@BadNGooD_GeM
17 Years
Libra men usually don’t like being chased aggressively and tend to pull back if you come on too strong. Many people notice they respond better to light flirting, attention, and a back-and-forth dynamic rather than one-sided pursuit. In real situations, they lose interest if it feels too easy or too pressured at the same time. What works best is showing interest while letting them meet you halfway.
we chase, you just don't know we're chasing.
We chase so well, you'll think you're the one who thought up the whole chasing business to start with 😉
Unbalance happens more often than balance. It is just that we constantly strive to acheive balance, it is not always attainable.
Watch out when those scales are rocking, it's scary
God yeah!!!!
why chase if you have a lazy charm :p
I've always suspected libras do that flipping things up..my libra and I never understood eacyh other..he was d one chasing me first and I was the one unsure of things then suddenly I was chasing him..its was crazy ..I was all confused..he read my mind, and did things before I did, it took me months to understand what was going on...he didn't win though in his manipulating thing..out of too much confusion and mixed messages I moved on... left him hanging with his strategies... libras don't like chasing, they want to be chased, but if u r so into them..they don't u much, if u r not there they miss u ah...they are complicated alien..theyr only good for friendship that's it. Im a bit mad thinking abt him sorry...
Well I say that: I'm on holiday abroad for the last 2 weeks, i met this libra 4 weeks ago (webcam mainly), she was obviously a hot/cold libra, SHE gave me her number and made first call (weird eh?), I called back twice a few days before i leave to ask her out, both rejected. I told her that i give up got the message besides im leaving for holiday. Result? Frequent texts and a few calls from her during my holiday unfortunately i can only text back but not answer calls due to roaming problem. Crazy libras, flying back this weekend very weird to see her response.
Yes, Libra's do chase. However, we are subtle but blatant in our approach...we will do a lot of nice things for you, make ourselves shamefully available to you...we just cant seem to say NO most of the time.
Posted by a muse a libra
we chase, you just don't know we're chasing.We chase so well, you'll think you're the one who thought up the whole chasing business to start with 😉
aaaawww I like this response!!! 🙂
Libras never chase LOL but yeah..when we do chase it's so well and tactful 🙂
HA!! HELL YES WE CHASE, BUT ONLY TO A CERTAIN EXENT. PLUS WE ARE AN AIR SIGN SO EVEN WHEN WE CHASE, WE SEEM LIKE WE COULD CARELESS. IM CHASING AN ARIES MALE, BUT HE NEVER BELIEVES ME WHEN I ACTUALLY SAY SOMETHING SWEET AND WARM. HE THINKS I DONT MEAN IT, NOW EIETHER HE WANTS ME TO JUST BE DOWN RIGHT CHEESY, OR HE JUST WANTS ME TO SIT THERE AN TRY TO CONVINCE HIM HOW MUCH I MEAN, (THATS WHERE THAT LITTLE EXTENT, I MENTIONED EARLIER COMES IN) NOT GONE HAPPEN! MANY DONT KNOW, BUT OUR EGO IS ALMOST IF NOT JUST AS BIG AS LEO'S (WE'RE JUST MORE TACTFUL WITH IT) SO WE HATE, AND I MEAN REJECTION. IT THROWS US OFF BALANCE ESPECIALLY WHEN WE REALLY LIKE SOMEONE. CAUSING US TO REALLY ACT LIKE WE DONT CARE (our little way of protecting ourselves from anymore dissapointment that will throw us off even more) WAYS TO TELL IF LIBRA IS "SECRETELY" CHASING YOU...
1. ALWAYS AVAIBLE
2.ANGRY WHEN YOUR NOT AVAILABLE (ANGRY MEANING HE/SHE IS VERY SARCASTIC)
3.CASUALLY SHOWING UP AT PLACES HE/SHE KNOWS YOU MAY BE
4. VERY MUSHY
5 DOING CUTE LITTLE THINGS LIKE SENDING A RANDOM PIC OF THEMSELVES W "JUS THINKIN OF YOU" OR "HI THERE!" THE WOMEN MAY BECOME VERY GENEROUS. BRING YOU A HOME COOKED MEAL IF SHE KNOWS YOU DETEST FAST FOOD. SHE MAY RUB YOUR BACK NO MATTER HOW TIRED SHE GETS, GOING OVER AN BEYOND IN HER APPEARANCE IF AT ALL POSSIBLE.
REMEMBER, THEY ARE SUBTILE, THEY LOVE ATTENTION AND WILL MOST SURELY GIVE IT IF THEY THINK YOU'LL LIKE IT. IF NOT, THEY ARE COME AS A CLOUD, FLUFFY AND CAREFREE ABOUT EVERYTHING. BUT SECRETLY THINKING OF A WAY TO IMPRESS YOU
I do chase but only in a sweet, non-aggressive way.
Some girls can be really scary. They don't simply chase, they HUNT for guys. LOL And some will even use their bodies to win men over. So gross and unladylike.
Yep us Libra can be quite capable and effective in chasing , but its easier to just wink at you and walk away 😉 . That way the ball is in your court and that's when all fun starts . We like to see if you can keep up!
Posted by ALibra
HA!! HELL YES WE CHASE, BUT ONLY TO A CERTAIN EXENT. PLUS WE ARE AN AIR SIGN SO EVEN WHEN WE CHASE, WE SEEM LIKE WE COULD CARELESS. IM CHASING AN ARIES MALE, BUT HE NEVER BELIEVES ME WHEN I ACTUALLY SAY SOMETHING SWEET AND WARM. HE THINKS I DONT MEAN IT, NOW EIETHER HE WANTS ME TO JUST BE DOWN RIGHT CHEESY, OR HE JUST WANTS ME TO SIT THERE AN TRY TO CONVINCE HIM HOW MUCH I MEAN, (THATS WHERE THAT LITTLE EXTENT, I MENTIONED EARLIER COMES IN) NOT GONE HAPPEN! MANY DONT KNOW, BUT OUR EGO IS ALMOST IF NOT JUST AS BIG AS LEO'S (WE'RE JUST MORE TACTFUL WITH IT) SO WE HATE, AND I MEAN REJECTION. IT THROWS US OFF BALANCE ESPECIALLY WHEN WE REALLY LIKE SOMEONE. CAUSING US TO REALLY ACT LIKE WE DONT CARE (our little way of protecting ourselves from anymore dissapointment that will throw us off even more) WAYS TO TELL IF LIBRA IS "SECRETELY" CHASING YOU...1. ALWAYS AVAIBLE
2.ANGRY WHEN YOUR NOT AVAILABLE (ANGRY MEANING HE/SHE IS VERY SARCASTIC)
3.CASUALLY SHOWING UP AT PLACES HE/SHE KNOWS YOU MAY BE
4. VERY MUSHY
5 DOING CUTE LITTLE THINGS LIKE SENDING A RANDOM PIC OF THEMSELVES W "JUS THINKIN OF YOU" OR "HI THERE!" THE WOMEN MAY BECOME VERY GENEROUS. BRING YOU A HOME COOKED MEAL IF SHE KNOWS YOU DETEST FAST FOOD. SHE MAY RUB YOUR BACK NO MATTER HOW TIRED SHE GETS, GOING OVER AN BEYOND IN HER APPEARANCE IF AT ALL POSSIBLE.REMEMBER, THEY ARE SUBTILE, THEY LOVE ATTENTION AND WILL MOST SURELY GIVE IT IF THEY THINK YOU'LL LIKE IT. IF NOT, THEY ARE COME AS A CLOUD, FLUFFY AND CAREFREE ABOUT EVERYTHING. BUT SECRETLY THINKING OF A WAY TO IMPRESS YOU
WHY ARE YOU YELLING??
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You are a trip. I am not yelling, i had the caps lock on while i was work because when i enter in the data it wont take it unless its in caps. But im not yelling, plus i just like writing in caps. 🙂
I have a Libra male chasing me. He has given me flowers twice, chocolate coverd strawberry roses, 4 nice dinners, a relaxing lunch at his house and now we have plans for two nights this week!
He likes me right? LOL.
What do I need to do to get closer to my Libra? It has been awhile since I have dated one, so any tips would be appreciated. 🙂
Posted by libragemmale
Yep us Libra can be quite capable and effective in chasing , but its easier to just wink at you and walk away 😉 . That way the ball is in your court and that's when all fun starts . We like to see if you can keep up!
That would be exciting!! 🙂
Posted by ALibra
HA!!1. ALWAYS AVAIBLE
2.ANGRY WHEN YOUR NOT AVAILABLE (ANGRY MEANING HE/SHE IS VERY
3.CASUALLY SHOWING UP AT PLACES HE/SHE KNOWS YOU MAY BE
4. VERY MUSHY
5 DOING CUTE LITTLE THINGS LIKE SENDING A RANDOM PIC OF THEMSELVES W "JUS THINKIN OF YOU" OR "HI THERE!" THE WOMEN MAY BECOME VERY GENEROUS. BRING YOU A HOME COOKED MEAL IF SHE KNOWS YOU DETEST FAST FOOD. SHE MAY RUB YOUR BACK NO MATTER HOW TIRED SHE GETS, GOING OVER AN BEYOND IN HER APPEARANCE IF AT ALL POSSIBLE.REMEMBER, THEY ARE SUBTILE, THEY LOVE ATTENTION AND WILL MOST SURELY GIVE IT IF THEY THINK YOU'LL LIKE IT. IF NOT, THEY ARE COME AS A CLOUD, FLUFFY AND CAREFREE ABOUT EVERYTHING. BUT SECRETLY THINKING OF A WAY TO IMPRESS YOU
I always say that astrology can only take you so far, however with this little checklist above I can see these actions in so, many ways from the Libra I am currently talking to. He's in the military so lately its been communication from emailing until he comes home in Feb. He hardly ever uses my name but always, ?? sweetie?? or some other nickname. There are always compliments. Being a Virgo (dun dun dun) sometimes terms of endearment sometimes are overbearing however my Venus is in Libra so technically and secretly I love it. He's always asking me about the future or talking about us in the future which I think is his way of ?? subtle?? chasing. Letting my mind wonder to what could be and lingering on. Lol problem is I'm fiercely independent and am also chatting up a Gemini and Cappy so we'll see. Lol. Love.this post though so had to comment.
Posted by ALibra
HA!! HELL YES WE CHASE, BUT ONLY TO A CERTAIN EXENT. PLUS WE ARE AN AIR SIGN SO EVEN WHEN WE CHASE, WE SEEM LIKE WE COULD CARELESS. IM CHASING AN ARIES MALE, BUT HE NEVER BELIEVES ME WHEN I ACTUALLY SAY SOMETHING SWEET AND WARM. HE THINKS I DONT MEAN IT, NOW EIETHER HE WANTS ME TO JUST BE DOWN RIGHT CHEESY, OR HE JUST WANTS ME TO SIT THERE AN TRY TO CONVINCE HIM HOW MUCH I MEAN, (THATS WHERE THAT LITTLE EXTENT, I MENTIONED EARLIER COMES IN) NOT GONE HAPPEN! MANY DONT KNOW, BUT OUR EGO IS ALMOST IF NOT JUST AS BIG AS LEO'S (WE'RE JUST MORE TACTFUL WITH IT) SO WE HATE, AND I MEAN REJECTION. IT THROWS US OFF BALANCE ESPECIALLY WHEN WE REALLY LIKE SOMEONE. CAUSING US TO REALLY ACT LIKE WE DONT CARE (our little way of protecting ourselves from anymore dissapointment that will throw us off even more) WAYS TO TELL IF LIBRA IS "SECRETELY" CHASING YOU...1. ALWAYS AVAIBLE
2.ANGRY WHEN YOUR NOT AVAILABLE (ANGRY MEANING HE/SHE IS VERY SARCASTIC)
3.CASUALLY SHOWING UP AT PLACES HE/SHE KNOWS YOU MAY BE
4. VERY MUSHY
5 DOING CUTE LITTLE THINGS LIKE SENDING A RANDOM PIC OF THEMSELVES W "JUS THINKIN OF YOU" OR "HI THERE!" THE WOMEN MAY BECOME VERY GENEROUS. BRING YOU A HOME COOKED MEAL IF SHE KNOWS YOU DETEST FAST FOOD. SHE MAY RUB YOUR BACK NO MATTER HOW TIRED SHE GETS, GOING OVER AN BEYOND IN HER APPEARANCE IF AT ALL POSSIBLE.REMEMBER, THEY ARE SUBTILE, THEY LOVE ATTENTION AND WILL MOST SURELY GIVE IT IF THEY THINK YOU'LL LIKE IT. IF NOT, THEY ARE COME AS A CLOUD, FLUFFY AND CAREFREE ABOUT EVERYTHING. BUT SECRETLY THINKING OF A WAY TO IMPRESS YOU
I know this is extremely late - but, us, Arians, need CONSTANT affirmation. I can't even tell you how much. God - we're so dumb sometimes.
Posted by ALibra
HA!! HELL YES WE CHASE, BUT ONLY TO A CERTAIN EXENT. PLUS WE ARE AN AIR SIGN SO EVEN WHEN WE CHASE, WE SEEM LIKE WE COULD CARELESS. IM CHASING AN ARIES MALE, BUT HE NEVER BELIEVES ME WHEN I ACTUALLY SAY SOMETHING SWEET AND WARM. HE THINKS I DONT MEAN IT, NOW EIETHER HE WANTS ME TO JUST BE DOWN RIGHT CHEESY, OR HE JUST WANTS ME TO SIT THERE AN TRY TO CONVINCE HIM HOW MUCH I MEAN, (THATS WHERE THAT LITTLE EXTENT, I MENTIONED EARLIER COMES IN) NOT GONE HAPPEN! MANY DONT KNOW, BUT OUR EGO IS ALMOST IF NOT JUST AS BIG AS LEO'S (WE'RE JUST MORE TACTFUL WITH IT) SO WE HATE, AND I MEAN REJECTION. IT THROWS US OFF BALANCE ESPECIALLY WHEN WE REALLY LIKE SOMEONE. CAUSING US TO REALLY ACT LIKE WE DONT CARE (our little way of protecting ourselves from anymore dissapointment that will throw us off even more) WAYS TO TELL IF LIBRA IS "SECRETELY" CHASING YOU...1. ALWAYS AVAIBLE
2.ANGRY WHEN YOUR NOT AVAILABLE (ANGRY MEANING HE/SHE IS VERY SARCASTIC)
3.CASUALLY SHOWING UP AT PLACES HE/SHE KNOWS YOU MAY BE
4. VERY MUSHY
5 DOING CUTE LITTLE THINGS LIKE SENDING A RANDOM PIC OF THEMSELVES W "JUS THINKIN OF YOU" OR "HI THERE!" THE WOMEN MAY BECOME VERY GENEROUS. BRING YOU A HOME COOKED MEAL IF SHE KNOWS YOU DETEST FAST FOOD. SHE MAY RUB YOUR BACK NO MATTER HOW TIRED SHE GETS, GOING OVER AN BEYOND IN HER APPEARANCE IF AT ALL POSSIBLE.REMEMBER, THEY ARE SUBTILE, THEY LOVE ATTENTION AND WILL MOST SURELY GIVE IT IF THEY THINK YOU'LL LIKE IT. IF NOT, THEY ARE COME AS A CLOUD, FLUFFY AND CAREFREE ABOUT EVERYTHING. BUT SECRETLY THINKING OF A WAY TO IMPRESS YOU
I know this is extremely late - but, us, Arians, need CONSTANT affirmation. I can't even tell you how much. God - we're so dumb sometimes.
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Well maybe that's why he gave a relationship to this other girl instead of me. (Yes, me and ALIBRA are the same person, I don't know my password). Here's the thing, I have no problem telling a man how much I love and care about him, heck i'll even learn to say it in French if I knew he would adore it and feel the same. But my Aries was not in love with me. I may have said it on 3 occasions and he never said it back. I never asked why or even forced him, he always said he wanted to make sure that's what he was feeling. I guess we know now. I did everything for
Im a libra and yes I do chase what I want
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do libras chase..people they want?
or has anyone ever been chased by a libra?
They seem to be always calm and collected about their love situations...has anyone seen them get really un balanced?