Please help w Leo man I can’t stop thinking about - Aries girl

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Hey there. First off before the trolls attack I used to be a lesbian, now realized I’m bi. Maybe I’m desperate, maybe I’m not . But it really doesn’t matter. Read on if you’re interested in giving me real advice, I won’t reply to trolls.

So I have a Leo male coworker of mine, (28, I’m 27) who had been expressing interest in me for a few weeks. I decided to go for it and went out with all our coworkers one night after work. He couldn’t keep his hands off of me. We were making out all night, grabbing my boobs it was great. At one point he asked if I wanted to come back to his place, I actually said yes but then he changed his mind. No big deal or so I thought.

I hadn’t heard from him all weekend. That week at work he barely spoke to me and I barely spoke to him, I noticed him flirting with another girl (22) on the team who I’m kinda friends with. Not sure if this was to make me jealous or to subtly tell me to treetrunk off.

At the holiday party I avoided him the whole time except at the end when I said bye sexy and grabbed his tit. I guess he didn’t like that very much cause he talks to everyone on the team but me now . I still like him. I have no idea what I did. Should I bring this up? Or what? It’s so awkward now 😢
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Posted by mudra_

🤨🤔 lol

Too easy. Took absolutely no work or effort. And your coworkers are probably sitting back like 🤔🤨🤔🤨🤔🤨 and he felt it now doesn't want anything to do with you

...if this is even real... and you're not a troll yourself lol

Probably one of the most honest people on this site. But I’m looking for real advice not insults. Yea I fucked up doin that but it is what it is. Now I’m trying to figure out how to move past it. Only one other person saw btw
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At the holiday party I avoided him the whole time except at the end when I said bye sexy and grabbed his tit. I guess he didn’t like that very much cause he talks to everyone on the team but me now . I still like him. I have no idea what I did. Should I bring this up? Or what? It’s so awkward now 😢

LOL at grabbing his man boob especially in front of other ppl.
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Why be a bully when I’ve done nothing to you? It was in front of one other person yea I regret it but it’s over and done with
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At the holiday party I avoided him the whole time except at the end when I said bye sexy and grabbed his tit. I guess he didn’t like that very much cause he talks to everyone on the team but me now . I still like him. I have no idea what I did. Should I bring this up? Or what? It’s so awkward now 😢

LOL at grabbing his man boob especially in front of other ppl.

Why be a bully when I’ve done nothing to you? It was in front of one other person yea I regret it but it’s over and done with

How am I being a bully by laughing? I simply thought it was funny and you're being histrionic.
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Lmao at the fact that you think you can diagnose people based off of one interaction with them.
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Posted by Vicktoria
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At the holiday party I avoided him the whole time except at the end when I said bye sexy and grabbed his tit. I guess he didn’t like that very much cause he talks to everyone on the team but me now . I still like him. I have no idea what I did. Should I bring this up? Or what? It’s so awkward now 😢

You clearly think you feked up. It happens and sometimes we do dumb shit when we like a guy. 🤷‍♀️ 😆 Don't bring it up at all.
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Thank you. I appreciate it a lot. I thought about pulling him aside in person but I’m just gonna keep focusing on myself and ignoring him . This is not worth losing sleep over
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🤨🤔 lol

Too easy. Took absolutely no work or effort. And your coworkers are probably sitting back like 🤔🤨🤔🤨🤔🤨 and he felt it now doesn't want anything to do with you

...if this is even real... and you're not a troll yourself lol

Probably one of the most honest people on this site. But I’m looking for real advice not insults. Yea I fucked up doin that but it is what it is. Now I’m trying to figure out how to move past it. Only one other person saw btw

It's really not an insult. Yea, it is what it is.

You move past it by not doing that with a coworker again lol. Makes for some serious awkward tensions when things go sour. No other choice but to grin and bare it every day til the awkward feelings fade. And he is a leo. They smile and attract all sorts so that 22 year old won't be the last.

I mean you could ask him whats up and why he is acting this way and I'm sure he would talk with you... but to me... it wouldn't even matter. I wouldn't care to talk about it because I would be embarassed how easily I was swayed into the hook up then denied. But that's me.
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I am embarrassed honestly . I feel like I messed things up forever . And I don’t want that to be his impression of me esp cause I see him every day.