Are Librans normally honest

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Hey guys and girls....I've noticed with my Libran that he will tell me almost anything and what his plans are for the next week, etc (in intricate detail)....is it a normal trait to be THAT honest—

I can't catch him out on anything - he's too honest LOL

Sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo different to the Gemini I was seeing for 6 years...what a nice change though 🙂

Still a strange guy - still need answers to all the other questions *laffs*

Thought I'd start a new thread
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I hate to tell the thruth but i guess it will be of some help.

We talk of our plans well in advance. Everyone see it as transparency and honesty. Most cases we are honest as we sound. But we do that part to keep our options open if in case we need to lie to you at a later point of time. Once we know we have won your confidence, we can lie a little bit here and there in the same fashion of being honest. You wont even suspect anything.


Now the trouble is you know wat was going inside. Dont dare go question a libran on this point. He wont accept it and will be forced to invent a new technique to keep options open if he finds out you know our secret. Whatever we do, even if it sounds or looks silly, its meant to keep options open.

I wish i could learn a bit about a libran thief(if someone exists and was stupid enough to be caught).
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Gemini lies and its not easy to catch them or make them confess. They love to twist it to the end.

Libran thief thingy - since we know we do everything to keep options open, I am curious to know if there was any well known libran theif who was stupid enough not to keep his options open and manage to get caught. 99% i think we wont get caught unless we care to confess. can be a silly thought though. i dunno how libran girls are in this keeping options open thingy.
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Chatz.. "....he'd see right through any of my lies"

Are you sure you're not an aqua.. this is ME girly. I can not lie to save my life. Eye starts twitching, knees start shaking.. voice gets rattled. People can tell I am lying over the phone. Now you know that is bad.. I just don't do it either.. anymore. Or at least I try not to. I can conveniently forget somethings from time to time though, can't I..
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gems do lie...lol..everybody does, regardless of their sign..sometimes its fun

a little white lie here and there wouldn't hurt, would it?

and i like saying "oh that, well.. i lied" and flash a close-up smile 🙂

but in my super personal relationships (if I have any) I prefer/demand and give honesty even to the littlest things i do..if not its WW3..if I am with a scop or leo but if I am with a libran, I play it cool, i think of some ways that will tell them "hey I know your friggin lying!" hehehe, soe ways that will not imbalance their sheesh! lol 😉

chatz (may i borrow that) sheesh!
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by the way...just a bit of info..

this is what my libran told me..

I speak with ease about this things ( as he talks a lot, and tells his future plans and all that as most? librans do) but dont let people in so easily. He told me girls can try to break in his heart but when he is not ready yet its futile attempt.

When he told me that, i don't know much about librans yet, but now i see, wow!

but the sharing schedule stuff and telling me whats going on in his life ..i didn't see it as honesty -this is just me- when he tells me this things, 'I' dont see it as being honest, i just see it as telling story..or sharing. Again, that's just me, my perception. Maybe because i don't care much about what your gonna do next week, i care about what we're gonna do next week...lol 😉



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"We talk of our plans well in advance. Everyone see it as transparency and honesty. Most cases we are honest as we sound. But we do that part to keep our options open if in case we need to lie to you at a later point of time. Once we know we have won your confidence, we can lie a little bit here and there in the same fashion of being honest. You wont even suspect anything."

This is so true. This is for me the final confirmation that astrology is very, very real.

Noone could have made this up for he hell of it...
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Yeah the Libran was spot on. Sometimes we tell our plans for the day/week or whatever because we are easily distracted by everything and having someone else know what is supposed to be happening forces a little accountability.

Sometimes it works out well in that we catch our partners in a lie about what they were doing and they can never turn around and use the "well, I never know what you were doing."

Right. Next.
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Nic.. my libra is very quick on his feet just like you.. You know some about aqua women??..my mind does not work in the same way his does.. I am a bit slower in my responses. I am very capable of being intelligent.. like writing is better for me bc I can formulate my words better (very introverted), but often it is hard for me to keep up with his mind, because he is so quick and I know it seems like I may be slow and I feel slow around him.. feels like a handicap of sorts..

Has the experience with your aqua been the same? I think you said your mom was an aqua.. did she suffer with these same issues?
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I'm not sure how honest Libras are. I can't say I've caught the Libra in any lies that I can prove.

Part of our phone call this morning, I tried to fib a bit but I just can't lie. We were talking about my upcoming surgery and told him that I can't have any *boom boom* for at least a month afterward. I told him that my boyfriend was really bummed about that. His reply, "Yeah, ok. And how is B.O.B doing these days?"

LOL
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Libra lies ??. I am Libra male who has a history of lies, well being accused of lies lies lies. Recently finished more than 12 years with Pisces, mother of my children. I do not lie and would much rather be honest as it feels good and takes less energy. Pisces decided that it was not possible ??. Libra lies! Spent that last 10 year living with ?Sherlock Homes' and at the end with no evidence to support the suspicions it wasn't that I hadn't lied, I am just exceptional at covering my tracks. No evidence, no lie!!!

Be cautious about it, don't fall into your own trap trying to trap the lying Libra.

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The only time that have been known to lie is if I my sense of freedom or freedom in general is being smothered or limmited. When I was in a relationship with a scorp she was so accusitory that sometimes I would tell little lies just to get her off my back, the point was not getting caught or being wrong it was simply not giving credit to being accused of things or questioned all of the time. Stuff like saying I had to stay a couple of hours late at work so that I could hang out with a friend I never got to spend time with because of the suffocating scorp....things of that nature.

In high school my parents and I were pretty much at war, they were overbearing in their parenting and I am a free spirit, so I would work full time and lie about the time I was getting off or the days I worked so that I could get some time to myself. If you limmit a Libras freedom, they will find a way to get it. Libras hate it when they have to lie and usually it happens when they are feeling out of balance by someone else. It doesn't make it right I know, but Libras are a bit claustraphopic when it comes to relationships LOL.

Yeah, the Aquas I knows minds work in a different way. There is usually a lot more going on in our little heads but the thing is the Aqua is just a lot more precise and confident in the things they think about. I actually think of the Aqua mind as a bit of an evolution of the Libra mind. It has the same processing power, it just uses it more efficiently. The difference is with all of that Libran analyzing you get someone who knows a little more about everything and with the Aqua someone who knows a lot more about less things. We tend to be experts at nothing but good at everything, and you tend to be experts at something, your a bit better at focusing your energy on long term prospects.

It sucks in arguements or conversation though becuase we already have the advantage of having contemplated just about everthing in existence so we get a small head start. 😉
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With water signs we have no choice than to lie and play drama. I used to lie with my scorp and later used to confess lies due to guilt. After sometime, even when i talk truth, she used to take it as a lie. 😢

Aqua brain is always one level higher than a libran brain as nic mentioned. But some aqua women got this super ego which kinda irritated me in the past in an expat board. 😢
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Yeah, I had to lie with my scorp. Lying just to get her to shut up, same with Cancers man when they get to feeling something is true it doesn't matter how much logic you use they just don't get it.

I have the same problem with Aqua women, the brain turns me on then their ego turns me off. Iv'e actually only known two that were able to avoid the turning off part. They are supposed to be an ideal match for us Libras but I have a hard time getting passionate about Aqua women.
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Nic and thelibran... Very interesting..

I don't think I have a big ego, so I don't believe that is an issue. I have confidence because I know I have analyzed a situation to death and am confident in my decision or my outlook on it. Usually I can quote some facts that will discredit a libra's whimsical view point, but I try not to do this much because I know you all have fragile egos. Whenever I get really brainy with my libra he is like a deer in headlights and I do not like doin that to him, but sometimes I have to, to let him know I am intelligent and beautiful.. more than what he sees.. hoping maybe it will make him think about me more. I don't think many women can compete with that.. and I have a lot of competition with him. I have to find ways for him to single me out of his entourage. He just has an incredible ability to make everyone feel so special and he can completely focus on me. I have not found any other sign that can do that, it's like the whole world melts away when we are together, and all he cares about is me, this stimulates me because I can not do that... it's a libra thing and I crave that type of attention.
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OK, guys... Librans lie and it is hard to catch them in it. Until recently I thought they were pretty straight forward, but always knew everyone had a tendency to lie. My Libran friend, who just got back with his ex, the sag. Sent me an email explaining what he thought the reason for the constant break up with his ex (now girlfriend again)has been. You guessed and it surprised me,"All she wanted was for me to be honest with her, even if I said I didn't want to answer a particular question, instead I would always lie, because of fear of what I thought would happen and avoid conflicts..." This email was sent to me this morning... So yes, I guess they can lie...
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". Just let them think their free and you have them. Heeheehee!!!"

Your a mighty powerful woman with that little bit of knowledge right there. 😉 actually, if we fall in love with you and you just give us the illusion were free, sometimes that actually works out. We kow it's an illusion, they know it's an illusion, but we are pretty good with illusion lol.

Actually I look to be in for a bit of trouble myself. A Libra girl has gotten my attention pretty bad and vice versa....we live in different states but practically grew up knowing each other without getting close. We are so similar we would drive all of you crazy but it is rather natural for us. Talk all night, not hear from the other in a week or more, then more intense flattering, charming, wordy conversation and back and forth like that. I could see how it could drive you all crazy but I rather like that we are both like that. And we probably keep little things from each other or lie a little bit to each other but neither of us cares. Freakin awesome.....haha. It will be nice when we finally see each other again....watch for a mushroom when we do.
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