ok, technically i'm a leo-virgo cusp but i identify with my leo side slightly more than my virgo side (though i definitely see both in me).
it seems that all throughout my life i have befriended mostly earth sign ppl as friends. mostly virgos and taureans with a couple of caps in the mix. the weird thing is that they often come after me. rarely was i the one to initiate the contact which, being as i can be very forthright and social, is a little odd. air signs come in at a close second but rarely do i befriend other fire signs and pretty much never the waters.
i just wanna know why this is. attracting earth signs has been happening since i was about 6 up until this day and i'm almost 27.
also, why do the virgo girls in my life end up ditching me? we'll be tight friends for years, with little to no conflict, then all of a sudden they will disappear off the face of the earth and never speak to me again. of course this hurts me because i am a fiercely loyal friend. this has happened with every female virgo friend i have ever had (and one taurus girl). all my earthy boys are wonderful to me though and exude great loyalty as well!
In my personal life I find that virgos are attracted to leonine self assured yet tender ways, I wouldn't doubt that being a cusper gives you a stimulating mind which they love as well.
With Taurus I think they gravitate to leos social tendencies, it makes them want to open up.
"also, why do the virgo girls in my life end up ditching me? we'll be tight friends for years, with little to no conflict, then all of a sudden they will disappear off the face of the earth and never speak to me again." I've noticed this as well, the virgo friends I have tend to have a hard time focusing on one person, so they will sort of rotate who they hang out with. It's bizarre and at first it's like they completely ditched you but that's not the case. If they honestly have turned their backs on you then you pissed them off/hurt them in some way. They really do look at small details like, my one good friend we went to the mall, I bought her something she wanted but didn't have the money to spend on it, and she appreciated it but it was sort of a cold gratitude. Then at a different time she was sick and I called her up in the middle of the night, told her I had a random thought about herbal remedies that would help her. She was soo thankful, virgos are all about the small things ^^
it seems that all throughout my life i have befriended mostly earth sign ppl as friends. mostly virgos and taureans with a couple of caps in the mix. the weird thing is that they often come after me. rarely was i the one to initiate the contact which, being as i can be very forthright and social, is a little odd. air signs come in at a close second but rarely do i befriend other fire signs and pretty much never the waters.
i just wanna know why this is. attracting earth signs has been happening since i was about 6 up until this day and i'm almost 27.
also, why do the virgo girls in my life end up ditching me? we'll be tight friends for years, with little to no conflict, then all of a sudden they will disappear off the face of the earth and never speak to me again. of course this hurts me because i am a fiercely loyal friend. this has happened with every female virgo friend i have ever had (and one taurus girl). all my earthy boys are wonderful to me though and exude great loyalty as well!