Venus Retrograde soon, revisit past relationships (Page 2)

Posted by ShahBano
Rig--

Do you still like your ( former) KH ?--do you find it in your heart to forgive him eventually ?

( genuine question--nothing double-edged about it )

I think she already has - temporarily.

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well, as you know, thanks to magic 8, i am being revisited by the leo. i'm not ready to deal with it though and apparently this venus retro encourages us to move slowly in these circumstances....so that's what i'm doing.

i swing between wanting to pour out some venom and wanting to throw myself at his feet and so, i'll be doing nothing until i sort my head out.

Did your knobhead call again, Rig ?

no not yet but i'm sure he will. to be honest, i can't even summon the feeling to call him a knobhead right now...i just don't want to think about him at all...too confusing. i've turned down two hot dates due to lack of interest on my part. sometimes, a revisit is the last thing you need 😢

CL....especially when they're aries!!

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Oi! What you got against Aries Rig— We're awesome!

I'm Aries sun, Leo moon, scorp rising... For the record...
Last week my phone rang and it was a blocked number so I was hesitant to answer it, but I did. It was this guy I ended up having a one nighter with about three months ago in another country. I specifically did not give him my last name or number because I just wanted it to be what it was: a one nighter. Like ships passing in the night.
I have no idea how he tracked down my phone number, but he did! He wanted to make sure I wasn't pregnant! Haha! It was quite weird, but if it's about Venus retro grading and past lovers making a come back, then that would explain how that one came out of thin air!

So it's not in full effect yet?? And it will last until end of June?? I wonder who else will crawl outta the woodworks! Only those I'm fond of i hope! This should be interesting!

Posted by celticlioness
My little crab is home and tucked up in his bed - close one, but he's here and that's all that matters 🙂 Thanks guys x

Please give that crustacean of yours a hug from us! Epilepsy is frightening. A loved one of mine experiences them as well. I'm so glad he's home and safe, Celtic. You're a good Mama! 🙂

I have had no contact from any of my exes or people I've seen/dated/sexed anything, am I the lucky one?

Posted by ShahBano
Rig--

Do you still like your ( former) KH ?--do you find it in your heart to forgive him eventually ?

( genuine question--nothing double-edged about it )

yeah shah, i still like him...since his message, which confirmed he was back with his ex, i feel much better about our meeting as i believe now that he genuinely thought he was single when we were together. i don't like the way he handled it and the fact he never directly told me also pisses me off big time but until the message, i was more focussed on the thought that he had met someone new and had just brushed me off...the confusion killed me which is why i will get some kind of apology from him for that as it was totally out of order...but yeah, i will easily forgive him, once he's asked for it.

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well, as you know, thanks to magic 8, i am being revisited by the leo. i'm not ready to deal with it though and apparently this venus retro encourages us to move slowly in these circumstances....so that's what i'm doing.

i swing between wanting to pour out some venom and wanting to throw myself at his feet and so, i'll be doing nothing until i sort my head out.

Did your knobhead call again, Rig ?

no not yet but i'm sure he will. to be honest, i can't even summon the feeling to call him a knobhead right now...i just don't want to think about him at all...too confusing. i've turned down two hot dates due to lack of interest on my part. sometimes, a revisit is the last thing you need 😢

CL....especially when they're aries!!

Oi! What you got against Aries Rig— We're awesome!

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hey lotuslily...you have the same as my daughter!! she's aries sun, scorp rising. omg i already don't know what to do with her and she's only 13. i am being forced to find a school that resembles a nunnery as closely as possible. she is a PLAYER!!! totally unbeievable!! mind you, she just learning how to use her new found sexuality and so it's not as if she's promiscuous or anything lol. but seriously, she has an endless procession of admirers...all the fittest boys at school....and hence alot of the girls don't like her very much (bitches, lol).

but as for the ram boys...i was with one for around 20 years and he's the father of my two kids. i personally find them impossible for romantic relationships but obviously there was something that kept us together...i suspect it was sex tbh.

@ Rig... Now try throwing some Leo moon into the equation too! Its a lot of highly sexed ness going on! I went to visit these two brothers I have as friends one might and the one started talking about sex. Then the other one said "what's wrong with you? You haven't mentioned a word about sex for months and tonight that's all you're speaking about!"
Then he said it was my fault because being around makes him just think about sex! And I was just being normal! I wasn't trying to be sexy or provocative in anyway. and he wasn't trying to come onto me in anyway. I don't think he is attracted to me actually.
Other people have also told me before i give off an air of sex! Kinda cool when I'm out on the prowl, easy takings! Haha...

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My little crab is home and tucked up in his bed - close one, but he's here and that's all that matters 🙂 Thanks guys x

Please give that crustacean of yours a hug from us! Epilepsy is frightening. A loved one of mine experiences them as well. I'm so glad he's home and safe, Celtic. You're a good Mama! 🙂

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Thanks Sheathed, hugs given and received with complete ecstasy 🙂 It is frightening and he stops breathing during them so it can get bad, but he's home now, all that matters.

BTW I call my person that I'm with "My Man" - spouse is lovely for you, I was worried I missed out on the huge celebration, should have known better, I'm sure we'll all be well aware of the date the queen consents to her consort as it gets nearer 🙂

Posted by lotuslily
@ I wasn't trying to be sexy or provocative in anyway.

Simply the best way to be sexy, no need to flaunt, its just there 😉

Heard from another old lover today! He said he was just thinking about me so he decided to say hello, so I asked what he was thinking about me and said I missed our chats because we've both been so busy lately. He came back and said "I'll have to tell you later, my girlfriend is sitting next to me and I have to be careful" !!!!!!

And he's a cancer!

That's two ex lovers in the last week who have popped up out of the blue, unexpectedly.

Hehe, of course! All in due time, for the world is our oyster and we're definitely taking our time with planning it. We're both too Virgo in romance to ever make haste or become tangled up in rushing plans. As the date becomes closer, I'll definitely be looking for some advice and opinion from you all. 🙂

I can't imagine how heart stopping that must be for a mother to experience 😢

When little I used to stop breathing at night and would turn blue. Had corrective surgery for a skeletal obstruction causing it when 4. Mom never got over that and still will check on me if she's awake. However I'm usually still awake and I'll give her a smirk when she opens the door.

A Leo mother of a Cancer son.. I must say, that's very fitting. 🙂

Posted by sheathedclaws
Hehe, of course! All in due time, for the world is our oyster and we're definitely taking our time with planning it. We're both too Virgo in romance to ever make haste or become tangled up in rushing plans. As the date becomes closer, I'll definitely be looking for some advice and opinion from you all. 🙂

I can't imagine how heart stopping that must be for a mother to experience 😢

When little I used to stop breathing at night and would turn blue. Had corrective surgery for a skeletal obstruction causing it when 4. Mom never got over that and still will check on me if she's awake. However I'm usually still awake and I'll give her a smirk when she opens the door.

A Leo mother of a Cancer son.. I must say, that's very fitting. 🙂

And a Cancer daughter... Its a real hoot!

Can't wait to start opinionating on your wedding plans 🙂

hey sheathed!! i am soooooooo glad i'm out of my bitter period ahead of your wedding otherwise i would pour bitterness on to it like a moody bitch. i went to my libra work friend's wedding a couple of years ago when the bitterness was still quite fresh and i'd been telling her what a huge mistake she was making from her announcement, lol...only in jest but even so, must've pissed her off.

on the wedding day itself, there were two other women at my table also freshly divorced...we were the table of bitterness.

the father of the bride was giving his speech and telling the story of how my friend's man had visited him to ask for her hand in marriage and then he said...do you know what i told him? unfortunately, he left a long enough pause for me to yell 'YEAH...DON'T DOOOO IT!!!'.

it was a gibraltarian wedding and they are rough diamonds so everyone laughed, thank god!!

Oh gosh - I'd be shooting a super soaker of red wine at ya if you did that 😛

I'm having my grandfather and dog walk me down the aisle. Silly - but the two most important men in my life who both love my fiance - and I'm not for the mindset of being 'given away' or 'presented'. It's beautiful for some and traditional, but just doesn't suit our approach and that presentation is uncomfortable for both of us.

My dog is a huge dopey lovebug. Golden Retriever, named Cody. We've been tracking scents and practicing tricks where he's to problem solve on multiple layers. He's very smart.





He'll always be the first love of my life. 🙂

Excuse my cheesiness - I'm just so lame and sappy about my dog. 😛

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A Leo mother of a Cancer son.. I must say, that's very fitting. 🙂

And a Cancer daughter... Its a real hoot!

Can't wait to start opinionating on your wedding plans 🙂

How sweet! Two little crabs to love and who love you back! I can picture the playful Leo mom with her 2 crabby cubs. Then again, I imagine that as a Leo mom you can be playful one minute then demanding the next 😉 Good job! Don't let 'em get away with naughtiness.

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Yes it is sweet, they are wonderful, crabs are really and so funny when they are not crying (which is funny in itself sometimes!!), "I imagine that as a Leo mom you can be playful one minute then demanding the next 😉" this is right, I think all Leo moms would be like this!

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A Leo mother of a Cancer son.. I must say, that's very fitting. 🙂

And a Cancer daughter... Its a real hoot!

Can't wait to start opinionating on your wedding plans 🙂

How sweet! Two little crabs to love and who love you back! I can picture the playful Leo mom with her 2 crabby cubs. Then again, I imagine that as a Leo mom you can be playful one minute then demanding the next 😉 Good job! Don't let 'em get away with naughtiness.

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Mm, can't wait to be a Lioness with cubs of my own! Little ones to treasure and to be proud of. To make a beautiful life and home for out of whatever we have. I can see the children of Leo mothers always being polite - especially in social situations 🙂

sheathed....i'll have you know my kids are extremely polite in social situations...it's just at home they talk back, lol!! actually, my son is virgo/libra sun with leo rising and he is sooooo great in social situations...natural confidence and charm. everyone likes him...not as much as me though.

your doggie woggie is soooooo beautiful. i love him too. you can have my lola in exchange. she has gender issues. keeps dry humping my leg which can be a tad embarrassing.

actually, thinking about it...if venus brings the knobhead back into my life, his dog fred will get to be reunited with lola. they shared a few nights of passion under the stars last summer. i think she felt just as dumped as i did, lol.

does venus retro apply to doggies?

Posted by R1g0rM0rT1s
sheathed....i'll have you know my kids are extremely polite in social situations...it's just at home they talk back, lol!! actually, my son is virgo/libra sun with leo rising and he is sooooo great in social situations...natural confidence and charm. everyone likes him...not as much as me though.

your doggie woggie is soooooo beautiful. i love him too. you can have my lola in exchange. she has gender issues. keeps dry humping my leg which can be a tad embarrassing.

actually, thinking about it...if venus brings the knobhead back into my life, his dog fred will get to be reunited with lola. they shared a few nights of passion under the stars last summer. i think she felt just as dumped as i did, lol.

does venus retro apply to doggies?

Oh of course - EVERY child of a wonderful parent is typically polite and well mannered 🙂

I'll take Lola - there are no gender issues but rather the society itself forcing a binary onto the internal regardless of the already defined external but that's another matter.

Hmmm I wonder! I find that my cat is DEFINITELY his sun sign (Taurus) but haven't noted any effects - albeit he's 'fixed' (LOL NOT ASTROLOGICALLY BUT RATHER HIS GENITALIA). His health has been poor.. 😢

Off to bring my doggie on a walk!!

And to all of you Mamas.. Happy Mothers Day! (today is the US holiday)

Sunflowers to all 🙂

well....i posted my venus retrograde experience in the Leo forum, but seems stupid asses wanna pass judgement rather than help. i blocked them and they are still talkin abt anything EXCEPT for answer my question. why do ppl prey on eachother? maybe you ladies can help....basically my leo i spoke of on here two months ago came back around...we visited, had a great time n just wanted to know what this meant for leo during this venus retrograde..n what it may mean once venus goes direct again? thank you all..🙂

well....i posted my venus retrograde experience in the Leo forum, but seems stupid asses wanna pass judgement rather than help. i blocked them and they are still talkin abt anything EXCEPT for answer my question. why do ppl prey on eachother? maybe you ladies can help....basically my leo i spoke of on here two months ago came back around...we visited, had a great time n just wanted to know what this meant for leo during this venus retrograde..n what it may mean once venus goes direct again? thank you all..🙂

well....i posted my venus retrograde experience in the Leo forum, but seems stupid asses wanna pass judgement rather than help. i blocked them and they are still talkin abt anything EXCEPT for answer my question. why do ppl prey on eachother? maybe you ladies can help....basically my leo i spoke of on here two months ago came back around...we visited, had a great time n just wanted to know what this meant for leo during this venus retrograde..n what it may mean once venus goes direct again? thank you all..🙂

Maybe if you weren't so rude, and a multi-posting twit, people would help you.

Feel free to block me, sistah 🙂

The Virguy and I broke it off a few days ago (right on retro, or perhaps a bit before) and now my Taurus and I are going smoothly... Until I had a hissy fit and possibly ruined what we had going on.. Thankfully he is very communicative so this should be solved (for better or worse) in a matter of time..

*sigh*

it was a very relevant post though cos the retrograde isn't just about ex's reappering...i think everyone is generally going to be reviewing the current and past relationshps and dealing with issues that are related. apparently, it's a bad time to start something new mostly cos we should be evaluating stuff and not just blindly repeating the same mistakes.

lol...i've even found myself thinking about past relationships with pet cats!!! s'true!! i realised that before i had kids, my cats provided me with the love focus i wasn't getting from my marriage at that time...then the kids came along and took place of the cats. now i'm thinking that if we never had cats in the first place, i would've seen the marriage as being empty as it was and would've left before fucking things up further by having kids (i'll never regret having them though).

so...venus in retrograde is putting the focus on ALL our relationships and not just romantic ones...friendships, work relationships, even neighbours...it's all gonna be in the mix til the 27th june.

I just want to hug everyone in this thread 🙂 Except Freckled - ick! 😛

No that was a lie 😢 I'd hug everyone!

I mcan't even allow myself to lie for over 10 seconds.. via Internet. Sooo pathetic 😛

nothing pathetic about honesty sweets 🙂

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nothing pathetic about honesty sweets 🙂

Everybody wants to play poker with me.. hm, I wonder why 😛 😛

^^^^^^loooooolz

The ex scorpio of mine has returned....GOD DAMN! about time of on MY past relationships came back via retrograde!! I was feeling so left out. 😢

Just posted on scorp board the story, in case ye'all interested.

omfg definitely reading in the am bgp.

.... message me with a reminder if I forget under my medicated stupor. 😛

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I can't even allow myself to lie for over 10 seconds.. via Internet. Sooo pathetic 😛

That's because you're such a nice person 🙂

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B'awh! No, you're a nicer person!

Can this escalate into a conversation that is similar to the dreaded 'no you hang up first' "nooo you hang up!" 'aw, no you hang up first' that happens to every preteen at least once?

Which reminds me.. I've been meaning to rewatch Pretty in Pink 😉

Libra sun leo rising here ( yes i have gorgeous hair haha). My ruler venus the bitch finally got me last night she and that asshole saturn teamed up and made me face the person ive been avoiding. I have this thing when breaking up with an ex i disappear like air as soon as goodbye has been said, the reason is if i still am in contact with the ex i would just end up feeling like im dying to either have him back or scheme evil plans just to make him regret everything bad he had done which led to the break up so just to balance my scales and give my heart a break i would remove myself from the situation and person asap. Then last night it happened, my ex finally got a hold of me ( he has been trying to contact me but i did my very best to ignore him) i though to myself shit fuck am i ready for this. But then i let venus and saturn win ( im in saturn return so its been a year of lessons and reshaping) i had enough of hiding so i went in ..i reminded my heart to stay calm and not die on me. After uttering the words hello to reply his greeting ..my heart surprised me..it didnt broke down. I was expecting to feel the pain again and go dramatic but it didnt happen. I was really stunned. After the conversation i felt so happy. Happy not because i talked to the guy i just recently fell for ( he didnt actually have any effect on me during the conversation). I was happy because my right before my very eyes MY HEART grew a backbone. Its not a 100% libra heart anymore its a 50% libra 50% leo!!!!

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Libra sun leo rising here ( yes i have gorgeous hair haha). My ruler venus the bitch finally got me last night she and that asshole saturn teamed up and made me face the person ive been avoiding. I have this thing when breaking up with an ex i disappear like air as soon as goodbye has been said, the reason is if i still am in contact with the ex i would just end up feeling like im dying to either have him back or scheme evil plans just to make him regret everything bad he had done which led to the break up so just to balance my scales and give my heart a break i would remove myself from the situation and person asap. Then last night it happened, my ex finally got a hold of me ( he has been trying to contact me but i did my very best to ignore him) i though to myself shit fuck am i ready for this. But then i let venus and saturn win ( im in saturn return so its been a year of lessons and reshaping) i had enough of hiding so i went in ..i reminded my heart to stay calm and not die on me. After uttering the words hello to reply his greeting ..my heart surprised me..it didnt broke down. I was expecting to feel the pain again and go dramatic but it didnt happen. I was really stunned. After the conversation i felt so happy. Happy not because i talked to the guy i just recently fell for ( he didnt actually have any effect on me during the conversation). I was happy because my right before my very eyes MY HEART grew a backbone. Its not a 100% libra heart anymore its a 50% libra 50% leo!!!!

that is a GREAT venus retro story. i'm glad your heart grew a pair...that seems to be the over-riding message from the planets.

my libra moon makes me react to breakups in the same way. i can't even bear to see the persons name written down cos it upsets my equilibrium lol. if it wasn't for my moon, i'm sure my scorp sun would force me to stalk the object of my desire. thank you libra moon 🙂

that is a GREAT venus retro story. i'm glad your heart grew a pair...that seems to be the over-riding message from the planets.

my libra moon makes me react to breakups in the same way. i can't even bear to see the persons name written down cos it upsets my equilibrium lol. if it wasn't for my moon, i'm sure my scorp sun would force me to stalk the object of my desire. thank you libra moon 🙂

Thank you 🙂 i know i thought at first venus retro meant second chances, catching up with an ex..but it actually meant to be there to test how you are emotionally, can i handle being alone? am i really happy with my life even if i dont have someone there to cater to my needs? how brave am i?

I am happy now. I dont need revenge , i dont need second chances, i dont need my past. all i need is myself my happiness and my future 🙂

i thank my leo rising for giving me this strong and proud exterior to my soft and delicate libra heart

Yes. It happened to me as well by the virgo that I can't escape to this day. He ended up at the same music show on the 8th. I was standing in line for a beer, I turned around for no reason, and he materialized out of nowhere. He even chuckled because I was standing there like a deer caught in headlights at first. He gave me a hug and pressed the side of his face to mine and placed his hand where my waist meets my hip. All those old feelings flooded within me again. I'd been so good about staying away because of my bf and virgo goes and does that. He stayed near me the whole night which didn't help. He tends to circle around me and keep close proximity. He texts me the next day saying how much fun he had and that my hugs are always welcome. FML. Seriously.

Posted by everevolvingepithet
Tell him to stop being a cheese weasel and back it up a bit?

Ive eat a cheese weasel once. It was salty.

yeah, weasel is a big diss but a weasel with cheese? that's way off the charts, lol.

Come to think of it...my ex libra, ex scorpio, ex aquas and ex pisces all contacted me last night. Weird.

I knew it! Actually, I didn't till I read this but it explains all the delays. When is it over? My patience is, well I have none. And the little I have is like a shredded thread recently.

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Oh rig, we don't get on at all, can't bare to be around him. Our son is in hospital so we were forced to be in each others presence. Fecking Venus 🙂

Is it acceptable to inquire as to why your son is in the hospital right now? 😢

It's acceptable 🙂. He's epileptic and had a seizure. Hopefully going home today, I'm tired of hospital floors, thank god for smartphones!!

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I have grand mal seizures i've been through a lot I hope you find something to control them. it's a pain to live with that.