
spica
@spica
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Posted by ReallyNiceAriesPerson
jeez......I wonder if I am butchy or the lap dog——?
Maybe you have just met the wrong Aries, Spica? Some of us are pretty solid😉

Posted by MelanieG
i'd be interested in hearing what exactly went on between you and this aries girl that you despise so much. you have every right to tell your story and i will listen.
but just try not to talk like this when you're telling your story,
"Libras are...."
"Aries are....."
don't make everything plural as if we're all the same. i see you doing that a lot.
you don't represent all libras and you don't know every single aries on this planet.
just simply tell YOUR story.
tell us what happnend to YOU and what SHE did to YOU and leave it at that. don't go on and on about how all libras are gonna end up victims of aries cruelty because we're so gullible and dumb.
you sometimes talk about libras as if we're incapable of making our own decisions and we don't know what's good for us and libras who wanna get close to aries are all "confused" about what they want.
i heard you say these things. i've been occasionally checking out dxp since 2006. i only started posting recently so you may think i'm just a confused libra who doesn't know what's good for her but i'm not like that.
some of the things you say about both libras and aries are a bit insulting sometimes. we're not all dumb and they're not all cruel.
if you're gonna tell your story, please do it in a dignified way and not your usual way. thats all i have to say.
p.s.-also please know that i'm not saying these things because i dislike you. you seem like a nice person except for when you get angry. you probably don't give a crap about what i have to say but i do like you and i'd rather not see you fight with some of the people here.

Posted by curious visitor
ugh. i have problems with aries women too. even with the good ones. i can like them as people, but it doesn't mean we'll get along.
with the bad ones, they always seem to think that my willingness to compromise means that they can do shitty things and manipulate me. they think i'm too stupid to see it, not that i can just see that fighting them will be more trouble than it's worth. i'm a lazy libra. i like to take the easy way. with aries, they can be so destructive when they fight, you really will just come out on top by letting them keep thinking they've got the upper hand. libras aren't competetive enough to be fighting anyways.
imagine you're in a boxing ring. they're up there shadowboxing, thinking they're awesome because you haven't hit them, and look how strong and tough they look. meanwhile, you're sitting down in the corner reading a book, having a drink, chillaxing. you aren't even in the fight. now, if you want, you can get up and fight them. they're pretty fucking dumb throwing all those punches into air, so you'll probably win. but you'd still get hit, end up with some ugly bruises. you'll certainly have to give up your drink and book for a little while to do it. not worthwhile.
unfortunately, over time they get more ballsy. they start trying to actively screw you over since they think you're an easy target. so it's best to just cut your losses as soon as you see what delusional whackjobs they are, before they start fucking with you.

Posted by ReallyNiceAriesPerson
Maybe you have just met the wrong Aries, Spica? Some of us are pretty solid😉

Posted by libragemmale
Well said Melanie . Spica I am extremely interested to hear your story as well. I have a few good Aries female friends and I have a freindship with one in particular that is a very 'soulmate' relationship . It is an extremely charged friendsip, just gonna leave it at that since this thread is you and yours...

Posted by TOC
Haha, I know right??
I'd also like to know why Spica just cant seem to stop being soooo bitter over this Aries chick.

Posted by MPosted by spica
It's not really power that I want. It's balance
Have to quote you on that 🙂click to expand






























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As things unravel, it gets easier and easier to understand the Aries woman personality and why she did what she did.
The cats going to come more fully out of the bag this December and I'll spare no details in this..
If any Aries man is coming here ready to fight me, I'd say God made Aries men and women differently. Aries men have all the good traits of Aries - brave, honest, integrity, excellent father and the Aries innocence. when it comes to Aries woman, mix warrior with yin - you have someone who will go any length to get what they want without reservation.
So there are good Aries women, but they have abandoned their girlish wiles and adopted the stance of the Aries man. I can spot those easily too.
Stay tuned