aquarian female madly in love with.........

LIBRAN MALE

Hiya
Im new and i was wondering if you guys could help me?? I have
been with my boyfriend coming up to a year and everything is
going well but i i feel like im ready to take the next step, which
is not like me at all! and he isn't but im just so in love and could see
me spending the rest of my life with him, but what im not sure if he wants to aswell! is it just me or has anyone eles experienced the same thing? He's everything loving understanding, mentally strong and very sexual but when it comes to talking about r future he's very vague! i confronted him the other day
and he said he just needs everything to right. Baring in mind that his ex is a mad cow and its scared him badly but how long will i have to wait for my libran guy to fully commit to me?? pls help! I know he loves me deeply as he tells me all the time but i wish i knew if it was right to ask him about our future. thanks xx

I haven't been with a Libran guy before but being a Libra girl we cant be all that different I guess. When people start talking about the future I get a touch freaked out I dont know why I start to feel trapped straight away! And then I start to analyse and overthink everything which Librans do alot as it takes us forever to make up our minds. I start to think but then what if Im with him for 4 years and we break up, whats the point of the relationship etc etc. Its really quite dumb but its what we do.

AND bad ex's can ruin us sometimes for a while I think! I still have issues about my ex who I was with for 4 years and it makes me terrified to get into another relationship incase I go another 4 years with a bad breakup at the end. Everytime Ive been unhappy in a relationship there is NO keeping me there. I either go very distant and cruel til the guy breaks up with me or gives me an ultimatum (I always try and make it his fault) or I cheat so he will find out and dump me. Terrible I know but we hate choices and confrontations so I put myself in places where I wont have to deal with either.

The fact he's with you, and that he's loving and understanding pretty much says all you need to know. If he didnt want to be with you, trust me he wouldn't, or he would be openly mean/cold. In the big picture a years not that long, but its a long time for a Libra to stay committed, which seems to say he's serious, maybe just not able to confront it all yet. Everyones different obviously so Im only saying what I think, and going on my own experiences and weird mind, but I think maybe just go with the flow on this one, and have faith that he loves you and wants you around. I really think if he didnt want you in his future, you would already know about it!

I hope this helps!! 🙂

Thanks ever so much for your time and comments libra-chich
it has given me a much clearer insight into what is going
on! i guess i just think he is just the nicest kindest most understanding
and loving guy i have ever been with and im scared of letting it slip through
my hands but what i should be doing is enjoying these moments.