Recently I just got out of a 5 months relationship with a Scorpio guy. It was actually quite an intense love for me that I've never felt I could love so deeply before but then as the struggle between Water and Fire was quite true, we grew apart and then by the end of early this year we had a mutual break up.
For the first few weeks, it felt like my world collapsed but looking back right now, I could see he wasn't mature or ready for the relationship hence, I'm back to focusing on improving myself and apply the NC rule to heal better but then there are still dark periods where I missed him and want to be with him one day.
So my question to you ladies are....
How long did it take for you to get out of the relationship that you felt you loved the most?
What things did you have to do to get your mind of him? E.g. Gym/spill to friends/travel etc?
Can you be friends with an ex? (He asked me to be friends since I meant a lot but I rejected a month ago and applied NC since its kinda grey to me and will slow my healing progress)
Yeah, I feel like I'm healing on track minus a month worth of insomnia still, due to the fact that this break up gave me a lot of motivation this year to focus on myself. Since late Feb, I have been keeping myself busy by making mini goals, going out more, getting in touch with new or old friends, exercising and even going on dating apps to kill time (not dating, just making friends). Thus regaining my confidence and become less insecure about my future.
Till now, I just find it vexing that I still can't bear to delete his number or on a gaming platform even though I am better with the NC for a month+ already (deleted from Insta and etc).
I do appreciate all of your different feedbacks though, it makes me feel less like I am alone in my sad pit and more I just need to let that annoying scab on my heart to slowly heal on its own before making anymore decisions that may involves him or that friendship I initially agreed to.
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How long did it take for you to get out of the relationship that you felt you loved the most?
What things did you have to do to get your mind of him? E.g. Gym/spill to friends/travel etc?
Can you be friends with an ex? (He asked me to be friends since I meant a lot but I rejected a month ago and applied NC since its kinda grey to me and will slow my healing progress)