Confused

I've been seeing a Libra man long distance for about 8 months now. It started off really intense, he called and messaged me every day. At the beginning he use to tell me I was gorgeous and would always compliment and flatter me. This died down after about 4 months but the frequency of his communication never changed. It got to a point where for the last 2-3 months he insisted that we watch a movie before bed together on the phone, he would make sure we started it at the exact same time and we usually fell asleep on the phone together. In the process I opened up to him a lot, told him things about my family or lack thereof and my mom. Things I actually never told any other guy I was dating. Its hard not to open up to someone who makes the effort to communicate with you daily. He use to text me every morning to wish me a good day.

This all recently stopped, he has been distant with me for the last 2 weeks. I asked him about it and he just said hes been working a lot but he use to still call me when he worked a lot, like on his breaks even for 30 second just to say hi. But he still wasn't calling, so yesterday I sent a message saying "I have a bad feeling and I don't want to get hurt or played." in the morning on messenger, he has not responded yet, and even though he's been online he has not even opened it.

The thing is that although things started off intense and he treated me almost like his girlfriend he made it very clear that this is not the right time for him to get serious and that he likes to take his time getting to know someone. Fine, but the problem is that I became attached, and when he realized instead off limiting contact he intensified it, and that's when the calls became more frequent, he would get jealous if I hung out with other guys, he acted like a guy who wanted me. He knows that overtime my feelings just grew, as is expected and I never hid this from him, and its as if he enjoyed hearing it.

Him acting like this is surprising me. About a week prior I got emotional thinking to myself how much I cared for him and even though we are not serious I could not image my life without him, its hard to when you speak to someone every day. So this hurts. I cannot stress that enough, he has hurt me. I don't know what to do. I'm just going to give him space since the ball is in his court but I am so hurt.

Posted by confusedtaurus18
I've been seeing a Libra man long distance for about 8 months now. It started off really intense, he called and messaged me every day. At the beginning he use to tell me I was gorgeous and would always compliment and flatter me. This died down after about 4 months but the frequency of his communication never changed. It got to a point where for the last 2-3 months he insisted that we watch a movie before bed together on the phone, he would make sure we started it at the exact same time and we usually fell asleep on the phone together. In the process I opened up to him a lot, told him things about my family or lack thereof and my mom. Things I actually never told any other guy I was dating. Its hard not to open up to someone who makes the effort to communicate with you daily. He use to text me every morning to wish me a good day.

This all recently stopped, he has been distant with me for the last 2 weeks. I asked him about it and he just said hes been working a lot but he use to still call me when he worked a lot, like on his breaks even for 30 second just to say hi. But he still wasn't calling, so yesterday I sent a message saying "I have a bad feeling and I don't want to get hurt or played." in the morning on messenger, he has not responded yet, and even though he's been online he has not even opened it.

The thing is that although things started off intense and he treated me almost like his girlfriend he made it very clear that this is not the right time for him to get serious and that he likes to take his time getting to know someone. Fine, but the problem is that I became attached, and when he realized instead off limiting contact he intensified it, and that's when the calls became more frequent, he would get jealous if I hung out with other guys, he acted like a guy who wanted me. He knows that overtime my feelings just grew, as is expected and I never hid this from him, and its as if he enjoyed hearing it.

Him acting like this is surprising me. About a week prior I got emotional thinking to myself how much I cared for him and even though we are not serious I could not image my life without him, its hard to when you speak to someone every day. So this hurts. I cannot stress that enough, he has hurt me. I don't know what to do. I'm just going to give him space since the ball is in his court but I am so hurt.

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i think there are few libras that can do long distance. i wouldn't take the risk with any of us.