CONFUSED. Libras flirting with exes?

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wanderlust93
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So libra and I (sag) broke up about a month and a half ago due to distance and she started seeing someone else a couple of weeks after.

Recently she told me she still had feelings for me and what ifs, that she has feelings for both of us.

Nek minnit she's totally flirting with me, sent a pic of her booty making subtle comments etc and coming to me when she's fighting with her mum or something.

Her biddy is currently in Europe. But like is she keen on me or am I just the convienent replacement? Do I have a chance or is this new chick here to stay? I'm so fuckingg confused
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Nameless Nemean
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Don't focus on locking her back down into a commitment or anything. Just have fun. If she's flirting with you and talking about seeing you, that's a positive thing.

Also realize that Libras can be indecisive in love. They can have a "grass is always greener" mentality when choosing mates. The Libras I know tend to not always appreciate the partners they have at first, especially if it's "too good to be true". If other parts of their lives are off balance, they may not be able to value the relationship with you at that time. They can also wind up locking themselves into situations that aren't always good for them. This leads them to regret their decisions later.

As a Sag you already should understand the importance of freedom. Give her the freedom to choose you. The worst thing you could do is try and coerce her into coming back to you. That will be entirely her decision. She's going to vacillate on this too. One day she'll be all into you, the next not so much. Don't let this worry you. It just means she's figuring things out by "finding her balance". If you try to force things and tip the scales, she'll tip in the other direction.

One thing that works in your favor is that the other guy is in Europe. Libras generally don't like to spend long periods of time away from their partner. A lot of Libras I know HATE long distance relationships. The fact that you're close works in your favor too.

Astrology aside, sounds like this guy is a placeholder/rebound. The fact that she moved on so quickly literally means she isn't really serious about him. She just wanted someone to fill in as her partner since you broke up. The attention she's giving this guy is probably just residual emotion she's holding on for you. Again this gives you the advantage.
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Posted by wanderlust93
Yeh so we broke up because we were long distance. Although she told me afterwards that she loves me and that the beginning of the new relationship was really hard because she still had feelings for me. It's just so stupid. I offered to move and everything. I feel like being friends is pointless.
Rip her ego up a lil 😉 you'll have the upper hand. Or she might not just give a shit. Either way its the only way you'll know.
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rockyroadicecream
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She's a fucking skank looking for attention.

She broke it off with you for someone "better" and has realized he might not be better, so she's going around, keeping options ready for her.

Do not get sucked into her selfish cunt ways, tbh. She just likes having options around. She'd drop you again in a heartbeat if you even attempted to fuck around with her skanky ways.