Aries & Libra in detail...

To continue my reply to spica on the Aries board, am starting a new topic.

Please bring all the arguments to here but do me a favour; Stay on the subject than keep saying that spica is a monster. It just wont help a bit. Many of us who have been here for ages know very well that she is a lovely girl. So try to stay focused on the subject on the Libra Aries connection. This is mostly my story on how i happened to marry an Aries girl from a deep rooted fear and hatred for Aries.

My mom is an Aries. I never understood her and always found her annoying and stupid all throughout my teenage. Yes she was controlling, throwing tantrums to get things done, not ready to listen to what i had to say or my explanations or logic. And my cousin brother who is 10 years younger than me is also Aries and he was the most annoying kid I ever knew. So basically when i grew up, i had this prejudice against Aries. The moment I know someone is Aries, tats it. I stay the beep away from them. Never for once bothered to study them. Nothing they did or thought made any sense to me. They just appeared to me like people who had no brains.

Year 2005, I happened to work in Msia with 2 Aries colleagues - 1 male, 1 female. Had no choice than to keep my paranoia under control since its workplace and I didn't want to appear prejudiced. Initially both of them appeared brainless to me. But slowly I began to notice something in them which impressed me - They were hardworking. They had a sense of work ethics attached to them than I could see in anyone else. What they lacked in the area of logic and understanding, they balanced it off by working more and taking more effort. There began my curiosity and the following years of study into an Aries brain. Then I happened to know this Aries girl who was from CZ and working as a volunteer on some charity stuff without any pay. That single attribute became the catalyst to me knowing her more and not staying away from her. We spend the 2005 year end and 2006 new year traveling with a bunch of common friends. During that time, I saw deep into Aries nature.
Aries gal was nothing like I imagined before. Simple, honest people. But more like a Forrest Gump type. They basically dont think a think abt next second. They had high morals, high standards, equally caring asa libra and a short temper. They could blow up in seconds and calm down equally fast.

Totally opposite to a libra who wont get angry easily and whom cannot be controlled by anyone once we get anrgry. Both Aries and Libra had same intentions but the way we approached problem solving was totally opposite. Aries jump in and do what they think is the best at that second and Libra spend a lot of time thinking what could be best doing that unusually frustrating balancing act for a long period of time. Aries can hate someone or something for ages and then one fine day they are normal again. Libra on the other hand, argue with ourselves when we begin to feel that we hate someone and try to contradict our own convictions. The Aries girl was a good team leader in my eyes. She had about 10 people from different countries and backgrounds under her and from what I knew everyone liked her except the virgo girl and the capricorn guy. She was like a man in every sense but when no one was around from her work circle, she was like a small kid. Telling me about her deep rooted fears and worries and insecurities about herself which opened up a whole new dimension of understanding about Aries Nature. Made me guess that Aries men shud be somewhere around the same angle.

Later back home after the holidays, I read that Aries, cancer, libra and cappy are the cardinal signs and the natural born leaders of the zodiac. Which basically explained to me the sense of standards and ethics i saw in her. On the outside, they are so fierce and confident. Deep inside they are scared, worried if they did a good job or not. Which is what makes them work and fight so hard. Even though they envy the cool calm nature of libra they will never show it outside and they get all worried if they get to see libras crazy side.

Walking with her made me observe another thing. we were walking through a crowded place and had to split up to make it to the cinema in time. She walked straight as an arrow with a fierce energy and others made way for her while I was dancing in the crowd(imagine zeta jones moving thru the lazer grid in entrapment) not to disturb anyone nor block anyone's path and still made it to the end of that street at the same time.

Analyzing the previous 2 weeks during Jan 2006 after she flew back to cz, i began to remember a lot many more things. She was too good in planning the trip and every bit of it was nice and good. I felt comfortable which I never had felt before. Usually when others plan the trip, I get all pissed and frustrated with the foolishness. In this case, an aries female - one from a group whom i used to stay away from did the planning and happened to impress me. Super quick in making decisions and it all ended up good. One another observable fact was that the moment she explained her plan, my libra brain could pick all the possible holes in her plans and tell her and she took all the suggestions in right spirit and build it up together.

The outcome was as good as a libras planning and way of life. Everything turned positive. Every opportunity utilized. But at a quicker pace. Till then i used to think that only libras could achieve a best possible outcomes from a given situation. I learned that Aries could do that as well. Guess their innocent, thoughtless way of jumping into something is totally supported by nature. What libra spend days or even months thinking about doing, Aries managed to achieve in the least amt of time by being totally brainless.

From then i began experimenting doing things without thinking. to see what i can get. Results were too amazing to be true. I engineered ways to bypass the infamous indecisive libra side and boosted up the speed in which i live by making totally thoughtless decisions and adapting with each outcome. All I had to do was to avoid thinking before i step into something and once am in, switch back to the standard libra way of thinking.


Slowly i began developing the idea that Aries could make the perfect partner for a libra. Hard to get mixed up with one since they are totally opposite and always in the wrong place. Even though geminis and aquas are more intriguing, they have a small defect in terms of standards. Aquas and libras have different level of standards and morals since one is cardinal and other is fixed. Whereas Aries and Libra are both cardinal. So if libra is wise enough not to worry about leadership in the relationship and Let Aries make all those major decisions and support and suggest things to enhance the plan, life can be smooth and nice.

Soon i figured out it doesnt work all the time. Especially if you dont know the Aries girl in real life. In the online world, Aries is totally incapable of understanding the person on the other end. Whereas in real life, its far too easy for libras to get along with Aries once libra know how Aries thinks(or how they fail to think). Result - every other aries girl i met in real life became friendly with me in no time whereas the ones who knew me from online world, hates me to the core and keep arguing nonstop(obviously they dont do anything to support their claims and their idea of logic still remains as their own understanding of logic) making me think that they seriously dont care about the subject they are arguing about but only focused on winning and making themselves feel secure.

In a matter of time, i bumped into this girl at work. Who walked like a man, talked like a man and had dimples like us libras. Now am happily married to her and it has been the most exciting times of my life. Life all of a sudden became so simple and I have someone who genuinely care for me and is honest.

My Aries friend says she got goldfish memory and cant remember the details of a conversation or an argument which happened only few mts ago and their brain can only remember how much they hate someone and they continue from that point. I dunno how true it is but I guess all what i mentioned here can help clear some air.

My wife just confirmed with me on the goldfish memory part. So i guess tats wat happens when Aries is in an argument. They only remember that they hate this person for some reason which could have been a total misunderstanding to begin with but got no memories to go back in time and cross check if their hatred is valid or not.

Also it has to be noted that libra argue because we love arguments. It what keeps our brain entertained just like Aries love to meet people and socialize. We dont argue necessarily because we disagree or agree with someone. We argue because we simple LOVE to ARGUE. We love to push buttons and invoke others emotions and make them look silly even though they simply dont realize it.

@thelibran, although I enjoyed reading your posts I don't wholly agree with some points there. I am actually for reals in my portrayal of an Aries woman. No, it's nothing superficial like an internet connection; it's an Aries friend I knew for amore than a decade. Libras tend to have a somewhat positive viewpoint on Aries.. can tolerate alot of their crap which we find disgusting.. But, you're married to an Aries, of course you're going to have a viewpoint that supports your union. You married her because it felt like a good, logical working partnership. Whatever works the works!

But your Aries woman seems like the better 15% , not the medusa type which inflicts so many aries women. So, in a way, you're fortunate.

The good ones are rare to find I agree. Took me years to spot one. Before I met her, I met so many Aries girls. Most of them already spoiled. Crazy, stubborn, annoying, foolish.. u name it. But there was always a friendly part in them which was nice to spot and be friendly with. Even though i never agreed to what or how they lead their lives. Many of them regretted badly but they dont let themselves change easily due to this goldfish memory issues I suppose. Most arguments or suggestions would always end with "I dont care. fck u". Knew one who was seeing a married man, ended up getting slapped nd humiliated in public by his wife when she found out and later she tried to commit suicide and still lives a delusional life. Sweet nice girl, but stupid beyond libras capabilities of comprehension.

I would blame it on their non-thinking way of life without considering the consequences. Most of what we are now in this time period is because of the stupid notions of the current society and the way it grooms us all to face life. Too many choices. Clueless about life and know a lot abt insignificant subject. Olden days they never stood a chance. Always got married off at an early age and that was it. Now things are different.

Dude I disagree with the goldfish memory part. It's where Aries tend to want people to know they are innocent and have short memories. From what I know, they have good memories, they hardly ever forget a wrongdoing. They will also gather plenty of evidence against you. Funny how Libra is the sign of the law.. but I seldom gather evidence against anyone.

The aries fiend I knew was always collecting evidence everywhere to persecute someone.. they are very cunning and sly.. and they never miss a thing. Dont let any aries fool you into their innocence.

Remember, Libras are late bloomers. Aries are early bloomers. Aries grew up ahead of libra in so may ways.. and they tend to take advantage of our blind optimism..

I noticed an aries here collecting evidence on me for another thread.. damn reminds me of that aries medusa..

No, aries women are never as innocent as they portray themselves to be. They are the war generals.. every war general has a strategy.. you may not believe me but I can see through it easily. I analysed Aries women deeper than you because she betrayed me and I decided to have her pegged like a monkey. I was surprised what I found.

ohh and another major factor is the age. Usually the younger ones are the worst to deal with. Can get on my nerve in no time. A 10 yr old aries can piss me off in less than 5 mts when compared to a 20 yr old which can take abt 20 mts to get under my skin. Older ones are much calm and relaxed since they have already passed the "I dont care I am confident and smart and fck you all" attitude. Remember John Lennon had troubles with his Aries son. I am sure I will face the same since I already know how painful can it be.

And my wifes mom is a libra. There used to be a time both cannot get along at all and used to have fights. Now its all good but limited to 350 days a year.

"And my wifes mom is a libra. There used to be a time both cannot get along at all and used to have fights. Now its all good but limited to 350 days a year."

It makes sense, since your mom is an aries and her mom is a libra. You both attracted each other to play out family dynamics. Feels fated at least. Anyway, she sounds like an ok Aries and you seem happy. Good on you!

I feel regarding Aries women is on whether they have worked through their issues. Some of them will perpetually remain a 5 year old.. Becaus ariens have to fight their wholes lives, first and foremost themselves, they see everyone and anyone as competition and enemy. That's why they tend to team up as a gang mentality to give themselves the illusion of strength.

Posted by spica
Dude I disagree with the goldfish memory part. It's where Aries tend to want people to know they are innocent and have short memories. From what I know, they have good memories, they hardly ever forget a wrongdoing. They will also gather plenty of evidence against you. Funny how Libra is the sign of the law.. but I seldom gather evidence against anyone.

The aries fiend I knew was always collecting evidence everywhere to persecute someone.. they are very cunning and sly.. and they never miss a thing. Dont let any aries fool you into their innocence.

Remember, Libras are late bloomers. Aries are early bloomers. Aries grew up ahead of libra in so may ways.. and they tend to take advantage of our blind optimism..

I noticed an aries here collecting evidence on me for another thread.. damn reminds me of that aries medusa..

No, aries women are never as innocent as they portray themselves to be. They are the war generals.. every war general has a strategy.. you may not believe me but I can see through it easily. I analysed Aries women deeper than you because she betrayed me and I decided to have her pegged like a monkey. I was surprised what I found.

am sure LS will have a diff take on war generals. Now since i know you had some troubles with Aries in the past, lemme ask you this. How sure are you that this friend of yours is Aries?? I mean apart from her birthday which may or may not be her exact birthday.

Aries is good with memory only when they write it down somewhere. Not otherwise. They dont have the patience to do such tedious tasks. Collecting evidence would be something a taurus would do and usually are famous for stabbing libras from back. Aries is way tooo restless.

I am so sure she is an Aries. I even have her birthday and have read her chart for her. She was my close friend since high school.

Y'know what? I don't mind being one of the very few who see Aries as what they are.. you can believe your own theory.. as I experience mine. It was unlocked by an incident, which, if it never happened, I would have never seen it. Libras are naive and optimistic. We seldom look at others' negative qualities. I found it out after a decade.

Maybe after a decade, you can come back here to see if your views are still the same. I found it out through experience.. not through analysis.. that makes the whole lot of difference.

You can see Aries trying to insult me to shut me up.. they know how true it is. Sorry, but I am privvy to that. That's why I told libras to stay away from aries.. there are 11 more signs out of 12.

taurus dont collect evidence like that. remember taurus are ruled by venus.. aries are ruled by mars.. the war generals are aries.. aries are brilliant war strategists.. that is why you say she can look dumb and get things done.. they have strategies.


my aries ex fiend was always practising her strategies on me when we were friends.. I know how her mind works.

It makes sense, since your mom is an aries and her mom is a libra. You both attracted each other to play out family dynamics. Feels fated at least. Anyway, she sounds like an ok Aries and you seem happy. Good on you!

It may make sense if you can think that a libra mom toned her down and raised her standards. My Aries mom didn't made me any better. Probably made me good in cleaning up dishes and cooking. tats abt it. Not in terms of character, values or ideologies. I left home and moved around various countries because I couldn't stand her. otherwise, it doesn't make sense. My wife grew up in Vietnam after the years of war. I grew up in a religious nd culturally fckd up India. Total diff. She knew nothing about astrology till she met me.

The Aries gals I knew from any developed society was full of butter. There was a good side to each of them which I liked but definitely not a fully sensible Aries.

Posted by thelibran

It makes sense, since your mom is an aries and her mom is a libra. You both attracted each other to play out family dynamics. Feels fated at least. Anyway, she sounds like an ok Aries and you seem happy. Good on you!

It may make sense if you can think that a libra mom toned her down and raised her standards. My Aries mom didn't made me any better. Probably made me good in cleaning up dishes and cooking. tats abt it. Not in terms of character, values or ideologies. I left home and moved around various countries because I couldn't stand her. otherwise, it doesn't make sense. My wife grew up in Vietnam after the years of war. I grew up in a religious nd culturally fckd up India. Total diff. She knew nothing about astrology till she met me.

The Aries gals I knew from any developed society was full of butter. There was a good side to each of them which I liked but definitely not a fully sensible Aries.

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Yes that does make alot of sense. My Aries friend had everything in the world.. was a spoilt rich brat, super duper jealous.. wanted everything she could never have.. ah ha!

Posted by spica
taurus dont collect evidence like that. remember taurus are ruled by venus.. aries are ruled by mars.. the war generals are aries.. aries are brilliant war strategists.. that is why you say she can look dumb and get things done.. they have strategies.


my aries ex fiend was always practising her strategies on me when we were friends.. I know how her mind works.

this exactly is the naive view of libra. Taurus are nothing like libra imagines. Venus ruling them only make them charming. Nothing else. There are no Aries war generals if you can search history. No dictators. All of the dictators I know are Taurus - Hitler, Pol Pot, Saddam and a few aquas, virgos and one libra. If your search the archieves back in this libra forum alone, you can find the details of Taurus friends backstabbing libras. To begin with, Aries and Libra wont become friends from childhood no matter what. Its impossible for a libra to stand them when they are young. So if you say that you knew her from your schooldays, then I cant buy it. Deception is not Aries trait. Its taurus trait. War is all about strategy and Aries know nothing about strategy. They are instinctive. They can only act at a moments notice the way their brain commands them to do so at that moment. tats all about it. Propaganda, strategy, planning are nothing you can connect Aries with.

If you don't believe me and her were friends from 14 yrs old, then the discussion is moot..

I hardly have such views on Taurus..

tbh, the aries women are happily skittling for joy at your misconceptions..

Dictators.. and war stratgists are different.
The reason why
Aries cant be dictators is because they dont have the persistence that Taurus possess.

You believe Aries are dumb; that is what they want you to believe so the have the upper hand always on you.. afterall, a nice guy always gives in to a kid.

Posted by spica
I am so sure she is an Aries. I even have her birthday and have read her chart for her. She was my close friend since high school.

Y'know what? I don't mind being one of the very few who see Aries as what they are.. you can believe your own theory.. as I experience mine. It was unlocked by an incident, which, if it never happened, I would have never seen it. Libras are naive and optimistic. We seldom look at others' negative qualities. I found it out after a decade.

Maybe after a decade, you can come back here to see if your views are still the same. I found it out through experience.. not through analysis.. that makes the whole lot of difference.

You can see Aries trying to insult me to shut me up.. they know how true it is. Sorry, but I am privvy to that. That's why I told libras to stay away from aries.. there are 11 more signs out of 12.

She could have been adopted and know only a false birth date. It is possible. The way you have mentioned here about your so called Aries friend is the same tale I have heard from many libras about their taurus friends. It has a striking resemblance. remember... Libra cannot stand Aries when Aries is young. thats a never heard before story. When we are young, we are best friends with Taurus... till we one day find out that they stabbed us in the back.

I'm done here........ believe what you want. I *know*.

"She could have been adopted and know only a false birth date. ."


Maybe you're in denial regarding what I told you because your partner is Aries and everything needs to fit into a logical puzzle.. any dissention is unnerving. I apologize for that disturbance, but my views on aries are based on my experience alone. No adoption. She is full blooded warrior woman.

Posted by spica
You believe Aries are dumb; that is what they want you to believe so the have the upper hand always on you.. afterall, a nice guy always gives in to a kid.

not at all. They can be as smart as a libra. They are thoughtless. Thats the difference. They dont have any upper hand on me. I know way too many libra-aries couple of many age groups living happily so I can no way agree with your perspective. Few of my friends parents are libra-aries and been together forever. Its a regular combination for casting in movies because its a natural pair. Directors love the natural dynamics between an Aries and a Libra. So when you say you had a problem with an Aries, along the same lines on which libras have issues with taurus, it appear fishy. Mostly because Libra and Aries wont get along at that age.

and you gotta read this. http://songsdomain.tripod.com/arieslibra/index.html

I just want to tell you that your notion of Aries and Libra not getting along at that age is akin to saying it's impossible your mum is an Aries.. or your mum never mistreated you the way you said. you can't rewrite history.

Eh, I've read that link years back. Linda is biased for she is an aries.

Posted by spica
"She could have been adopted and know only a false birth date. ."


Maybe you're in denial regarding what I told you because your partner is Aries and everything needs to fit into a logical puzzle.. any dissention is unnerving. I apologize for that disturbance, but my views on aries are based on my experience alone. No adoption. She is full blooded warrior woman.

I learned from experience with time. You dont have to apologize. I want you to think backwards and see if you are just being paranoid the way I once used to be about Aries people. All I am saying is that it is possible. You cannot deny it since you are not talking about your sister or any of your family members. Its about a friend and you know nothing about her origin nor was present during her birth to confirm your knowledge about her birthdate. Its not a fact. All you know about her birthday seems to be second hand information which cannot be useful. I once had a virgo girl telling me she is leo and my immediate reaction was "fck no way you can be a leo". Libra tend to believe what others tell them. Thats the primary fault. Do you have any proof to support your understanding that your backstabbing friend was truly an Aries? I dont think so.

quote from linda goodmans libra-capricorn
If you know a 4-10 team such as libra and capricorn and they tell you their association has been a very happy and harmonious for many years, you can be certain of one of the following
a. the luminary and asc aspects between their horoscopes are conjuct
b. that one of them was adopted and given a false birth date.
c...blah blah blah

Dude, it's as good as saying maybe your wife isn't an Aries.. or she showed you a false birth certificate.

Maybe michael jackson isn't a virgo.. afterall celebrities lie.

I don't think we should continue this conversation, but my views on aries still stand.

Or maybe you aren't a Libra cause your mum lied about your birth certificate.

Wow you go to a whole new level to defend Aries.. I'm not surprised because you married on. But let's leave it as that, okay?

Posted by spica
I just want to tell you that your notion of Aries and Libra not getting along at that age is akin to saying it's impossible your mum is an Aries.. or your mum never mistreated you the way you said. you can't rewrite history.

Eh, I've read that link years back. Linda is biased for she is an aries.

what about my age— I couldn't stand her till i was 25 or so till i learned how Aries thinks. And how clueless they are about Libras way of thinking. What i said is that Aries is worst when they are young. And when libra is young, its almost impossible for us to know how an Aries thinks. A young libra can never stand an Aries irrespective of the age of Aries. When we get older, we get to understand Aries the way they are and why they are the way they are. Since it is true, I dont understand how you happend to have an Aries friend at an age of 14. Thats impossible imho.

Linda opened her line with that. that libra will say that she wasnt being fair.

^ libran ... interesting post indeed ... I couldn't help it but laugh at how you tried to adopt to the short way of doing things ... very interesting actually, because my supervisor is a Libra and I never understood why he alawys liked to do things the long painful way, and I'd be like "why can't you just do this way?", and he'd be like "no shortcuts no shortcuts", and I'd be thinking like "fine! do as you like, I am just gonna turn around so I don't have to get my blood boiling while I am watching you doing things the freaking harder way!" ... funny though he admits it sometimes that my shortcuts are indeed brilliant :p

I am not a bad person, I am not stupid, I am not argumantive, but just like having a self-standard book, when things don't fall under these standards, I'd make it known. At the same time I like to have fun and go with the flow, don't like to over-think things, because for me it feels like a waste of time, and I'd rather be doing other things.

I have a Libra friend, she is nice and fun, we can talk about things other than clothes, looks and all this shallow stuff. But I've known a crazy Libra girl, she was wicked and mean and really made me hate her (I hardly ever hate anyone) but she was really wicked ... but then again it could be her moon .. wonder what it was

My first Aries friend was at the age of 11.

Posted by spica
Or maybe you aren't a Libra cause your mum lied about your birth certificate.

Wow you go to a whole new level to defend Aries.. I'm not surprised because you married on. But let's leave it as that, okay?

I would have doubted that possibility if my friends were mostly from water and earth group.

Spica, we have a lot of conversations from dxpnet libra board alone to prove that your arguments doesnt go with Aries Nature. Seriously. I didnt took the risk of marrying one without learning enough. I saw way too many happy couples to convince myself that I got it all wrong just like you got it now. So cool down will ya? I did boiled the same way when the taurus friend back stabbed me. I still see the same reaction pattern. You are now simply reacting without carefully considering the possibilities. Thats not the Spica I remember from this board. I think now I understand why the Aries people are totally pissed about you.

and yea celebrities lie. Not their face though.

Posted by spica
My first Aries friend was at the age of 11.

dont you see— something doesn't add up.

Personally, I don't believe your Taurus friend ever backstabbed you. Also, I don't believe your mum ever illtreated you. Now what I believe is you are very suited to an Aries woman. Congrats 😄

P/S: By your logic, then someone from India won't meet someone from Vietnam.. it just doesn't add up.. logically, no..

unless some little magic happens.. they will.

Posted by spica
Personally, I don't believe your Taurus friend ever backstabbed you. Also, I don't believe your mum ever illtreated you. Now what I believe is you are very suited to an Aries woman. Congrats 😄

are we talking about believes here?? or facts? When did libras started giving in for silly believes and stray away from facts??

Posted by spica
P/S: By your logic, then someone from India won't meet someone from Vietnam.. it just doesn't add up.. logically, no..

unless some little magic happens.. they will.

Of course they can. Not the way you tried to justify it in an earlier post though.

There is yet another possibility to this whole situation. You could be in a relationship with a water or earth sign which has tremendously altered your libra nature. Otherwise i dont get it how a libra girl can argue like this without anything to support her claims.

Posted by thelibran
There is yet another possibility to this whole situation. You could be in a relationship with a water or earth sign which has tremendously altered your libra nature. Otherwise i dont get it how a libra girl can argue like this without anything to support her claims.

I'm with a Libra.

Funny, but your claim that it's impossible for me to have an aries friend at a particular age strikes me as unfactual either.

You see, we better discontinue our conversation. I don't think it solves anything. And you're damn well suited to Aries. Win-Win!

Posted by oxlostxo
^ libran ... interesting post indeed ... I couldn't help it but laugh at how you tried to adopt to the short way of doing things ... very interesting actually, because my supervisor is a Libra and I never understood why he alawys liked to do things the long painful way, and I'd be like "why can't you just do this way?", and he'd be like "no shortcuts no shortcuts", and I'd be thinking like "fine! do as you like, I am just gonna turn around so I don't have to get my blood boiling while I am watching you doing things the freaking harder way!" ... funny though he admits it sometimes that my shortcuts are indeed brilliant :p

I am not a bad person, I am not stupid, I am not argumantive, but just like having a self-standard book, when things don't fall under these standards, I'd make it known. At the same time I like to have fun and go with the flow, don't like to over-think things, because for me it feels like a waste of time, and I'd rather be doing other things.

I have a Libra friend, she is nice and fun, we can talk about things other than clothes, looks and all this shallow stuff. But I've known a crazy Libra girl, she was wicked and mean and really made me hate her (I hardly ever hate anyone) but she was really wicked ... but then again it could be her moon .. wonder what it was

lol!!!! Now I know how irritating tat can be for an Aries. I dont do it all the time these days. I start off without thinking just like Aries do, put myself in the situation where i got no choice than to navigate the way situation presents in front of me and then use all my libra resources to get out on the other side unhurt. Since our instincts are not as sharp as Aries, we cant purely rely on our senses and have to resort to our native libran mechanisms for survival.

Posted by spica

Posted by thelibran
There is yet another possibility to this whole situation. You could be in a relationship with a water or earth sign which has tremendously altered your libra nature. Otherwise i dont get it how a libra girl can argue like this without anything to support her claims.

I'm with a Libra.

Funny, but your claim that it's impossible for me to have an aries friend at a particular age strikes me as unfactual either.

You see, we better discontinue our conversation. I don't think it solves anything. And you're damn well suited to Aries. Win-Win!

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You are with a libra. hmmm.. So then next question. Are you a libra for sure?

Its only my claim that a young libra can no way tolerate an Aries. I dont have any other libras who can back me up on that. May be later in this forum someone may share their experience. But its not just my own claim about the taurus story. I do remember that LS started that subject about how Taurus people can be libras close friends and someday they fck us up and there were lot many more people who shared their experience. I dont see any reason why we have to discontinue this conversation since you have trouble with someone whom you believe is Aries and have nothing else to backup your believes. I suggest you try to find out more and come back and try to convince me that Aries are such bad people.

"Are you a libra for sure? "

"Are you a libra for sure?"

Yes, maybe you aren't?

LOL. No, we musn't speak again. Cheers!

Posted by spica
"Are you a libra for sure?"

Yes, maybe you aren't?

LOL. No, we musn't speak again. Cheers!

now thats not very libra like.

Does anyone have any "successful" stories of Libra and Aries?

Success in terms of years and not fooling around and caring for one another during the entire time?? quite a lot. Success means no arguments?? Zero. Success means both partners are career oriented? None.

From my understanding (I could be wrong), its almost impossible for a relationship to last for longer than a few years in western society. The variety of options presented around you stop you from going far. So i wouldnt dare to measure the success idea based on statistics from there. Mostly I see failures.

Yes, the 7th house is one of open enemies. That's why couples fight and quarrel, sometimes like mortal enemies.
The 'war' mentality is gotten from Aries, and not Libra. Libra's about peace in the greatest sense of the word.

A libra can start war and watch things collapse - alot of Libras do that just as a play on devil's advocacy, or, they feel things unfair. But the true sense of "war" is deeply unsettling.

Digged up an old thread from you Spica. You got me all curious to find out what went wrong with you lately. Did your Aries best friend tried to talk shit about you to your libra bf? Or did she actually steal him from you for a while?? I am still searching. throw me a link if you got the details somewhere around here.

anyway in the meanwhile....


Libras are the strategists. Not Aries. This was also mentioned around here so many times. Libras are ready to go to war at any point of time to bring peace and love. Not to destroy things. That is the difference. One need to remember that in olden days every man had to worry about defending his territory and not so same since WWII.

Aries can only fight to satisfy their own ego. And they fight alone. They dont depend on other people to get what they want and it will never be for peace. Its always to win. They can never plan a move nor will ever bother to plot against someone. They are too restless to sit and think about a strategy and instead they would take the sword and jump in and start fighting. For a libra, we wont even make a move unless we have no choice left or we are sure we can win. We plot everything to the last detail, justify our needs to go to war back and forth and then do it.

You somehow believe that they pretend to be nice people but inside they can be cunning. If you think about what you said again, its libras own nature. Its we who do that and not Aries. Just because our brain works that way, you somehow ended up imagining that the other person with innocent looks are also possibly as shrewd as us libras. I guess tats where you got it wrong.

Now if they are infact shrewd and cunning under the innocent face like you say they are, there would have been a lot of them creating trouble in worlds political stage. Most Aries are not even shrewd enough to make it to the political stage on a big scale. How many Aries born Presidents or Prime Ministers can you list— Al Gore is an Aries. I find him more sensible than Cancer Bush or Leo Obama.

Now abt Libra leaders. Ex Syrian Dictator Hafiz Al Azad was a libra.
Currently Vladimir Putin - Russia(the virgo dude is still a proxy), Silvio Berlusconi - Russia being the 2 mostly criticized political figures.
and other libra dudes...
UK - David Cameron
India - Man Mohan Singh
Brazil - Lula
Bangaladesh - Hasina
Japan - Naoto
Vietnam - Triet
Tanzania - Kikwete
OZ - Julia Gillard.

Posted by bluemoon2
An Aries mother will want their kids to be independent and will make you independent to follow your own your dreams, goals, and ambitions. They push you out of the nest just like a mother bird pushes her baby birds out of the nest to fly on their own. This is one of the best things any parents can give a child.

@thelibran:

It seems apparent that you resent your mother and may perhaps blame your mother for a lot of the poor choices you made in life.

You dont seems to know much about Libra from what I can read. LIbra is an Air sign. Aries is a fire sign and is still influenced by the society around them. My mom is influenced as well. Usually Aries mothers are controlling without logic. Purely instinctive. Now you cannot know it unless you had an Aries mother. And even if you had, you both got the brain which works in same frequency. So you are not qualified to comment.

Libra mothers are controlling only when their kids actions have consequences and she find holes in their ideas. I wasnt much touched by my mothers actions and the only thing i did was to move out of my hometown. I am hardly attached to my family to begin with like most libras. There is an age where we are emotional. That doesnt last for long.