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wooooohooooo nic that's great....and 2 Librans together? hmmmmm yeah I can see how that would be "freakin awesome".....to me its freakin insane LOL....nah, really that's great...we look forward to your future posts of frustration 😉 Although you know what you're getting yourself into - wonder which one of you will take the lead and control, who will take the first step, make the first move, etc...ladies and gents this could be an interesting story and I will enjoy the reading...you go nic!!!

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We always call each other on our "game", one of us will be working our magic and the other will say something like "who do you think your talking to?" and the other will respond with stuff like "be quiet let me charm you." Pretty funny stuff.

So far we each control 50/50 but that just seems obvious. We are trying to work out a time to meet next month. She suggested we "play nice" for twenty four hours and create an agonizing amount of tension, then after that all bets are off. Perfect.
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Well, we have both expressed that we can see each other as someone who would make a colorful relationship if we can work out the details, like living in the same state.

It is torture but that is the fun part, the build up gets so intense that we both become the aggressor when the final straw breaks....gotta set aside a couple of days for that inevitability. It's already been let known that we are both in it to give up our inhibitions haha, that being the requirement to start being aggressive I imagine we will both be aggressive. And both being pleasers by nature the struggle will probably turn to who gets to be so first 😉

Don't get your fingers too crossed though, both being Libras there is always a good chance nothing will happen at all 😉 So exciting, I know that would drive the rest of you nuts.
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I was pretty floored actually when we started talking a couple of months ago. We have known each other since we were little kids, went to all of the same schools but she was a goody goody and I was the rebel always playing with fire so we never spent much time around each other. Turns out our attraction for each other was always mutual, and I am bringing out in her a rather uninhibited side. This girls sex drive is insane and no one has been able to properly harness it, the gods are smiling upon me and the devil is right there with em. I have too much fun for one person.
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Chatz.. Okay see that is no fair!!

Chatz.. We are going to be a bit insane after hearing all his stories.. he is one of the only libran that is actually in touch with his feelings/emotions and is right there with his chic... grrr!

Nic.. too much information!! *brat pouts* I am glad for you though.. hopefully my libran will come around and help ME out with some of those very same issues..😉
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nic, you are clearly one happy chappy!!!! even though I must say you are somewhat twisted thinking nothing might happen and that's fun!!!! for us it would be FRUSTRATING lol

Now this playing with fire thing? if she was a goody goody...then you are a perfect match...opposites attract? even though you are the same starsign....hmmmmm come to think of it when I dated that Leo, we seemed so perfect...my God he had the same birthday as me (freaky) but nah it wasn't to be....he was too much like me LOL

Keep us smiling nic - you're doing a great job and I think the Brat is keen to see your stories...might feed her unbridled passion to win this Libran over!! 😉
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Chatz.. Nic..

My libra called tonight 🙂 *smiles* and so I tried not to judge any of his comments, tried hard, noticed myself going down that path and redirected myself.. so he was flirting a bit as always and this time I started flirting back with him so he said.."see you make me all nervous and stuff..." and I said," Well just imagine if you were here.." he said nothing.... Then the convo went on and I said, "you know you should come see me", and he said, "I've been thinkin' about it, I need to get away from here for a weekend". I said "well be sure to keep me in mind", he said.."last time I came there (for work) we did not get together, you acted like you couldn't find me"(years ago.. miscommunication incident) I said, "Well, you're just gonna have to let me make that up to you.." and he got silent AGAIN.. See this is what I am dealing with.. the silence is KILLING ME. I don't know how to read it. If he is the one flirting then it is okay, but the moment I flirt back, he clams up... Now I don't normally flirt back, so this is new to him, but I have been practicing like Chatz said.. and it is working..

At least we are making SOME kind of progress..🙂 baby steps... baby steps.. or more like infant steps...
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exactly what I was going to say HP....and the silence is him pulling back...he did the pushing with his comments and when you flirted back he pulled back....that's the way they seem to work *shrugs*....but again he'd be thinking long and hard now hehehehehe....well done little Brat!!! You are learning 😉

The key though, Brats is to keep flirting everytime you hear from him.....make those little innuendos and KEEP him thinking.....he'll be dying to hook up with you!!!

Keep up the good work - I am proud 🙂

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Yup, and the first thought that is going through his mind is that he is misinterpreting your insinuations, no matter what his first interpretation is. Sometimes we forget that not everyone is as contemplative as we are.

But the first step is complete, you have him thinking about it, which invariably means he is running romantic scenarios through his head, for now they are guilty pleasures, and they are just his. If you can continue to coax him a little more and come on to him delicately he will come out of his shell a little more. Make sure your ready for what your in for, like everything else we are indescisive for a while and once we do decide, we are all in. Make sure you want him all in 😉
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thelibran.."stop wondering and just come...things will be fine"..

Love this line.. I'm gonna use it. It sounds like something that would get his attention. But then he will have to contradict me.. so then I will use Nic's advice..

Nic.."because it is a sign that your thinking, and if your thinking you know what you are doing, which means we don't have to try and figure out if you know what your doing"

Nic.. I needed that bc I am very upfront when I get frustrated.. I just want it to be over or happen.. so this is very comforting. I will work on this.. it is a completely new sensation for me, but I think it may be one of the missing links to us makin this thing happen... Luv you guys a bunch!!