Do you usually stay away from serious conversations?

Libra and I (aqua) are “friends” who basically behave like we are in a relationship. Recently I tried to have a conversation about how I/we feel about things think and want to do(which for me I usually try to avoid) but we are so close it seemed necessary. I wasn’t angry but he just had this tendency to make light of everything, crack a joke or witty one liner which cleared nothing up in the end! 🤦🏽‍♀️ So I mentioned it and he apologised for always making a joke and sounding like he wasn’t bothered. So what is your aversion to serious conversation? The possible conflict and the fact you prefer living I with the rose coloured glasses?

On another note he has been busy lately and I would like us to meet up however he has expressed he wants to wait until he has more time and doesn’t have to leave early. He seems to be a real stickler for quality over quantity! I was reading that seems to be another trait you have. It’s a first for me. Learning a lot about libras!! Very slow moving

I didn't understand from your text if you meant have a serious talk about your relationship or not but it seems that's what you meant. You want a commitment from him and to be official? How long have you been seeing each other or is this a FWB type of relationship?

Tbh I rather things happen organically then pushing for a label of the relationship. You can communicate what you want from the future with him and see if he shares your vision. If you've been seeing each other for some time and things doesn't seem to progress it's likely he doesn't want to take that step with you.

crack a joke or witty one liner

I do this a lot but not when I really need to be serious.

Recently I tried to have a conversation about how I/we feel about things think and want to do

What do you mean by "feel about things"? Is it about your "friendship"? If he's doing that when you wanted to see if he wants anything serious then chances are he really sees you as an fwb. For now at least. Lots of Libra men have a tendency to evade labelling things and have 4 kids with you 20 years later.

Posted by SphinxFinks

Libra are self absorbed and mostly narcissistic, very true of the Sun and Moon combinations.

Everything is a way to weasel out and point all favour to themselves through social manipulation and cratfing of words carefully, balance is not real, they cherry pick things which push themselves forwards because most are fooled by what on the surface looks like favourable and friendly traits, when truthfully they just dismiss others points and feelings so they can appear brighter.

Remember they are cardinal, you will get far more truth and realness out of an Aries than any Libra.

I am biased, I have had no single good experience of people with Sun or Moon in this sign.

Interesting....our son has Libra moon and he’s self absorbed. I thought it was more to do with him being an only child. His dad and I aren’t that way.

I will now blame it on astrology 😃

Ok I read your other topic and it seems it's the opposite of FWB as I first thought it was. 😅

Well he seems interested but not making a move for several months it's really strange. You still haven't kissed? Are you from another culture? Could it be that he's a virgin? Have you tried to make a move?

Posted by Newnat2

Libra and I (aqua) are “friends” who basically behave like we are in a relationship. Recently I tried to have a conversation about how I/we feel about things think and want to do(which for me I usually try to avoid) but we are so close it seemed necessary. I wasn’t angry but he just had this tendency to make light of everything, crack a joke or witty one liner which cleared nothing up in the end! 🤦🏽‍♀️ So I mentioned it and he apologised for always making a joke and sounding like he wasn’t bothered. So what is your aversion to serious conversation? The possible conflict and the fact you prefer living I with the rose coloured glasses?

On another note he has been busy lately and I would like us to meet up however he has expressed he wants to wait until he has more time and doesn’t have to leave early. He seems to be a real stickler for quality over quantity! I was reading that seems to be another trait you have. It’s a first for me. Learning a lot about libras!! Very slow moving

Yes until we have decided we want you!

You’re pushing, that’s where the jokes come in to lighten the convo… take the hint. That’s confrontation and we aren’t ready for it just because you are!

Posted by Newnat2

I wasn’t angry but he just had this tendency to make light of everything, crack a joke or witty one liner which cleared nothing up in the end!

I do this when I'm trying to back out of a situation which is usually followed by a change of subject in order to avoid.

If good friends stay in it there

If more for you tell but risk loss friend

Posted by Newnat2

Libra and I (aqua) are “friends” who basically behave like we are in a relationship. Recently I tried to have a conversation about how I/we feel about things think and want to do(which for me I usually try to avoid) but we are so close it seemed necessary. I wasn’t angry but he just had this tendency to make light of everything, crack a joke or witty one liner which cleared nothing up in the end! 🤦🏽‍♀️ So I mentioned it and he apologised for always making a joke and sounding like he wasn’t bothered. So what is your aversion to serious conversation? The possible conflict and the fact you prefer living I with the rose coloured glasses?

On another note he has been busy lately and I would like us to meet up however he has expressed he wants to wait until he has more time and doesn’t have to leave early. He seems to be a real stickler for quality over quantity! I was reading that seems to be another trait you have. It’s a first for me. Learning a lot about libras!! Very slow moving

You are learning a lot about HIM! And contrary to what you thought, no one cares about your relationship. People fake like they care. I’m just telling you straight up that these threads are annoying. Don’t keep coming back to the Libra forum either after every little problem you have with him. These nonsense threads need to be nipped in the bud.

“Recently I tried to have a conversation about how I/we feel about things think and want to do(which for me I usually try to avoid) but we are so close it seemed necessary.“

This sentence makes no sense. You all are quick to post a bunch of nonsense here. It’s clear you have a superficial understanding of astrology, based on your original post. Go away with this.

I just looked at your profile and I see your last thread was another thread about relationships in the Libra forum so I see you are a repeat offender. You should stop making these threads. You are not learning anything, obviously. So you need to stop posting these threads.

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Posted by Newnat2

Libra and I (aqua) are “friends” who basically behave like we are in a relationship. Recently I tried to have a conversation about how I/we feel about things think and want to do(which for me I usually try to avoid) but we are so close it seemed necessary. I wasn’t angry but he just had this tendency to make light of everything, crack a joke or witty one liner which cleared nothing up in the end! 🤦🏽‍♀️ So I mentioned it and he apologised for always making a joke and sounding like he wasn’t bothered. So what is your aversion to serious conversation? The possible conflict and the fact you prefer living I with the rose coloured glasses?

On another note he has been busy lately and I would like us to meet up however he has expressed he wants to wait until he has more time and doesn’t have to leave early. He seems to be a real stickler for quality over quantity! I was reading that seems to be another trait you have. It’s a first for me. Learning a lot about libras!! Very slow moving

You are learning a lot about HIM! And contrary to what you thought, no one cares about your relationship. People fake like they care. I’m just telling you straight up that these threads are annoying. Don’t keep coming back to the Libra forum either after every little problem you have with him. These nonsense threads need to be nipped in the bud.

And contrary to what you believe, your less than helpful attitude is actually the nonsense that should be nipped in the bud, bud, so with all respect kindly fuck the hell off.

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No you need to fuck off with these dumb threads. I didn’t come in this thread to be helpful at all to you. I came to tell you to stop posting bullshit.

OP needs to just delete the thread and their account. Stupid thread. Pointless.

An aqua trying to mother a libra lol.

Trying to level or control a libra is foolish. They are aware of the truth but would rather procure their wisdom to like minded individuals. Or they are simply not in the mood to divulge.

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Posted by Newnat2

Libra and I (aqua) are “friends” who basically behave like we are in a relationship. Recently I tried to have a conversation about how I/we feel about things think and want to do(which for me I usually try to avoid) but we are so close it seemed necessary. I wasn’t angry but he just had this tendency to make light of everything, crack a joke or witty one liner which cleared nothing up in the end! 🤦🏽‍♀️ So I mentioned it and he apologised for always making a joke and sounding like he wasn’t bothered. So what is your aversion to serious conversation? The possible conflict and the fact you prefer living I with the rose coloured glasses?

On another note he has been busy lately and I would like us to meet up however he has expressed he wants to wait until he has more time and doesn’t have to leave early. He seems to be a real stickler for quality over quantity! I was reading that seems to be another trait you have. It’s a first for me. Learning a lot about libras!! Very slow moving

You are learning a lot about HIM! And contrary to what you thought, no one cares about your relationship. People fake like they care. I’m just telling you straight up that these threads are annoying. Don’t keep coming back to the Libra forum either after every little problem you have with him. These nonsense threads need to be nipped in the bud.

And contrary to what you believe, your less than helpful attitude is actually the nonsense that should be nipped in the bud, bud, so with all respect kindly fuck the hell off.

No you need to fuck off with these dumb threads. I didn’t come in this thread to be helpful at all to you. I came to tell you to stop posting bullshit.

Reading is free. Try it. Cuz I didn't start this thread 😂

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OP still needs to delete these threads and you all should stop enabling these people.