is something he needs in his life. So in my head, I'm like alright kool... I guess he likes me? lol.. Met up with him again in February this time we kissed and it was just the most incredible kiss I've had in a while and all my feeling from the past just rolled back up in my and again I'm head over heels for this guy! ( He is always the first one to make a move and would always tell me that he can't resist) After coming home, I texted him and told him that since we are so far apart and I didn't think things we're gonna go anywhere, I could not allow myself to fall for him again. I felt as though I kind of hurt him but I'm not really sure because he says he's okay or it's whatever's to him but his actions differ. He even told me that he would always like me (even compared me to a fruit. He says I will always like this fruit if that makes sense. He even added that he would try to stay away from me but keeps coming back because it feels right )After a couple weeks of not talking I reached out to him but this time he wanted to reunite. So I stayed at his place ( He insists that I stay at his place rather than getting a hotel so that I don't need to spend money ) not even 10 minutes of me being there he had already reached out for a kiss, and I'm like already?? and he responded " what do you mean?? I couldn't resist " the nxt day I met his daughter and his friends. He says none of them has seen him with a girl ( I guess that made me feel special ) but he assured me that our relationship is nothing more than and to be quite honest I don't even know what kind of relationship we have! That night we had some drink and I was just tooooooo comfortable with him I guess. I remember saying to him that we are going to have to stop what ever we are doing eventually because it's not going anywhere. He said I haven't looked that far in the future and pretty much gave me the cold shoulder after that.. Now I would text him and he would leave me on read. I'm really really confused because he's done so many things that would make me believe that he likes me but does not want to commit.. ANY HELP??