My little Leo update? Where is his head

You guys quite the task Huh :p?
But a fun one!

Moving on, I post about my Leo interest here a little bit, asking for advices. This is a little different because I unfortunately don't think I will be in contact with him much longer (there is a cancer in the mix) but I'm curious to see where his mindset was after this incident!
So we were talking for some time now, we haven't met as much as I liked because he is very busy but when we did it went well! Moving forward a little more time he sent me one picture and I had kept up the tradition, which he appreciates aha! So at random he texts me asking what I felt about him. I told him I liked him but wanted to know him more. I was surprised he asked so early! Anyway when he goes on to tell me that he likes me, but his last relationship was suffocating and he doesn't want that again. I understood perfectly! It was the same for me! (Which is why I came telling you all how keen I was on moving slow hehe) so I was confused why he asked anyway, but look!

He then tells me again he really likes me, and that doesn't stop him from wanting to see me and continue things as are. He said he isn't saying he wants to be single forever but he does not want to be settled right now. These are in paragraphs! Haha! And all the while I am confused with his contradiction because I think it is a little contradicting! He said he definitely wants me in his life as a "friend or even more" but then in the next breath says he cannot be bothered because he doesn't want me to have the "power to control if he goes out" Then he says he wants to be with one person, whom he can trust and vice versa. He went even to say exactly he wants relationship without title??

Hmmm.. Right?! I am not so silly, nice but not so silly! He is presenting as he wants freedom to hang with his friends because his last relationship was controlling and insecure. She thought he is out cheating when he is at work (works a lot too) etc, etc, blah. He doesn't want the title to mean me being upset if he doesn't spend enough time with me. He wants to take me out, treat me as his girlfriend while not being his girlfriend. ME, I THINK this is a sure way to have his cake and eat it too! Even though he has not had any yet 😉 this is all over the course of a little over 1 month but I find it very weird to have such a conversation because he has not even tried anything passed one kiss. He is very shy, I learn.

How silly right? Or overreacting? I told him I was not the kind for casually sex, he said it really wouldn't be like that because how he feels about me but it does not seem right, to want a relationship really but not officially. He said he respects it and I need not worry about pressure but he felt I should know as to not lead me on. Me, I am scorp in full but very understanding and try to focus on positive energies than watery depths so maybe I am thinking about this from too personal a perspective. What are Leo thoughts? Sincere or making games

Also I Didnt want to sound rude LOL
But cancer and Leo are very seperate and cancer is new. I only enetertain cancer after this Leo incident because I think the Leo is a little confused (or blatantly selfish) and maybe he needs a bit time to think about if he wants to see me seriously and suck it up or find a butter buddy. But he is very nice I hope we remain friends aha 🙂

He's probably being honest. He likes u and really doesn't want to mess with anyone outside of u But just wants to avoid the pressures of a relationship after getting out of a suffocating 1.

Or he could just be lying and just tryna hit an bounce. But that would be a very immature Leo to spend time on u and tell u lies. Doesn't seem like yal are immature but Idk

If sex does get involved, at least yal vow to tell each other if Something outside of u 2 happens

Aha this is frequent! I find it funny aha but you should tell. I would like the outside perspective since it was confusing! But I don't really see it an issue anymore more like curiosity

But the typical issues you mention sound juicy aha!

Yeah I would guess that he really does like you but has no idea what he really wants. All that is certain is that he definitely feels a physical attraction. Do you want to take the chance! Do you guys talk a lot? I would say hang in there if you still want to. I think it could pay off but what do I know ?