@Phoebz
8 Years
Is Libra man into me?
Who is initiating the communication? How the kisses happened? Libras are cardinals, watch his actions.
@compy mostly he is the one who texts me first every day. Also, he was the one who kissed me first and later on through flirt asked me to kiss him, played with my fingers, etc.
Posted by Phoebz
I am a Leo woman and about 2-3 months ago I started communication with Libra guy. We started our communication as friends and we still are very good ones. When I started to catch some feelings towards him, I was hiding it, because he said that does not want anything more than friendship (commitment and responsibility). We have not gone to any decent dates, but we have met several times just to hang out which led us to kissing and flirting with each other. Now the situation is completely confusing, because I have opened up to him about my feelings and he is starting to push me away, but not cutting any communication out. He is still friendly and nice, but when it comes to flirting and making bigger step, he completely pushes me away by ignoring nice texts or saying that he is afraid I want something from him that does not exist. I have asked him about his feelings and he admitted that feels an attachment and likes me, but does not want anything else even tho we talk every single day (messages, phone calls, video chats), kiss and hug when meet, flirt, etc. (we meet rarely, because he lives in a different city)Has someone been in a similar situation? Should I just drop out and forget about him? I have read that Libra and Leo makes the best match, and I feel it when we are together in person, but why is he pushing away, avoiding his feelings, possibly lying or being scared of something?
If a man says that "he does not want anything more than friendship", Then leave it as that and move on.
@2Moon he recently broke up with his long term relationship girlfriend. we both agreed on having open and truthful communication with no lies and secrets, because he hates them and so do I. Our communication is great. Its free, its open minded, etc. We are really good friends now.
He just gets me confused, because I can feel the vibe he is into me as much as I am into him, especially in real life. He has never denied it also.
Oh! He likes you, give him time, but he is not ready for a relationship yet because he is still hurting for his ex. If you are patient enough, he will choose you. He needs a companion for now.
Posted by Phoebz
@2Moon he recently broke up with his long term relationship girlfriend. we both agreed on having open and truthful communication with no lies and secrets, because he hates them and so do I. Our communication is great. Its free, its open minded, etc. We are really good friends now.He just gets me confused, because I can feel the vibe he is into me as much as I am into him, especially in real life. He has never denied it also.
I think he craves the intimacy, what he lost (broken up with long term girlfriend)
so he will be happy to a daily texting marathons, or cuddling, kissing.... he misses, what he used to have with the girlfriend
but I dont see its a romantic thing now.... cuddle him, kiss him, comfort him, be a good friend... whatever else is not possible right now, imho
not a romantic relationship is looking from this
if you cant handle it, you have to distance yourself
he is not interested in you romantically
Posted by Phoebz
why is he pushing away, avoiding his feelings, possibly lying or being scared of something?
Posted by Phoebz
he said that does not want anything more than friendship (commitment and responsibility).click to expand
He has been up front from the beginning. Believe him. You are playing yourself because your hopeful and caught up in your feels. If you can't handle a fwb then don't agree to one aka kiss and flirt with your 'friend'.
Posted by Phoebz
He just gets me confused, because I can feel the vibe he is into me as much as I am into him, especially in real life. He has never denied it also.
Being 'into someone' doesn't mean you want a relationship with them.
Wanting to fuck someone doesn't mean you see them as gf/marriage material.
A kiss and a cuddle doesn't mean there are deep feelings there.
You gotta retrain your brain to stop equating physical affection with feelings. Men (and women) can fuck someone without it meaning anything more than a sexual release.
Posted by Phoebz
@2Moon he recently broke up with his long term relationship girlfriend. we both agreed on having open and truthful communication with no lies and secrets, because he hates them and so do I. Our communication is great. Its free, its open minded, etc. We are really good friends now.He just gets me confused, because I can feel the vibe he is into me as much as I am into him, especially in real life. He has never denied it also.
Big red flag! Especially with a Libra. smh
What happened? What is the big red flag! lol
All I see is just a man that broke up with an ex?
Cause you guys are almost never done with exes.. Libras go back and forth with their exes a lot.. I've experienced this with 2 Libras..
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You are wrong. We are done, but it's normal to miss them. All people do. And all people need a certain "cool down" period after a relationship for soul healing, actually for re-balancing the levels of cortisol in our bodies. Whoever says different, they lie to themselves.
Posted by Phoebz
@2Moon he recently broke up with his long term relationship girlfriend. we both agreed on having open and truthful communication with no lies and secrets, because he hates them and so do I. Our communication is great. Its free, its open minded, etc. We are really good friends now.He just gets me confused, because I can feel the vibe he is into me as much as I am into him, especially in real life. He has never denied it also.
Big red flag! Especially with a Libra. smh
What happened? What is the big red flag! lol
All I see is just a man that broke up with an ex?
And to add to this..
From what I have observed, Libra men find an attention replacement very very quickly as a means to get over their exes.. doesn't mean they are going to get involved, but they want and need the attention of a female.. which he found with her..
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Having a rebound is standard practice for most people who have exited a relationship. With Libra men I've noticed the women they take things slow with seem to have a greater hold on their life.
Posted by Phoebz
@2Moon he recently broke up with his long term relationship girlfriend. we both agreed on having open and truthful communication with no lies and secrets, because he hates them and so do I. Our communication is great. Its free, its open minded, etc. We are really good friends now.He just gets me confused, because I can feel the vibe he is into me as much as I am into him, especially in real life. He has never denied it also.
Ok. no ones denying that he's attracted to you. We're just saying that you shouldn't pursue him because he doesn't want a relationship with you.
Posted by Phoebz
He just gets me confused, because I can feel the vibe he is into me as much as I am into him, especially in real life. He has never denied it also.
He told you repeatedly he doesn’t want a relationship with you + he is ‘pushing you away’ (your words not mine) after you told him you caught feelings. If that isn’t denying it I don’t know what is.
Posted by Phoebz
@2Moon he recently broke up with his long term relationship girlfriend. we both agreed on having open and truthful communication with no lies and secrets, because he hates them and so do I. Our communication is great. Its free, its open minded, etc. We are really good friends now.He just gets me confused, because I can feel the vibe he is into me as much as I am into him, especially in real life. He has never denied it also.
Big red flag! Especially with a Libra. smh
What happened? What is the big red flag! lol
All I see is just a man that broke up with an ex?
Cause you guys are almost never done with exes.. Libras go back and forth with their exes a lot.. I've experienced this with 2 Libras..
You are wrong. We are done, but it's normal to miss them. All people do. And all people need a certain "cool down" period after a relationship for soul healing, actually for re-balancing the levels of cortisol in our bodies. Whoever says different, they lie to themselves.
Yeah.. but I have yet to meet one that ever took a cool down period.. Maybe for a day or two.. Not even kidding.. That's the problem I have observed.. There is no "cool down" just an immediate replacement of attention from another female. Doesn't mean a relationship or any feelings.. but they love to charm and flirt.
First Libra I was ever involved with reached out to me like 2 weeks after leaving a 7 year relationship cause he needed female attention (I didn't know this until after) but he got back together with her and kept me on the side.. didn't tell me for months and played us both. The second Libra I have been with for 3 and a half years and there have been many ups and downs and separations.. but he can't stay away from me for more than a week.. But I surely know about his attention seeking when we are on the offs.. Maybe you don't do this.. but many do. Just sharing my experience cause I am willing to be this dudes ex is still in the picture. It's not beneath them to lie..
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If we are in love, we keep that love in our hearts for a very, very long time. We still want a reunion with the ex, if possible. But the rebound thing, I don't do it even if I like someone. I befriend new people, but by no means I get romantically involved. I simply cannot.
Posted by Phoebz
When I started to catch some feelings towards him, I was hiding it, because he said that does not want anything more than friendship (commitment and responsibility). Now the situation is completely confusing, because I have opened up to him about my feelings ice texts or saying that he is afraid I want something from him that does not exist. I have asked him about his feelings and he admitted that feels an attachment and likes me, but does not want anything else even tho we talk every single day (messages, phone calls, video chats), kiss and
Girl I hope you're trolling us. The answers are in your goddamn post.
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I am a Leo woman and about 2-3 months ago I started communication with Libra guy. We started our communication as friends and we still are very good ones. When I started to catch some feelings towards him, I was hiding it, because he said that does not want anything more than friendship (commitment and responsibility). We have not gone to any decent dates, but we have met several times just to hang out which led us to kissing and flirting with each other. Now the situation is completely confusing, because I have opened up to him about my feelings and he is starting to push me away, but not cutting any communication out. He is still friendly and nice, but when it comes to flirting and making bigger step, he completely pushes me away by ignoring nice texts or saying that he is afraid I want something from him that does not exist. I have asked him about his feelings and he admitted that feels an attachment and likes me, but does not want anything else even tho we talk every single day (messages, phone calls, video chats), kiss and hug when meet, flirt, etc. (we meet rarely, because he lives in a different city)
Has someone been in a similar situation? Should I just drop out and forget about him? I have read that Libra and Leo makes the best match, and I feel it when we are together in person, but why is he pushing away, avoiding his feelings, possibly lying or being scared of something?