my leo sister ??

my younger sister is a leo-virgo cusp. b. aug 22nd. we're always having problems. i can either ignore her, be nice to her, or confront her. and it always ends up like this:

it's almost like she thrives on belittling and dividing/conquering people. it's the queen bee syndrome. she doesn't seem to care about others, or if she does it's on a superficial level. or to get something she wants. every summer, she cranks it up a notch in the run-up to her birthday. that includes ignoring me for no real reason, bitching about me or doing that fake thing where you laugh extra loudly at jokes you don't find that funny. just for the pirpose of exclusion. i seriously think she can't relate to people without there being some kind of conflict, maybe that's just how she bonds with people?

you know how some people have a massive ego, and it's all front? i gen-uine-ly think hers is all real. au naturel. i don't understand her, at all. 😢 sucks to say, but if she wasn't my sister i'd have nothing to do with her. my method is to kill with kindness...it's hard, though. i had a look through my mum's personology book, the secret language of birthdays. here's what i found for aug 22nd:

strengths:

imaginative
patient
seasoned

weaknesses:

domineering
egotistical
inflexible

advice-'remain open to suggestions. don't overpower your loved ones or associates. admit your human weaknesses and others will like you better; you don't always have to put on such a tough front.'

and her chart:

planet sign degree motion
Sun Leo 28??51'52 in house 10 direct
Moon Cancer 15??53'13 in house 9 direct
Mercury Virgo 20??32'45 in house 11 direct
Venus Leo 29??15'23 in house 10 direct
Mars Libra 19??41'36 in house 12 direct
Jupiter Sagittarius 6??07'08 in house 2 direct
Saturn Pisces 23??02'39 in house 5 retrograde
Uranus Capricorn 27??18'37 in house 3 retrograde
Neptune Capricorn 23??15'37 in house 3 retrograde
Pluto Scorpio 27??52'11 in house 2 direct


i have no idea how to relate to her

libra mars—!!! nah, that must be some kind of fluke. *ponders* though she doesn't really get into conflicts...she's more likely to stir things up, then fallback. confront her and you meet this:
and i'm guessing that cancer moon makes her moods very changeable...hmm, i don't know.

if anyone can pick her chart apart/give leo insights, i'd appreciate it.