confused. am i just overthinking?

Hi. Im confused about this situation I'm in with a Libra. Now I'm a Gemini and Libras are my perfect match. Back in Nov we chatted a bit, he started ignoring me out of no where so I left it alone. He cameback a month n half later ttalking about sup, so I was chating with another guy at the time so was ignoring him back n not really talking to him, but I thought what if this guy is the one. So we chatted n he was just outstanding. Communication was on 1000. We met on new years eve n it went so unexpectedly. I was shy but he would like pull me close like a simi hug because I kept losing to him in a game. So we laid down. We cuddled. He held me. Next day he woke me up with a kiss, we got our day started, he would pick meuup n spin me around, then gently lay me on the bed and kiss me. He would hold me from behind n sing to me, nibble and play with my ear, he asked me to take his hair down, we ate, he showed me soooomany ppictures of his family, telling me all their names, from his sis n bros to cousins to nieces nephews etc everything, all while holding me. When he would hold me he would squeeze my hand, its like a match made in heaven. He would notice small stuff wrong with me like if something was on my nose he'll get it off, its like we had been knowing each other for years. Showed me pics of his ex's, I asked to spend another night he said I definitely would hope so, so I did. I spent 2 n a half days with him. Just putting it out he said hes not ready for anything serious. I told him I hope I'm not scaring you, he said I'm scared. I said I don't want you to run away because things were so great. He said I'm not running. So after I left,ccommunication was still on
1000 that week. I agreed to see him again thatFriday. Friday was a Lil more calmed Cuz he had to work that morning. So the first thing he did when he seen me was kiss me and said hey. So we went to get something to eat, he rubbed his hands in my hair n asked how my day at work was. I told him I didn't work. So we went got our food played the Lil arcade for a min then went to his house. We chilled layed down, n then we played the game. I was teaching him how to play n he had me in the middle of him with his arms around me while holding the controller. He would kiss my neck n nibble on my ear. So after we went to sleep. He held me all night, no matter what position we were in. So we woke up got ready, we sat for a min, kissed, talked then we left. He pointed out places he lived n places he would go. So I got him to work we said our goodbyes n I went home. This pass week is when things started changing. Communication was there but it was getting slower n slower. Our typical day was he send good morning, we talk in the morning, I call about 5 or 6 he answers n if he didn't he'll send a text later that night saying why he couldn't answer n his goodnights. So I stopped getting that. He texted fewer n fewer so I said after 3 days of it I was confused and said I feel like your a Lil distant

Now, I told you If I was doing to much you could tell me n I'll back off, previous to that I was scared to tell him I liked him Cuz I didn't know if he felt the same, so it turns out he liked me too n I was alil dramatic with it, but he seen passed it n said you don't have to do that to tell me u like me, I like you too. So things were good, n we were still talking after but back to the distance. It was a pretty long message n I I had called him twice that day before n he said his phone died when he answered then I called 2 hrs later n no answer so I wasn't upset with that but I was wondering why he was being so distant. Cyz I would only talk to him in the morning n that's only because I said something. So I'm confused on what's going on. He says the next morning, there's no need to feel like that, just because I missed 1 or 2 calls in one day doesn't mean I'm trying to avoid you. It's starting to feel like this is a relationship n I told you in the beginning im not ready to commit, your a cool, nice, smart, caring friend but I'm not ready for the extra stuff, n that it was becoming a bit much, I replied saying it was misunderstood, I know we r friends n not trying to force anything I was just wondering what was going on n it came out the wrong way. I apologized n the next morning he said good morning n its ok. I had to leave work early n make important calls n go to the unemployment. He still has his job. So he is a understanding straightforward guy. We think exactly alike and he said he thinks the worst when he goes through things too. So now since then I get a message from him every few days. Just one message. I asked if I can come over then I called. He replied letter he wasn't sure about this Friday n that he was going to his moms house. I said ok. So now I get a text like every few days. Idk what to think. I like him so much. And me thinking so much just looks at all possible outcomes. Idk any help please... We are 1000% for each other but its like dealing with myself in a sense. I need some inside help please. No rude comments either

I just want him to still be the same way he ways, I thought we could work towards more. Its not a commitment just yet but I thought it could go further since we have so much in common, he acted like we were together, I see so much potential... We were on good terms after the message I sent but what I was talking about with the distance, I got worse. I never said anything else. I just don't get it... I don't want anyone else. He is like the perfect guy anyone would love to have and I'm equal to that so I don't see why his attention etc the way he treated me before had slowed down. We haven't had sex, he said that's not what he was looking for. I don't know what he's looking for... But we enjoy each other so much idk why things are slow...

But his attention was always focused on me, morning and night. 3 weeks straight. I know his interest but my point is I can barely talk to him. I'm not gonna text n call if I get no response. He's on his phone most times so I know he knows when I text n call him but he's not the same. We never did anything like going out, I was always at his place. He gave me all his consistency, and time as well as I did, but I know he was frustrated with this unemployment stuff but I'm just wondering if its me. How you go from giving all your time to someone to out of nowhere slowing up. He never complained about anything so that's my point...

"I'm trying to avoid you. It's starting to feel like this is a relationship n I told you in the beginning im not ready to commit,"