When Leo is having a crush on you…

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Losttoleo
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This question is posted to all Leo woman or girl. Especially when you are just a teenage or young Leo without a lot of dating experiences.

I just want to understand what this leo girl is trying to express. We are just friends. I feels that she likes me. However, she will randomly show me guys photo and tell me that these guys are her type. Tbh, even if she really likes me, I think our situation doesn’t allow her to confess to me. But she has been making me confuse. At times she flirts with me and gets “jealous” when I care about other girls. I’m not sure if she is trying to make me jealous when she talks about what kind of guys she likes.

Any kind Leo girl or woman can help me decipher her thoughts. Are you like this to your crush also in the past or now?
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Depends on if she’s in a relationship or not.

If you are consistent and emotionally available to them when they need attention, they will take it.

Stay friends, their flirting banter means nothing. They just use you for validation.

I’ve been friends with 2 Leo men for years and they will randomly come and go, but we’ve never been more than friends.

They just know I will answer their calls and texts.

They both do the same thing and talk about girls.

Then they end up deleting or blocking me once I scale back the communication.

They can call and text all day if you let them.

It takes up too much of my day.

Just my observation of the ones I know.
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If she's talking about other guys she doesn't really see you as a potential partner. I would do that to guys who I just wanted friendship from.

We aren't flirting, we are just being friendly but ppl always take that as flirting. 🙄

We get jealous of our friends hanging out with other people. Especially when we are younger. Doesn't mean she likes you romantically... we just don't like sharing our friends. I was worst about that when I was younger.
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Leo's can get jealous over any kind of relationship they value.

The comments about attention is very true.

A young immature Leo will test to see if you show signs of jealousy too.

Unless you have been completely written off, interest, attraction, and affection can grow over time.

Lol "Girls" can change their mind.

Show a little more interest maybe ask her out to something and see if she is up for it or suggest something else.

But the question is, you are friends. Are you serious about her?

Honestly, What do YOU WANT with her and how do YOU FEEL about her?

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Posted by Lostthoughts
Leo's can get jealous over any kind of relationship they value.

The comments about attention is very true.

A young immature Leo will test to see if you show signs of jealousy too.


Unless you have been completely written off, interest, attraction, and affection can grow over time.

Lol "Girls" can change their mind.

Show a little more interest maybe ask her out to something and see if she is up for it or suggest something else.


But the question is, you are friends. Are you serious about her?

Honestly, What do YOU WANT with her and how do YOU FEEL about her?



Attraction isn't a choice. Women don't change their mind if they've already lumped you in the friend category.

If you do hear the "we were friends first" story, they weren't in that category. Romantic interest was never discussed, or they were already with someone else at the time.

What matters time & time again is how SHE FEELS about you. It doesn't matter how the man feels. There countless stories of women chasing married men, or men going to the ends of the earth for them only to be rejected. A man can call/text for 10 years and still be constantly rejected.
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Posted by Lostthoughts
Leo's can get jealous over any kind of relationship they value.

The comments about attention is very true.

A young immature Leo will test to see if you show signs of jealousy too.

Unless you have been completely written off, interest, attraction, and affection can grow over time.

Lol "Girls" can change their mind.

Show a little more interest maybe ask her out to something and see if she is up for it or suggest something else.

But the question is, you are friends. Are you serious about her?

Honestly, What do YOU WANT with her and how do YOU FEEL about her?


Attraction isn't a choice. Women don't change their mind if they've already lumped you in the friend category.


If you do hear the "we were friends first" story, they weren't in that category. Romantic interest was never discussed, or they were already with someone else at the time.


What matters time & time again is how SHE FEELS about you. It doesn't matter how the man feels. There countless stories of women chasing married men, or men going to the ends of the earth for them only to be rejected. A man can call/text for 10 years and still be constantly rejected.
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I disagree. You hear about plenty of women and men that fall in and out of attraction while they are friends, but usually it has to do with one being in a relationship while the other is single.

I do agree that there has to be an initial attraction at first.

Women can fall for personality sometimes too and a guy can grow on them.

But her talking about cute guys or guys she's going on dates with is a good indicator that she isn't interested.
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Posted by Lostthoughts
Leo's can get jealous over any kind of relationship they value.

The comments about attention is very true.

A young immature Leo will test to see if you show signs of jealousy too.

Unless you have been completely written off, interest, attraction, and affection can grow over time.

Lol "Girls" can change their mind.

Show a little more interest maybe ask her out to something and see if she is up for it or suggest something else.

But the question is, you are friends. Are you serious about her?

Honestly, What do YOU WANT with her and how do YOU FEEL about her?


Attraction isn't a choice. Women don't change their mind if they've already lumped you in the friend category.


If you do hear the "we were friends first" story, they weren't in that category. Romantic interest was never discussed, or they were already with someone else at the time.


What matters time & time again is how SHE FEELS about you. It doesn't matter how the man feels. There countless stories of women chasing married men, or men going to the ends of the earth for them only to be rejected. A man can call/text for 10 years and still be constantly rejected.

I disagree. You hear about plenty of women and men that fall in and out of attraction while they are friends, but usually it has to do with one being in a relationship while the other is single.

I do agree that there has to be an initial attraction at first.

Women can fall for personality sometimes too and a guy can grow on them.

But her talking about cute guys or guys she's going on dates with is a good indicator that she isn't interested.
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Attraction flucuates, but you can't ignite something that isn't there.

That's just the potential category. You're cordial towards each other or hang out in a group of friends, but you don't discuss romantic interests. Which is what I mentioned earlier. If she's sharing other men she's dating openly or asking your opinion.. the guy is in too deep to recover.

This is a completely different zone from a break-up and her saying " lets be friends."
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Leo's can get jealous over any kind of relationship they value.

The comments about attention is very true.

A young immature Leo will test to see if you show signs of jealousy too.


Unless you have been completely written off, interest, attraction, and affection can grow over time.

Lol "Girls" can change their mind.

Show a little more interest maybe ask her out to something and see if she is up for it or suggest something else.


But the question is, you are friends. Are you serious about her?

Honestly, What do YOU WANT with her and how do YOU FEEL about her?


Attraction isn't a choice. Women don't change their mind if they've already lumped you in the friend category.

If you do hear the "we were friends first" story, they weren't in that category. Romantic interest was never discussed, or they were already with someone else at the time.

What matters time & time again is how SHE FEELS about you. It doesn't matter how the man feels. There countless stories of women chasing married men, or men going to the ends of the earth for them only to be rejected. A man can call/text for 10 years and still be constantly rejected.
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I'm talking in general not this situation per sa.

What I said is also true. Seen it many many times. Believe it or not there is a decent number of man and woman who are like that. Things grow as they get to know someone.

It's a conscious choice wether or not to act on it. Ever hear the term "Cathing feelings"?

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Posted by saggurl88
Depends on if she’s in a relationship or not.

If you are consistent and emotionally available to them when they need attention, they will take it.


Stay friends, their flirting banter means nothing. They just use you for validation.


I’ve been friends with 2 Leo men for years and they will randomly come and go, but we’ve never been more than friends.

They just know I will answer their calls and texts.

They both do the same thing and talk about girls.

Then they end up deleting or blocking me once I scale back the communication.


They can call and text all day if you let them.


It takes up too much of my day.


Just my observation of the ones I know.


No lies were told.
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This question is posted to all Leo woman or girl. Especially when you are just a teenage or young Leo without a lot of dating experiences.

I just want to understand what this leo girl is trying to express. We are just friends. I feels that she likes me. However, she will randomly show me guys photo and tell me that these guys are her type. Tbh, even if she really likes me, I think our situation doesn’t allow her to confess to me. But she has been making me confuse. At times she flirts with me and gets “jealous” when I care about other girls. I’m not sure if she is trying to make me jealous when she talks about what kind of guys she likes.

Any kind Leo girl or woman can help me decipher her thoughts. Are you like this to your crush also in the past or now?


Run away as fast you can. She is not the one for you.

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You're in the friend-zone fam.


No woman, regardless of sign is going to constantly discuss other men she likes with you.


She'll tell you about the guy bothering her at work she's not interested in.. but not one she likes.


Unless she is poly and is actively trying to make herself seem more desirable

By flaunting or talking about the other people she is seeing aka showing you what you are missing.

This usually happens after you’ve curved her though.
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Posted by saggurl88
Depends on if she’s in a relationship or not.

If you are consistent and emotionally available to them when they need attention, they will take it.


Stay friends, their flirting banter means nothing. They just use you for validation.


I’ve been friends with 2 Leo men for years and they will randomly come and go, but we’ve never been more than friends.

They just know I will answer their calls and texts.

They both do the same thing and talk about girls.

Then they end up deleting or blocking me once I scale back the communication.


They can call and text all day if you let them.


It takes up too much of my day.


Just my observation of the ones I know.


Both of us are single. Leo girls and guys are the same? I just find it weird when she likes to lie on my shoulder. and there was a weird feeling when we happen to hold each other's hand when we are "fighting" being playful kind.
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If she's talking about other guys she doesn't really see you as a potential partner. I would do that to guys who I just wanted friendship from.

We aren't flirting, we are just being friendly but ppl always take that as flirting. 🙄

We get jealous of our friends hanging out with other people. Especially when we are younger. Doesn't mean she likes you romantically... we just don't like sharing our friends. I was worst about that when I was younger.


Will you lie on that guy's shoulder if you don't like him?

Sometimes i felt that she wants to be close to me physically. that's what's making me confuse. for e.g. she will sit beside me when I'm in the room full of people. is it i'm thinking too much...

at times she look at me with a sad face. makes me wonder what she is thinking of. she is single. but she keep telling me that she like this particular handsome guy (I guess she found this guy online?) but i can confirm she is not meeting or seeing anyone. i'm still wondering if she made that guy up. pls help.
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Posted by Lostthoughts
Leo's can get jealous over any kind of relationship they value.

The comments about attention is very true.

A young immature Leo will test to see if you show signs of jealousy too.


Unless you have been completely written off, interest, attraction, and affection can grow over time.

Lol "Girls" can change their mind.

Show a little more interest maybe ask her out to something and see if she is up for it or suggest something else.


But the question is, you are friends. Are you serious about her?

Honestly, What do YOU WANT with her and how do YOU FEEL about her?



so maybe she just valued me as a friend? 😢 i'm just fed up. idk whats on her mind and dont knoe why she is treating me like this. i do have feelings for her. but i just wanted to find out how she feels about me first. so then i can take a move. its annoying that she keeps telling me about that one guy that she likes now. but she dont even know that person. they never met.
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Posted by Lostthoughts
Leo's can get jealous over any kind of relationship they value.

The comments about attention is very true.

A young immature Leo will test to see if you show signs of jealousy too.

Unless you have been completely written off, interest, attraction, and affection can grow over time.

Lol "Girls" can change their mind.

Show a little more interest maybe ask her out to something and see if she is up for it or suggest something else.

But the question is, you are friends. Are you serious about her?

Honestly, What do YOU WANT with her and how do YOU FEEL about her?


Attraction isn't a choice. Women don't change their mind if they've already lumped you in the friend category.


If you do hear the "we were friends first" story, they weren't in that category. Romantic interest was never discussed, or they were already with someone else at the time.


What matters time & time again is how SHE FEELS about you. It doesn't matter how the man feels. There countless stories of women chasing married men, or men going to the ends of the earth for them only to be rejected. A man can call/text for 10 years and still be constantly rejected.
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how do i knoe if she has friendzoned me?
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Posted by Losttoleo
Posted by Lostthoughts
Leo's can get jealous over any kind of relationship they value.

The comments about attention is very true.

A young immature Leo will test to see if you show signs of jealousy too.


Unless you have been completely written off, interest, attraction, and affection can grow over time.

Lol "Girls" can change their mind.

Show a little more interest maybe ask her out to something and see if she is up for it or suggest something else.


But the question is, you are friends. Are you serious about her?

Honestly, What do YOU WANT with her and how do YOU FEEL about her?


so maybe she just valued me as a friend? 😢 i'm just fed up. idk whats on her mind and dont knoe why she is treating me like this. i do have feelings for her. but i just wanted to find out how she feels about me first. so then i can take a move. its annoying that she keeps telling me about that one guy that she likes now. but she dont even know that person. they never met.
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So have you done any "date like" activities or treat her like more then a friend recently?

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If she's talking about other guys she doesn't really see you as a potential partner. I would do that to guys who I just wanted friendship from.

We aren't flirting, we are just being friendly but ppl always take that as flirting. 🙄

We get jealous of our friends hanging out with other people. Especially when we are younger. Doesn't mean she likes you romantically... we just don't like sharing our friends. I was worst about that when I was younger.

Will you lie on that guy's shoulder if you don't like him?
Sometimes i felt that she wants to be close to me physically. that's what's making me confuse. for e.g. she will sit beside me when I'm in the room full of people. is it i'm thinking too much...
at times she look at me with a sad face. makes me wonder what she is thinking of. she is single. but she keep telling me that she like this particular handsome guy (I guess she found this guy online?) but i can confirm she is not meeting or seeing anyone. i'm still wondering if she made that guy up. pls help.
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If he is a friend I feel comfortable with I will.
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Posted by LuckyLibra7
You're in the friend-zone fam.

No woman, regardless of sign is going to constantly discuss other men she likes with you.

She'll tell you about the guy bothering her at work she's not interested in.. but not one she likes.

Unless she is poly and is actively trying to make herself seem more desirable

By flaunting or talking about the other people she is seeing aka showing you what you are missing.


This usually happens after you’ve curved her though.
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I don't quite get you
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Leo's can get jealous over any kind of relationship they value.

The comments about attention is very true.

A young immature Leo will test to see if you show signs of jealousy too.

Unless you have been completely written off, interest, attraction, and affection can grow over time.

Lol "Girls" can change their mind.

Show a little more interest maybe ask her out to something and see if she is up for it or suggest something else.

But the question is, you are friends. Are you serious about her?

Honestly, What do YOU WANT with her and how do YOU FEEL about her?


so maybe she just valued me as a friend? i'm just fed up. idk whats on her mind and dont knoe why she is treating me like this. i do have feelings for her. but i just wanted to find out how she feels about me first. so then i can take a move. its annoying that she keeps telling me about that one guy that she likes now. but she dont even know that person. they never met.
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So have you done any "date like" activities or treat her like more then a friend recently?



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She can't go out with me alone so I can't bring her out on dates. However I have been showing subtle signs that I am interested in her.
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If she's talking about other guys she doesn't really see you as a potential partner. I would do that to guys who I just wanted friendship from.

We aren't flirting, we are just being friendly but ppl always take that as flirting. 🙄

We get jealous of our friends hanging out with other people. Especially when we are younger. Doesn't mean she likes you romantically... we just don't like sharing our friends. I was worst about that when I was younger.

Exactly!


Leos LOVE attention. That doesn't mean she's into you.


She's gets pissy with you because you've shifted the spotlight away from her.

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I do realise that
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If she's talking about other guys she doesn't really see you as a potential partner. I would do that to guys who I just wanted friendship from.

We aren't flirting, we are just being friendly but ppl always take that as flirting. 🙄

We get jealous of our friends hanging out with other people. Especially when we are younger. Doesn't mean she likes you romantically... we just don't like sharing our friends. I was worst about that when I was younger.

Will you lie on that guy's shoulder if you don't like him?

Sometimes i felt that she wants to be close to me physically. that's what's making me confuse. for e.g. she will sit beside me when I'm in the room full of people. is it i'm thinking too much...

at times she look at me with a sad face. makes me wonder what she is thinking of. she is single. but she keep telling me that she like this particular handsome guy (I guess she found this guy online?) but i can confirm she is not meeting or seeing anyone. i'm still wondering if she made that guy up. pls help.
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If he is a friend I feel comfortable with I will.
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she has been getting closer to me recently. like talking to me very close to my face. almost touching.
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latest update guys/gals.. she just confessed that the guy she mentioned doesn't exist.

i'm still confused :/

oh anyways i realized is that she is very attentive towards my stuff. she will notice little things about me.

how i knew was bcause she tells me that she knoes i'm someone like this, if not she will say my usual habits. that's how i realized how she has been noticing me.

and.. there was one day where she gets very close to me while we were talking. very very close to my face. my heart was pounding so fast i did not react.
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If she's talking about other guys she doesn't really see you as a potential partner. I would do that to guys who I just wanted friendship from.

We aren't flirting, we are just being friendly but ppl always take that as flirting. 🙄

We get jealous of our friends hanging out with other people. Especially when we are younger. Doesn't mean she likes you romantically... we just don't like sharing our friends. I was worst about that when I was younger.

Will you lie on that guy's shoulder if you don't like him?

Sometimes i felt that she wants to be close to me physically. that's what's making me confuse. for e.g. she will sit beside me when I'm in the room full of people. is it i'm thinking too much...

at times she look at me with a sad face. makes me wonder what she is thinking of. she is single. but she keep telling me that she like this particular handsome guy (I guess she found this guy online?) but i can confirm she is not meeting or seeing anyone. i'm still wondering if she made that guy up. pls help.
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If he is a friend I feel comfortable with I will.

she has been getting closer to me recently. like talking to me very close to my face. almost touching.
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Look, you came here looking for insight from a Leo woman and I gave it. Either shit or get off the pot. Stop playing the nice guy role and either ask her out or don't. Stop pretending to be her friend when you want to fuck her. 🙄

You're not going to get anywhere with her with that. Leo women want a man who is going to be assertive and straight forward. We don't deal with men who can't express their feelings. It's annoying and a waist of our time. Stop looking for "signs". That's nice guy bullshit and 10 years from now you will use it against her when she's engaged about to marry another man and you use that time to finally tell her how you feel and get pissed off when she doesn't feel the same.
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Posted by Losttoleo
Posted by Lostthoughts
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Leo's can get jealous over any kind of relationship they value.

The comments about attention is very true.

A young immature Leo will test to see if you show signs of jealousy too.

Unless you have been completely written off, interest, attraction, and affection can grow over time.

Lol "Girls" can change their mind.

Show a little more interest maybe ask her out to something and see if she is up for it or suggest something else.

But the question is, you are friends. Are you serious about her?

Honestly, What do YOU WANT with her and how do YOU FEEL about her?


so maybe she just valued me as a friend? i'm just fed up. idk whats on her mind and dont knoe why she is treating me like this. i do have feelings for her. but i just wanted to find out how she feels about me first. so then i can take a move. its annoying that she keeps telling me about that one guy that she likes now. but she dont even know that person. they never met.
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So have you done any "date like" activities or treat her like more then a friend recently?




She can't go out with me alone so I can't bring her out on dates. However I have been showing subtle signs that I am interested in her.
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Why can't you bring here out?

Also how do you normally spend time with her?
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Posted by Lostthoughts
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Leo's can get jealous over any kind of relationship they value.

The comments about attention is very true.

A young immature Leo will test to see if you show signs of jealousy too.

Unless you have been completely written off, interest, attraction, and affection can grow over time.

Lol "Girls" can change their mind.

Show a little more interest maybe ask her out to something and see if she is up for it or suggest something else.

But the question is, you are friends. Are you serious about her?

Honestly, What do YOU WANT with her and how do YOU FEEL about her?

so maybe she just valued me as a friend? i'm just fed up. idk whats on her mind and dont knoe why she is treating me like this. i do have feelings for her. but i just wanted to find out how she feels about me first. so then i can take a move. its annoying that she keeps telling me about that one guy that she likes now. but she dont even know that person. they never met.
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So have you done any "date like" activities or treat her like more then a friend recently?



She can't go out with me alone so I can't bring her out on dates. However I have been showing subtle signs that I am interested in her.
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Why can't you bring here out?

Also how do you normally spend time with her?
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We are like family friends. only time we hangout are with the adults.
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Posted by Losttoleo
Posted by Lostthoughts
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Posted by Lostthoughts
Leo's can get jealous over any kind of relationship they value.

The comments about attention is very true.

A young immature Leo will test to see if you show signs of jealousy too.

Unless you have been completely written off, interest, attraction, and affection can grow over time.

Lol "Girls" can change their mind.

Show a little more interest maybe ask her out to something and see if she is up for it or suggest something else.

But the question is, you are friends. Are you serious about her?

Honestly, What do YOU WANT with her and how do YOU FEEL about her?

so maybe she just valued me as a friend? i'm just fed up. idk whats on her mind and dont knoe why she is treating me like this. i do have feelings for her. but i just wanted to find out how she feels about me first. so then i can take a move. its annoying that she keeps telling me about that one guy that she likes now. but she dont even know that person. they never met.
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So have you done any "date like" activities or treat her like more then a friend recently?



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She can't go out with me alone so I can't bring her out on dates. However I have been showing subtle signs that I am interested in her.
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Does she need a chaperone for dates?

How are you guys spending time alone together if she can't go out alone?
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Leo's can get jealous over any kind of relationship they value.

The comments about attention is very true.

A young immature Leo will test to see if you show signs of jealousy too.

Unless you have been completely written off, interest, attraction, and affection can grow over time.

Lol "Girls" can change their mind.

Show a little more interest maybe ask her out to something and see if she is up for it or suggest something else.

But the question is, you are friends. Are you serious about her?

Honestly, What do YOU WANT with her and how do YOU FEEL about her?

Attraction isn't a choice. Women don't change their mind if they've already lumped you in the friend category.

If you do hear the "we were friends first" story, they weren't in that category. Romantic interest was never discussed, or they were already with someone else at the time.

What matters time & time again is how SHE FEELS about you. It doesn't matter how the man feels. There countless stories of women chasing married men, or men going to the ends of the earth for them only to be rejected. A man can call/text for 10 years and still be constantly rejected.
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how do i knoe if she has friendzoned me?
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She asks you advice on dealing with men.
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Posted by Losttoleo
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Leo's can get jealous over any kind of relationship they value.

The comments about attention is very true.

A young immature Leo will test to see if you show signs of jealousy too.

Unless you have been completely written off, interest, attraction, and affection can grow over time.

Lol "Girls" can change their mind.

Show a little more interest maybe ask her out to something and see if she is up for it or suggest something else.

But the question is, you are friends. Are you serious about her?

Honestly, What do YOU WANT with her and how do YOU FEEL about her?

so maybe she just valued me as a friend? i'm just fed up. idk whats on her mind and dont knoe why she is treating me like this. i do have feelings for her. but i just wanted to find out how she feels about me first. so then i can take a move. its annoying that she keeps telling me about that one guy that she likes now. but she dont even know that person. they never met.
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So have you done any "date like" activities or treat her like more then a friend recently?



She can't go out with me alone so I can't bring her out on dates. However I have been showing subtle signs that I am interested in her.
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Why can't you bring here out?

Also how do you normally spend time with her?

We are like family friends. only time we hangout are with the adults.
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Something is off.

How old are you both?

What culture are you? Or country?

Give more detail about how you hang out?

Father brings you over to his friends house were she is? Detail.

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Posted by Losttoleo
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Posted by LuckyLibra7
You're in the friend-zone fam.

No woman, regardless of sign is going to constantly discuss other men she likes with you.

She'll tell you about the guy bothering her at work she's not interested in.. but not one she likes.

Unless she is poly and is actively trying to make herself seem more desirable

By flaunting or talking about the other people she is seeing aka showing you what you are missing.


This usually happens after you’ve curved her though.

I don't quite get you
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If there is a Leo that likes you ….who also thinks she is less attractive than you aka you are out of her league she will talk about and try to flaunt other relationships with men/women she also thinks is more attractive than her In front of you to in order to make herself seem more desirable.

I literally had one Leo tell me how she usually dates people that are way hotter than her and literally flaunt this woman she was actively dating in front of me when I was staying with her for a few weeks.

I wasn’t interested so of course this didn’t work on me ( it wouldn’t work even if I was ) but she usually gets what she wants..so she kept trying anyway . Even while dating this person that she started to flaunt in front of me she kept flirting , and even tried to use moves on me that I told her her friend used on me …which worked because I was unfortunately actually attracted to her friend at the time.