Hello. I been talking to a libra off and on for a couple years now. We used to be a sexual fling until i just started seeing him as a friend. We talk off and on lately but lately he has been trying to woo me back in. It all started me telling him happy bday in October. His behavior seem like he was wanting to still do the sexual fling and i wasn't interested. So he started saying i was playing mind games and i don't believe so as a sag we are direct if we don't like something we will tell you. Lately we jus been going back and forth arguing and im somewhat over arguing cause it's not getting anywhere. He told me to block him off social media which he said this multiple times. Do leebs do that if they don't get their way? I said we jus friends and he acts like he doesn't want to hear that. We had a big argument at his house one night after i was nice buying him a Christmas gift because he told me he was going thru alot but right now i think i don't want nothing to do with him. I believe he is manipulating me and now i just don't think i can trust him. He told me to block him off social media cause he doesn't look at my accounts that was randomly said. I don't know what you call this behavior he been cussing me out all because i feel like i don't want sex with him no more and he putting the blame on me i tried talking to him but we seem like we can't get along. I think i might have to block him and i hate blocking people. Any suggestions with this leeb behavior?
Behavior of a leeb male

Don't waste your time trying to understand him. My hunch is that he has misinterpreted something you said or did. He sounds like a dick. He's asked you to block him, give him what he wants and do just that.
Sounds like he upset about me not wanting to give him sex or be serious with him. I feel bad but at the same time i don't know what else to do. He flips the script on me saying i want sex i jus ask him that because that's what it seems like he wants and he gets offensive. My friends believes he possessive over me by saying he wants me to block him off social media so he doesn't have to look at my accounts.

The libra I dated became very pouty like a five year old boy having a tantrum when he didn't get his way. Block him. You don't want this type of behavior in your life.
Posted by topesWhat you mean by that?
Cat & mouse rubbish..
Don't be a wimp. Play the game!
Sags and Libs are a fun pairing. I can see u guys exchanging vows already.
Posted by topesHe might be gone. He is dying. So i don't think that's going to happen in this future.Posted by DiamondnurseHit the block button. Wait for him to access you relentlessly thru other means. The heart will grow fonder while you wait. Reconnect again. Bam. Kids..Posted by topesWhat you mean by that?
Cat & mouse rubbish..
Don't be a wimp. Play the game!
Sags and Libs are a fun pairing. I can see u guys exchanging vows already.click to expand
Posted by topesHe jus told me this info an hour ago. He told me to move on and i sure will do that. I just want to know his wishy washy behavior. I tried talking thru with him but i guess it won't work out. As a sag we like to work out problems right there and then its been a behavior for a few months now. I really can't think what i did if i did do something he wont tell me.Posted by DiamondnurseThe dying card.. First time you mention it..Posted by topesHe might be gone. He is dying. So i don't think that's going to happen in this future.Posted by DiamondnurseHit the block button. Wait for him to access you relentlessly thru other means. The heart will grow fonder while you wait. Reconnect again. Bam. Kids..Posted by topesWhat you mean by that?
Cat & mouse rubbish..
Don't be a wimp. Play the game!
Sags and Libs are a fun pairing. I can see u guys exchanging vows already.
Smhclick to expand

Posted by Noni05Ugh I wish I ended it sooner to be honest. He did this twice in public. The first time was the day he met my brother and friends. That was so embarrassing.Posted by pinkbird03I knew you were the one who dated that LIBRA aw too bad it didn't work out
The libra I dated became very pouty like a five year old boy having a tantrum when he didn't get his way. Block him. You don't want this type of behavior in your life.click to expand
Posted by KoniuchaaMaybe. But i don't know if it shows there is feelings involved or he sounds like he detached & moved on?Posted by DiamondnurseMaybe he is wishy washy because he is dying??Posted by topesHe jus told me this info an hour ago. He told me to move on and i sure will do that. I just want to know his wishy washy behavior. I tried talking thru with him but i guess it won't work out. As a sag we like to work out problems right there and then its been a behavior for a few months now. I really can't think what i did if i did do something he wont tell me.Posted by DiamondnurseThe dying card.. First time you mention it..Posted by topesHe might be gone. He is dying. So i don't think that's going to happen in this future.Posted by DiamondnurseHit the block button. Wait for him to access you relentlessly thru other means. The heart will grow fonder while you wait. Reconnect again. Bam. Kids..Posted by topesWhat you mean by that?
Cat & mouse rubbish..
Don't be a wimp. Play the game!
Sags and Libs are a fun pairing. I can see u guys exchanging vows already.
Smhclick to expand

He might be gone. He is dying. So i don't think that's going to happen in this future.
The dying card.. First time you mention it..
Smh
He jus told me this info an hour ago. He told me to move on and i sure will do that. I just want to know his wishy washy behavior. I tried talking thru with him but i guess it won't work out. As a sag we like to work out problems right there and then its been a behavior for a few months now. I really can't think what i did if i did do something he wont tell me.
it's just that - wishy washy - trying to get you anyway possible - that may not even be true about him dying ... but if he doesn't want to be friends and you don't want anything more than ... ?

Posted by tizianiThe second time was at a restaurant. I told him I was leaving to go home after dinner instead of spending the night, which I never even did before or had plans to. He sat there with his head straight down in silence and a pouty lip. We didn't talk at all after that. The waiter kept coming over to ask us how the food was, get us the check, etc. and he didn't move. I ignored this behavior completely and was friendly to the waiter because again, I was soooo embarrassed! Awkkkkkward!!Posted by pinkbird03LOL just reading this makes me uncomfortable. I don't blame you.Posted by Noni05Ugh I wish I ended it sooner to be honest. He did this twice in public. The first time was the day he met my brother and friends. That was so embarrassing.Posted by pinkbird03I knew you were the one who dated that LIBRA aw too bad it didn't work out
The libra I dated became very pouty like a five year old boy having a tantrum when he didn't get his way. Block him. You don't want this type of behavior in your life.click to expand
But yes, thanks for understanding ?
He said he tries to be friends but he believes i just want sex. It sound like his feelings are hurt and involved but i don't know perhaps because he said it hurt his soul from all the lust he was getting himself involved with. I asked was he still lusting he told me no. I don't know what the type of the behavior it is it's confusing and he dying of the liver.
Its been way over a year since we had sex. I tell him to block me but he won't. As a sag we don't need to block anyone in most cases. He never replied back to my message for me saying im done with him. I know i get told all the time they come back when they care for you but he does tell me all the time he cares for me.
Posted by blackphaseI say the same thing. .hmm i don't get him at all. Hes confused. He tells me this all the time. I hope he does block me for his sake.Posted by DiamondnurseUmm.. if he didn't want to see your account he could just as easily block you..
Sounds like he upset about me not wanting to give him sex or be serious with him. I feel bad but at the same time i don't know what else to do. He flips the script on me saying i want sex i jus ask him that because that's what it seems like he wants and he gets offensive. My friends believes he possessive over me by saying he wants me to block him off social media so he doesn't have to look at my accounts.click to expand
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