Need all advice on a leo man behavior

I was with a leo man for 3 years. Few months ago I finally ended it. It was a bad ending which resulted in me calling police to get him out of my home. Within few days he moved in with a neighbor upstairs above me who is 21 years younger than he. I went completely silent on him for over a month. Than out of nowhere he has police serve me papers that he is taking me to court claiming DV and a load of lies. First hearing was unsuccessful got another hearing in few days. My question is this....why is my ex being revengeful and refuses to move on.. instead of leaving like he used to do after a break up he moved upstairs and been living with a 19 year old. I think he is doing it to keep watching me and stalking me in a way. He won't nor I speak to him. I ignore him and moved on with my life and even been in a relationship with another. He walks around mumbolling at night alone. He keeps trashing me to all my neighbor daily. Is he angry that I rejected him again n again. Or has he truly moved on?

Get a restraining order and move on, it doesn't matter what he's feeling.

I got a court hearing in few days. Hoping with all I got on him the judge will grant it to me. Last week he threatened me in front of 5 other neighbors. All I want is for him to leave me alone. I been living in stress for over two months. I see him walk by daily by my window with my neighbor. I asked him nicely to leave me alone 2 months ago and instead he assaulted me in my home which was why I called police to get him out. I think he purposely moved upstairs to stalk me. I really hope he moved on and will leave me alone. But knowing him for over 3 years I highly feel deeply that he will always pop up n checking on my life asking other people. He is a very charming manipulative controlling abusive agresive bipolar individual. I hope once the judge reads his criminal record and that he has over 5 different women place a restraining order against him and many more . That with just that information they will gladly take my side.

Believe me I have been silent towards him for over 2 months. He has a place and still living upstairs inches from where I sleep. I hear them daily. He purposely opens the window as they do the nasty. Days before I kicked him out we had a conversation about her and he was in discust of her for 3 years. He has hit on on all my female neighbors and they rejected him. So he knew exactly where to go to hurt me. I and others neighbors been complained to my apartment office to get him out of the property and there is nothing they can do. He even tried to pick a fight with my new man and threatened him . Placed nails under few of my neighbors cars. Either he finally realized that he lost me and angry making my life miserable. He refuses to leave as he daily trashes me to everyone.

I'm truly hoping that in court all goes well and he will finally leaves me alone. But knowing him well and my past history. He always finds a way to contact me and begs me to take him back. This man had more than a dozen chances and still he screws up and I kick him out and he keeps running back begging like a little bleach crying like a baby pleading and begging. I told him that once I go silent that I'm done. Soon enough he will start abusing her and she will learn her lesson the hard way. He has a pattern of abusive manipulative controlling behavior with all his exs he would stalk them for years. I do fear for my life and I strongly believe and feel like he is planning to do some hard to me and my son soon. I admire and adore leo man . They facinate me. I hope to find a good leo man one day without all that abusive characteristics. To all leo man you are truly incredible creations.

For 3 years he and her trashed and spoke hateful things about each other . Not once had they had a min alone conversation. He is 45 and she is 19. Days before I ended it he proclaimed such deep love for me. Used to write me love letters weekly. Txt me non-stop how much he loves me and would do anything for me.and within days he moved in with her. Even a month after he was already living with her he was in my other neighbors place crying sobbing for hours to them saying how much he loves me and stuff like that. He acts crazy every time my man comes over. He purposely opens d window and is intimate with her so I hear it. He is a confused lost little broken boy who just can't move on and accept a loss. Next week should make a huge difference once court date passes. Wish me luck.

Why don't you move out of that place?

Get a restraining order.

Change your number. Block him online.

I did all that months ago. I have no doubt that I will be granted the restraining order next week. I still have many questions and most likely I will never get the answers and that's ok with me. If I only knew that he wanted to be with my neighbor than I would have gotten ruid of him years ago. I have no prob giving away my leftovers. Peace and happiness is right around the corner for me. Thanks all for the advice.

Thank you.

Karma will take care of him in due time. As I stand tall and positive above the drama. Life is amazing at punishing those who deserve it.

you were on here a couple of months ago and im sure people told you to stop talking to your ex from "forever ago". Hes "moved on to someone younger" blah and now months later you're now having to go to court for this guy? what did you do?

I said this in your last post here you sound OBSESSED get help! move on with your life stop entertaining him.

this girl is like

"hes taking me to court but has he moved on really?"

omg

why should she have to stay tuck her tail and stay quite, but he can cause a ruckus and talk shit about her to all her neighbors?

All went well in court today. I got granted a restraining order against my ex. Within 15 minutes he broke the order and went back to my residence I called police n he got arrested. Some people don't understand what is a restraining order means....far far away from my residence and me. Finally in 3 years I will get a peaceful sleep knowing I'm safe and he won't bother me again. Thank you all for all your comments and advice. I'm finally at peace.

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I did all that months ago. I have no doubt that I will be granted the restraining order next week. I still have many questions and most likely I will never get the answers and that's ok with me. If I only knew that he wanted to be with my neighbor than I would have gotten ruid of him years ago. I have no prob giving away my leftovers. Peace and happiness is right around the corner for me. Thanks all for the advice.

You could find all the answers you need on Quora. Just type any question you have and add narcissist (or NPD) .

He is a narcissist. They are evil creatures, and all alike. He never loved you, he is unable of love, compassion or any decent human feeling. You were there for him to kiss his ass, obey and sing him praises. You were his supply. That phase when he bombarded you with love declarations is called "love bombing" and it's a just an act. An evil manipulation to get you addicted. NPD pretend to be all you ever wanted, mimic you and love-bomb you. What you lived was a lie. He is not who you think he is.

The silly teenager is part of his revenge. Another victim, like you, that he will never care about, because he is UNABLE to care about anyone else except himself. The problem you have now is that you have upset someone who is evil. If I were you I would move elsewhere asap. Block anything about him.

Again, please go on Quora and read about narcissists, directly from people who were their victims, and also from psychologists. It will answer your questions on this subject, far better than dxpnet will ever do. You need to do this to avoid falling prey to another NPD in the future. From the praises you are singing about "Leo men", based upon a NPD abuse and deceit, I can see you are in danger. NPD is not rare, about 6-10% people have it.

That is truly scary and yes I'm relieved and still think that he will not leave me alone. He is the kind of man that If he says he will do something he follows it with actions. After all of this I feel sad for the girl upstairs because I know she is his next victim. As adults you would think people will learn from other people mistakes. I sure did and also from my own bad decisions. I'm in my mid 30s and seen plenty of how evil the world is and people in it. We live and learn most definitely. Yes I have always been aware that he never cared or loved me and what hurt me was the lie for 3 years that he tried to convince me and others that he does. There is many things that people should not like about and using the word love is one of them. U don't lie about LOVE.