Control freaks

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RamOfPeace
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Disclaimer: as I always say, I do love my Leeb friends. Happy Birthday, Leebs!

Now to the point about a rotten egg in the starsign masses.

I live with my friend and his Leeb gf, who is a controlling anxious micromanager type. Mood swing on a stick.

I think they started having fights the first month of dating, sometimes by his fault, which was valid. But mostly because something miniscule was out of order in her vision.

She recently blamed him for spending more time with his child than her (he sees his kid once in a great while). Although, he lives and breathes for his on a regular day, I think it’s bullshit that he got blamed for “not enough attention” while he was putting his family as priority, and “ruining his gf’s vacation” because she wasn’t priority #1 for a short amount of time.

The most recent fight over some household issues had her quit on 90% of the lease (3 of us share living space).

She seems to be slowly moving towards the exit, regardless of the fact that her name stays on the lease document which doesn’t expire until next August.

I don’t like selfish control freaks. My mother is the same way (also Libra). Several close people of different star signs have noticed this same observation about his gf.

And people blame Aries for being selfish and unreasonable? Please, explain.
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RamOfPeace
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Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by RamOfPeace
And people blame Aries for being selfish and unreasonable? Please, explain.

Aries can be childish, impulsive and self-centred but, by comparison, I find many Libras emotionally unhinged, passive-aggressive and superficial.

It's only because of my natal make-up that neither excite me. However, I'd probably take my chances with an Aries almost everytime...

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I guess I was mostly baffled by the misinterpretation, but yes there are indeed crappy kids of both families. Glad to see you still lurk on this borad btw