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Gemini charm versus Libra charm - differences.

Librans are more charming.

I've never met a Gem with charm or any amount of social grace.
"I've never met a Gem with charm or any amount of social grace."
Your the third Libra woman I have heard say that. All of them have found Libra men suspiciously charming.
My best friend since childhood is a gem, he charms the pants off of people, literally, but the libra girls I knew didn't find him remotely charming at all.
Gem charm is more direct and open. To me, observing it appears invasive as they aren't afraid to touch or give semi-innaproprate compliments...it definately works on some people. They also speak about their accomplishments and experiences to those they are trying to charm which Libra puts an equal amount of effort in avoiding. It is also very verbal and focused on getting people to let them in.
Libra charm is more between the lines and subliminal. A combination of gestures, posture, facial expression and calculated verbal interaction. Libra creates more of an aura of charm, most would argue it naturally exists as part of their persona or aura than a skill or technique when it comes to Libras. I would agree. I have found myself more focused on trying not to do it than ever trying to do it after receiving a lot of comments like "your just trying to charm me" or "that charm is going to get you in trouble". It is also more of a seductive energy, it draws people in versus geminis getting into someone else.
"They aren,t charming at all ."
Lol. I think Libra and Leo males have some sort of predestined dislike/distrust for each other. I have noticed this myself, typically being judgemental and challenging towards Leo's. When you get to the bottom of it I think we draw the insecurities out of each other, because when I think about it rationally....most of the dislike isn't rational in general...only in specific cases or attributes.
Your the third Libra woman I have heard say that. All of them have found Libra men suspiciously charming.
My best friend since childhood is a gem, he charms the pants off of people, literally, but the libra girls I knew didn't find him remotely charming at all.
Gem charm is more direct and open. To me, observing it appears invasive as they aren't afraid to touch or give semi-innaproprate compliments...it definately works on some people. They also speak about their accomplishments and experiences to those they are trying to charm which Libra puts an equal amount of effort in avoiding. It is also very verbal and focused on getting people to let them in.
Libra charm is more between the lines and subliminal. A combination of gestures, posture, facial expression and calculated verbal interaction. Libra creates more of an aura of charm, most would argue it naturally exists as part of their persona or aura than a skill or technique when it comes to Libras. I would agree. I have found myself more focused on trying not to do it than ever trying to do it after receiving a lot of comments like "your just trying to charm me" or "that charm is going to get you in trouble". It is also more of a seductive energy, it draws people in versus geminis getting into someone else.
"They aren,t charming at all ."
Lol. I think Libra and Leo males have some sort of predestined dislike/distrust for each other. I have noticed this myself, typically being judgemental and challenging towards Leo's. When you get to the bottom of it I think we draw the insecurities out of each other, because when I think about it rationally....most of the dislike isn't rational in general...only in specific cases or attributes.
Librans are truly charming and can make one person feel really special.
Geminis are flirts and can make anyone in a room feel special.
In my opinion, Geminis can be friends with anyone, or at least appear as if they are. Librans are more choosy. Most people tell me (a Gemini) that I'm a natural flirt, when in reality I'm just chatting to people and engaging with them. Apparently that's flirting. It comes as naturally to me as breathing! hehe.
I laugh and smile lots, Libran have that beautiful eye contact thing.
Librans are more charming in my opinion, but in a different way to the Gemini charm.
Geminis are flirts and can make anyone in a room feel special.
In my opinion, Geminis can be friends with anyone, or at least appear as if they are. Librans are more choosy. Most people tell me (a Gemini) that I'm a natural flirt, when in reality I'm just chatting to people and engaging with them. Apparently that's flirting. It comes as naturally to me as breathing! hehe.
I laugh and smile lots, Libran have that beautiful eye contact thing.
Librans are more charming in my opinion, but in a different way to the Gemini charm.
"the only reson i might dislike a libra male is if he is deceving or unfairly prejudiced ."
That is what I mean, I am not singling you out, but I have noticed through interacting with several Leos that they tend to get this vibe off of Libras, like they sense the possibility that Libras are going to be decieving, or predjudiced while other Libras I have known seem to react to Leos as there is a possibility that they are going to be hypocritical and egotistical.
This doesn't really have anything to do with you, except for the fact that your a Leo and in the conversation.
I tend to get along with Leos at first then start to bump heads. I also tend to be harsher and more critical when the butting of heads does come. I think when it gets down to it there are things that each sign sees a lot of potential in the other and both seem to be a bit idealistic of the other in expectation. I have also never judged a Leo before getting to know them. I am still holding out that there is a leo out there that I can get along with in the long run.
My girlfriends moon is in Leo but none of these issues exist. It is a mystery. We get understand each other as much as two people possibly could.
That is what I mean, I am not singling you out, but I have noticed through interacting with several Leos that they tend to get this vibe off of Libras, like they sense the possibility that Libras are going to be decieving, or predjudiced while other Libras I have known seem to react to Leos as there is a possibility that they are going to be hypocritical and egotistical.
This doesn't really have anything to do with you, except for the fact that your a Leo and in the conversation.
I tend to get along with Leos at first then start to bump heads. I also tend to be harsher and more critical when the butting of heads does come. I think when it gets down to it there are things that each sign sees a lot of potential in the other and both seem to be a bit idealistic of the other in expectation. I have also never judged a Leo before getting to know them. I am still holding out that there is a leo out there that I can get along with in the long run.
My girlfriends moon is in Leo but none of these issues exist. It is a mystery. We get understand each other as much as two people possibly could.

"But admittedly i am not so comfy with libra males as say scorpio or capricorn"
those 3 cannot stand power hungry people. There is a subconscious attempt to rule others on every single activity of a leo male. Which obviously both cardinal signs after leo and the other power hungry group-scorps will not entertain.
those 3 cannot stand power hungry people. There is a subconscious attempt to rule others on every single activity of a leo male. Which obviously both cardinal signs after leo and the other power hungry group-scorps will not entertain.
Libras are really seductive
I love male leo's swagger
gemini16, you described geminis, and libras perfectly
I love male leo's swagger
gemini16, you described geminis, and libras perfectly
purrrrrr!!!
Libra definitely creates an "aura" of charm although I will attribute this naturality only to purely Venusian Librans - 'they look it' not Libras influnced by Saturn/Uranus and Mercury.
This Leo might be mixed with Libra she definitely has a Libra Venus vibe.


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