A Libra who fell out of love be able to love his ex again?

Hi Librans,

I'm a Leo who was with a Libra partner for 3.5 years. It was a strong stable relationship and we were both fulfilled in many ways through it. But he broke up with me in December 2017, saying that the feelings are no longer the same but that he now sees me as a friend and wants that instead. Although we tried to maintain peace after the break up, I, unfortunately, was still deeply in love and was not able to cope with my emotions of wanting him back and ended up being emotionally clingy and needy. Over the past 8 months, I've had to deal with depression, anxiety disorders with no proper support from him. He was never able to tell me that he doesn't love me anymore. He would only say that it was no longer the same.

I was able to get a proper closure yesterday after all the months of hot and cold, cold shoulders and intermittent contacting. I texted him to tell me if he still loves me or not, yes or no, to which he replied "No, and I am sorry". I have had to finally accept that he fell out of love with me. He still says that he sees us as friends, and I have accepted to be just friends with him. I do know that when he makes a decision, it is after much though and that he can stay firm with it but at the same time, being Leo, I am still unconditionally faithful to him and I love him beyond understanding.

I'd like to ask though, would a Libra male be able to stay friends with an ex without feelings resurfacing? Also, would the presence of a new love interest for him be of any threat to that? Seeing how the past 8 months were emotionally toxic and dramatic because of me, I do feel sad and a little hopeless that he may not ever feel the same way again but I do not understand why a part of me still wants to believe that love can overcome this.

All your advise is appreciated.

It may hurt, but the best thing is to let him go. My ex broke up with me because he no longer wanted to be in a relationship. He went from breaking up with me, telling me a few days later that it may be the biggest mistake he is making to then finding new girls and allowing them to talk about me. Recently he said he wants to be friends and I was sucked in for like two days, but then I remembered this is what he does to ALL of the girls he has talked to in the past. He keeps them around and tries to be nice so they will run right back to him.

*sigh*

December 2017?

Hope that aint an omen of things to come?

Look after yourself

Posted by nwzk
Hi Librans,

I'm a Leo who was with a Libra partner for 3.5 years. It was a strong stable relationship and we were both fulfilled in many ways through it. But he broke up with me in December 2017, saying that the feelings are no longer the same but that he now sees me as a friend and wants that instead. Although we tried to maintain peace after the break up, I, unfortunately, was still deeply in love and was not able to cope with my emotions of wanting him back and ended up being emotionally clingy and needy. Over the past 8 months, I've had to deal with depression, anxiety disorders with no proper support from him. He was never able to tell me that he doesn't love me anymore. He would only say that it was no longer the same.

I was able to get a proper closure yesterday after all the months of hot and cold, cold shoulders and intermittent contacting. I texted him to tell me if he still loves me or not, yes or no, to which he replied "No, and I am sorry". I have had to finally accept that he fell out of love with me. He still says that he sees us as friends, and I have accepted to be just friends with him. I do know that when he makes a decision, it is after much though and that he can stay firm with it but at the same time, being Leo, I am still unconditionally faithful to him and I love him beyond understanding.

I'd like to ask though, would a Libra male be able to stay friends with an ex without feelings resurfacing? Also, would the presence of a new love interest for him be of any threat to that? Seeing how the past 8 months were emotionally toxic and dramatic because of me, I do feel sad and a little hopeless that he may not ever feel the same way again but I do not understand why a part of me still wants to believe that love can overcome this.

All your advise is appreciated.

Libra moon here.

Yes it can happen. But in my case it took me a lot of time to be here. It was quite emotional initially due to the Cap influence. But now I see the girl I had once feelings for as my friend. I talk to her as a friend not a past lover, don't even expect any feelings either from her end or mine. But it feels quite good to have a friend. I realized emotions might betray and give you heartache but friendships last and give you true fulfillment. It might not have the emotional high of a romantic relationship but I found that to be just an illusion/infatuation phase. On the other hand in friendship you will see the truth of the person his/her real face. After that it is on you whether you accept it or not.

Take some break to go resolve your emotions first then only you will see the clear picture.

Posted by tiziani
Personally for me falling in love is easy, and with the same person over and over again has been done, I can do it.



That's why I don't focus on love or bring it up as a subject during disagreements or breakups because the talk and thoughts can just go in circles.

My ex just recently asked me if I loved her, I said yes without having to think about it. Then that lead to a question of am I still in love with her? I answered honestly, i don't know.

Then a few days later she brings it up in her own way saying I've "already said I don't love her" I stopped reading the rest of the text because it's a dead end thing. I've always seen this go round in circles until there's nothing left to say.

Because it's not the point.

Yup not the point ?