Cancer men and lack of Communication Skills

i want to start by saying thanks to everyone who gave me advice on Cancer men...Ill never ever get with one again i had to dump the one i was with because he had this shutting down thing i just couldnt understand,i mean i shut down to some times but not for long periods then he thinks we still together..thats so crazy..has anyone else had this experience also? and why are Cancer men so different from Cancer women...hmmm maybe i need to switch teams and try a Cancer woman(j/k)

Thats a shame that you would out rule cancer men now for the rest of your life because of an experience with one.

well i know its not right to stereotype but if another Cancer man proved to me that i was wrong i would give him a chance,and im very fair and understanding it just would be nice too hook up with someone who thinks like me...and im not Sayin my Cancer ex was bad im just not the person for him...he needs someone who can deal with that..i still love him ,but i ain"t the one for him

I once read about cancers that you can be with one for years and still not know the deapth of his feelings for you. They just dont open up from my experience, maybe because they are very sensitive regarding their feelings. If they are betrayed they dont get over it easy at all, and the wound runs deep and long. I think they worry that they will be hurt and protect themselves at all cost first.

It seems like they are afraid of feeling vulnerable and exposed, it's more that than not feeling enough about the person they are with I think.