luvlylady2010
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Luvlylady2010..check your inbox. Your story is exactly the same to mine. I'll send you an email
Amethyst2002, I can see your lack of knowledge on aquarius. Aquarius are notorious for being aloof, cold, robotic and all other things non-human. This is why we are hardly ever accused of being cheaters =) Yeah, there are some aqua oddballs who do cheat but predominantly we don't. In fact whether satirical or not, every astrology book/article will tell you that Aqua is loyal overall. Luvlylady and I aren't posting about being cheated on or being betrayed because that happens all the time. Even friends do that. Betrayal is a part of life irrespective of astrology. But the sycophant behaviour of a libra is what we're dwelling on. What is so freaking hard about just being honest? I have a lot of libra guy friends and almost all of them are so consumed with pleasing people and not rocking the boat that it makes me wanna put a pitch fork in their mouth. Simply saying what you want shouldn't be hard. In fact they sit there telling you what you wanna hear. The fact that they try to avoid hurting people is ridiculous because you can never avoid being hurt in life.
As for you saying, "If you're going to go brag about your sign and generalize, at least sound educated doing so and back it up with more than one bad example." Umm there is nothing educated about following astrology in your love matters =S..So maybe you might want to notice that you are also sounding uneducated.
As for you saying, "If you're going to go brag about your sign and generalize, at least sound educated doing so and back it up with more than one bad example." Umm there is nothing educated about following astrology in your love matters =S..So maybe you might want to notice that you are also sounding uneducated.
"I fail to see the negative side? You would prefer to be around people that will hurt you?"
Taste of chaos, I don't mean to generalize. I am just speaking about my observations. I do prefer to be friends or be around people that will give me a reality check instead of telling me what I like hearing. I want objectivity. You are not a true friend let alone true anything if you are going to sugarcoat shit and not tell it how it is. If my friend is wearing too much make up that it's making her look like a clown, I'll tell her beecause I wouldn't want other people laughing at her and making her feel shitty. People think that if they tell their loved one the truth they they are hurt their feelings or disappointing them. That hurt or disappointment is temporary, but in the end your friend is going to be grateful for your honesty. Believe me when I say that PEOPLE want honesty and truth, no matter how harsh it is. I certainly do.
As for whining or complaining in a forum, why are you all upset about that? The point of the forum is to share your experiences and get other people's opinions/thoughts. It is so irritating when people are saying "oh i'm so sick and tired of listening to you whine." If you don't want to hear about other people's issues or opinions then maybe you shouldn't be on a forum whether it be libra or aqua or whatever forum. The forums run on shit like this. If ppl stop posting their shit, you wouldn't have anyone to comment on.
Taste of chaos, I don't mean to generalize. I am just speaking about my observations. I do prefer to be friends or be around people that will give me a reality check instead of telling me what I like hearing. I want objectivity. You are not a true friend let alone true anything if you are going to sugarcoat shit and not tell it how it is. If my friend is wearing too much make up that it's making her look like a clown, I'll tell her beecause I wouldn't want other people laughing at her and making her feel shitty. People think that if they tell their loved one the truth they they are hurt their feelings or disappointing them. That hurt or disappointment is temporary, but in the end your friend is going to be grateful for your honesty. Believe me when I say that PEOPLE want honesty and truth, no matter how harsh it is. I certainly do.
As for whining or complaining in a forum, why are you all upset about that? The point of the forum is to share your experiences and get other people's opinions/thoughts. It is so irritating when people are saying "oh i'm so sick and tired of listening to you whine." If you don't want to hear about other people's issues or opinions then maybe you shouldn't be on a forum whether it be libra or aqua or whatever forum. The forums run on shit like this. If ppl stop posting their shit, you wouldn't have anyone to comment on.
Also in regards to generalizing, taste of chaos, stop being a hypocrite. You are doing plenty of generalizing yourself. Not all Aquas/Libras play mind games. My libra and I did not play mind games. That's why we got together to begin with. Not all air signs play mind games. "ALL air signs are passive aggressive". Umm speak for yourself. I'm not. Thanks for generalizing again.
And lastly, you're pretty immature if you view relationships as a win/lose game that my libra and I were playing and I lost. If you think I lost because I got cheated on, then hunny anyone can win that game. In fact with the recent rise in infidelity, a lot of people are losing that game. It's all about class and integrity, which he didn't have. I'm actually sick and bed ridden and have nothing better to do and that is why I am on this forum or any other on this website. Not because he won. The fact that you made this about winning and losing, I feel bad for your perspective on love. And since you have this perspective, I'm just gonna leave you with food for thought: He's in a rebound relationship, which we all know is sad and pathetic and most of the time goes nowhere. =) So who do you think really won. lol
And lastly, you're pretty immature if you view relationships as a win/lose game that my libra and I were playing and I lost. If you think I lost because I got cheated on, then hunny anyone can win that game. In fact with the recent rise in infidelity, a lot of people are losing that game. It's all about class and integrity, which he didn't have. I'm actually sick and bed ridden and have nothing better to do and that is why I am on this forum or any other on this website. Not because he won. The fact that you made this about winning and losing, I feel bad for your perspective on love. And since you have this perspective, I'm just gonna leave you with food for thought: He's in a rebound relationship, which we all know is sad and pathetic and most of the time goes nowhere. =) So who do you think really won. lol
King of Libra, 26 years old and ur comebacks are like a grade 1 kid's. You just keeep getting more pathetic..lol. I used to say "eww" or "ugly" etc. when I was a kid. Tsk tsk tsk. lol
Taste of chaos..maybe you should re-read your post because you are the one talking about winning and losing. If your perspective is relaying games then that's your doing, not the reader's.
"I have never played games with someone who didnt play them with me first... and as soon as I start, I play to win Just like your Libra has, and he won... cuz look now, you are on the internet complaining to a bunch of strangers about this Libra who DARED to treetrunk with YOUR mind..."
You don't need to repeat yourself. Take your quote 😉 So lets talk about my ability to read things that aren't truly there?! lol
You don't need to repeat yourself. Take your quote 😉 So lets talk about my ability to read things that aren't truly there?! lol
"Libras are about balance..we mirror you." Thanks. I now know thanks to you taste of chaos that you guys are not original at all!! You don't have anything that's yours. Not feelings, not words, not thoughts. Everything is mirrored.. lol..So, hence if your Aquas were cold, so were you right back! Stop playing the victim on the libra forum. Aquas are extremely smart for you dumbasses that is why you got owned with your own quote and then you had to emphasize on one part of your quote. You're so stupid. Take your comment entirely and you'll see that you're too stupid to realize you are talking bout games and that YOU do play them irrespective of someone playing them with you or not. The fact that you went as far to claim that Aquas play mind games just shows YOU DO THINK LOVE/RELATIONSHIP as games.
Here's a lil babytalk simplification for you and king of lbra on how I came to all that conclusion
Aqua: "You suck, you miserable fool."
Libra: "You suck, you miserable fool."
Aqua: What are you doing? I just said that.
Libra: What are you doing I just said that.
King of Libra, if you could wipe me in grade one with "logic" then why are you sucking so bad right now? lol What's ur excuse?
Here's a lil babytalk simplification for you and king of lbra on how I came to all that conclusion
Aqua: "You suck, you miserable fool."
Libra: "You suck, you miserable fool."
Aqua: What are you doing? I just said that.
Libra: What are you doing I just said that.
King of Libra, if you could wipe me in grade one with "logic" then why are you sucking so bad right now? lol What's ur excuse?
Go pull a typical libra move and go hide and cry in the corner for the dumb ass that you are. You think you can compete with an aqua when it comes to intellect. Go learn to balance the inner conflict of the mind and balance the scales you dumb bitch!
Why am I getting aggressive? It happens. I get agitated when I encounter blatant stupidity. I have no tolerance for it. I have to admit, you sound like my elder and mature. I respect that. I don't mean to be rude. . I guess if you got nothing nice to say, keep your mouth shut. I'll do that with you taste of chao. But king of douche is another story. He's more in my age group.
LOL..Never mind. I thought you were in your 30s for some reason. Like I said, I got agitated because you know what stupidity is to me. Anyway, I'm going in my religious forums now. Ciao for now until I see another entertaining Aqua jump into this forum to say somehing.
Posted by TasteOfChaos
BTW - Im not quite sure WHAT KOL is—
Im pretty sure he some kind of rabid dog?
I guess when the scientists failed to find out exactly what he was, they forgot to dispose of his toxic waste properly and now he has mutated into something much more disturbing...
lmao!!
How did I stay away from this gem of a thread, the whole thing went crazy really quick.
Hooray Amethyst! Stop with all the overboard generalizations people. Not all Libras are immature little bitch boys and not all Aquas are cold heartless whores.
Posted by amethyst2002
Erm, they haven't been bad in bed, in my experience. Just because yours sucked doesn't mean they all do. Just like how not all Aquarians are loyal. I know of one that was NOT loyal and cheated in her marriage.
If you're going to go brag about your sign and generalize, at least sound educated doing so and back it up with more than one bad example. All I'm reading is blaming everything on him and his flaws. What about you? YOU stayed. BOTH of you did. No one forced you to stick around and put up with that shit. It was YOUR choice to stick around due to guilt and habit. I'm not saying he was innocent or that they're all innocent, but I'm seeing far too much finger pointing when you have plenty of blame in your corner as well.
Libra guys can be infuriating, but you two Aquas have shown some pretty good reasons why this pairing doesn't work, and plenty of it seems to be on YOUR part, not just his.
Hell, I'M not a Libra and I wouldn't want to date someone like you two. Your attitude is bullshit and your judgments are ridiculous. Maybe if you two didn't think like selfish twats, life would be a bit easier on you both in the relationship department. Just sayin'.
Hooray Amethyst! Stop with all the overboard generalizations people. Not all Libras are immature little bitch boys and not all Aquas are cold heartless whores.
Posted by aquarius09
If my friend is wearing too much make up that it's making her look like a clown, I'll tell her beecause I wouldn't want other people laughing at her and making her feel shitty.
And you call us people pleasers...
What you are saying here is that your friends opinions matter less than the crowds opinion... If my friend likes her make up eccentric why should I harp on her that she looks like a clown and that others will laugh at her for it. If it makes her happy, fuck your judgements. I will give my honest opinion and I do call things like I see them. But I will not tell someone to bend to fit the crowd.
You'd tell a friend to change themselves so that others like them more, then you come on here saying how Libras can't stand up for themselves and are always trying to make others happy...
Posted by TasteOfChaos
^^^ yeah I got thru the first sentence of that and stopped...
You're an idiot.
The end.
Ditto. lol!
I find this thread amusing.
Posted by LibraSidPosted by aquarius09
If my friend is wearing too much make up that it's making her look like a clown, I'll tell her beecause I wouldn't want other people laughing at her and making her feel shitty.
And you call us people pleasers...
What you are saying here is that your friends opinions matter less than the crowds opinion... If my friend likes her make up eccentric why should I harp on her that she looks like a clown and that others will laugh at her for it. If it makes her happy, fuck your judgements. I will give my honest opinion and I do call things like I see them. But I will not tell someone to bend to fit the crowd.
You'd tell a friend to change themselves so that others like them more, then you come on here saying how Libras can't stand up for themselves and are always trying to make others happy...click to expand
1)Too much make up that it's making you look like clown isn't referring to eccentric or shocking make up. I'm talking bout make-up looking whack. For example, make-up that is melting on your face..lol. I've seen it happen. I don't know if you have.
2) Crowds opinion may not matter to me, but you have to admit that A LOT of people care what other people think of them. You wouldn't have followers or people with low self-esteem running around if everyone was comfortable in their skin, not caring about what others think.
3) You think I'm the one saying that libras are people pleasers. If you look at half the astrology books/articles, it's there. Even in satirical astrology, it's there.
ouch. He was using you to pass his time until he could win his ex back, who he was FAR from being over
Posted by THEKingofLibra
Lol.. This bitch is out of her element. I wish I could find that Libra dude and get his side of the story, probably the usual 'eww dude she MAD ugly' feedback would come up about her, and 'SHE FARTS AND SNORES AT NIGHT' among the more curious trivialities about this bitch ^^
I am amused.. bemused.. totally. nevermind, bored again.
Hahahahahaha omg I almost died.
I think I'm in love.
(Don't tell TOC, she'll disown me)
@ Amethyst
The fact that you readily agree with the easy cheesy comments just shows that my posts are way over your head or rather brain. I suppose it's not your fault, a lot of people don't use their brains nowadays and agree with what is easily comprehensible like King of Libra's gr. 1 nasty comments about poop. I guess that's as far as his "intellect" works. What a shame for an air sign. lol. That's his "logic" that he wants to wipe me with. lol So unimpressed that I'm not even slightly intrigued to check your zodiac sign. lol. I noticed that fellow Aquagirl, Krysrenee and myself seem to understand each other just fine. So, I know it's not me. It's you =P Hmm I wonder if it's because I'm in the forum of the mentally unstable. This comment is for Amethyst or King of Dump..Not trying to attack all Libras. Like I said before, I like Libras for the most part. Just don't like the stupid ones.
The fact that you readily agree with the easy cheesy comments just shows that my posts are way over your head or rather brain. I suppose it's not your fault, a lot of people don't use their brains nowadays and agree with what is easily comprehensible like King of Libra's gr. 1 nasty comments about poop. I guess that's as far as his "intellect" works. What a shame for an air sign. lol. That's his "logic" that he wants to wipe me with. lol So unimpressed that I'm not even slightly intrigued to check your zodiac sign. lol. I noticed that fellow Aquagirl, Krysrenee and myself seem to understand each other just fine. So, I know it's not me. It's you =P Hmm I wonder if it's because I'm in the forum of the mentally unstable. This comment is for Amethyst or King of Dump..Not trying to attack all Libras. Like I said before, I like Libras for the most part. Just don't like the stupid ones.
Posted by brianafay
ouch. He was using you to pass his time until he could win his ex back, who he was FAR from being over
Sorry.. Is this part for me??
I don't believe that he was far being over her because he is the one that left her to begin with and she had already been trying to get back with him the whole time. They are not back together and he is still trying to text, email and call me and tell me that he does not want her and she is only a "friend". She even told me herself that he told her he couldn't get back with her.. HOWEVER, she's been giving it up even though he told her they can't be together (I haven't since I noticed he was acting strange). She also bought him a whole bunch of stuff for his new apartment trying to get him back..
Personally, I think that he is just using her because she is willing to do stuff that I'm not. He still says that he wants to be with me but just wanted to get to know each other a little better first (we did really rush things).. I think he just knew that he could not commit to me because she was still hanging around.
I do appreciate that he atleast had enough decency to tell me he wasn't ready to commit yet instead of doing it and then I found out about this which now makes sense why he didn't so that he could have the excuse that we were not "committed" yet.. Oh well, I've been avoiding him since Saturday and will continue to do so. All he had to do was be honest..
Posted by TasteOfChaos
BTW - Im not quite sure WHAT KOL is—
Im pretty sure he some kind of rabid dog?
I guess when the scientists failed to find out exactly what he was, they forgot to dispose of his toxic waste properly and now he has mutated into something much more disturbing...
WTF—!! For fuck sake!! Dang, I'm not eating my spinach curry sauce for another couple of hours. DAAAMN!!
Posted by aquarius09
Here's a lil babytalk simplification for you and king of lbra on how I came to all that conclusion
Aqua: "You suck, you miserable fool."
Libra: "You suck, you miserable fool."
Aqua: What are you doing? I just said that.
Libra: What are you doing I just said that.
King of Libra, if you could wipe me in grade one with "logic" then why are you sucking so bad right now? lol What's ur excuse?
ROFL! Goddam, Aqua09!
Hey Aqua girls, you are truly entertaining. I love you! But come one! Enough already with arguing with the libs. Hahahaha! Please stop already. My stomach hurts from laughing so hard.
Damn, this is so typical. I've noticed this even happens in real life. Once the tempest starts, it never ends. Libra and Aqua talkback. Even in loving relationship. And when there's no love, it's even worse...
Damn, this is so typical. I've noticed this even happens in real life. Once the tempest starts, it never ends. Libra and Aqua talkback. Even in loving relationship. And when there's no love, it's even worse...
Posted by aquagirl24Posted by LibraSid
I will give my honest opinion and I do call things like I see them. But I will not tell someone to bend to fit the crowd.
are you sure about this—?
Yep, why?
Posted by aquagirl24Posted by LibraSid
You'd tell a friend to change themselves so that others like them more, then you come on here saying how Libras can't stand up for themselves and are always trying to make others happy
they cant stand up for themselves, she meant they are undecided. not that they havnt their own thoughts or ideas, dont misinterpret everything, she explained pretty well on the aquarius page too.
U KNOW exactly what she means!!! I told you what is it like to be with a woman, treat them like women not like slaves!!!
this enslaving thing ive seen it in so many poor women with their libran partners!!!! also libran women being enslaved by their libran men!!! noone likes it!!!!
What are you on about? I don't know about that aquarius page, I generally don't go there. And what is this crap about you told me 'what it's like to be with a woman? I don't need your help or advice there, thanks. Treating a woman like a slave?! Where did that come from? Talk about projection... none of what you said here applies to me. I do have my own ideas. I know who I am and I like myself. I've had my share of relationships. I don't treat women as slaves... and WTF was this part for:
Posted by aquagirl24
when a man comes to me, a married man, and asks me out while married, he is a BASTARD! do u get me—
and he isnt the only libran one!!click to expand
I agree, a married man looking for nookie elsewhere is not a good man. Again, what does this have to do with me? Hell what does that have to do with being a Libra?
Cheating is bad, but
1. Not all Libras cheat
2. Not all cheaters are Libras
Are you just rambling again?
Never knew a disloyal Libra and that's the God's honest truth.
Posted by aquarius09
I noticed that fellow Aquagirl, Krysrenee and myself seem to understand each other just fine. So, I know it's not me. It's you =P
Don't compare yourself to aquagirl if you are going for a sanity defense 😛
Posted by aquarius09
Hmm I wonder if it's because I'm in the forum of the mentally unstable. This comment is for Amethyst or King of Dump..Not trying to attack all Libras.click to expand
You can't have it both ways... this is the Libra forum. Are we all unstable or just KoL? Amethyst is an Aries (hence the ram avatar)
If they're in a committed relationship, they're committed.
If you never received that commitment from them, do you really have the right to consider them disloyal?
They keep their options open like Sagis. I totally get them. They'll date multiple girls at once until they find the one that want to commit to....what's the problem with that?
If you never received that commitment from them, do you really have the right to consider them disloyal?
They keep their options open like Sagis. I totally get them. They'll date multiple girls at once until they find the one that want to commit to....what's the problem with that?
Posted by THEKingofLibraPosted by LibraSid
You can't have it both ways... this is the Libra forum. Are we all unstable or just KoL? Amethyst is an Aries (hence the ram avatar)
Thanks for that vote of confidence.. Your king is pleased with you.click to expand
Haha, I was going to write something about you being a filthy minded pervert... but a funny one. This whole thread got derailed and is just silly.
/bow
Posted by brianafay
If they're in a committed relationship, they're committed.
If you never received that commitment from them, do you really have the right to consider them disloyal?
They keep their options open like Sagis. I totally get them. They'll date multiple girls at once until they find the one that want to commit to....what's the problem with that?
No problem if they are honest about it.
Posted by LibraSid
Haha, I was going to write something about you being a filthy minded pervert... but a funny one.
BTW, this is not an insult... I'm a filthy minded pervert too.
Frankly, I think it would be kind of stupid of anyone to focus all their attention on one person at a time while dating considering you could find yourself a month down the line wishing you hadn't wasted your time and passed up a bunch of cool people.
Posted by brianafay
Frankly, I think it would be kind of stupid of anyone to focus all their attention on one person at a time while dating considering you could find yourself a month down the line wishing you hadn't wasted your time and passed up a bunch of cool people.
I think it depends how quickly you shift your focus to one person. If it's right after the first time you met for coffee, yeah not a good move. The guy she was talking to had been at her house day in and day out talking about marriage and raising kids... I'd have assumed we were 'steady' 'monogamous' whatever. Don't jump in too quick but at some point you do need to shift to just the two of you.
Posted by luvlylady2010Posted by brianafay
If they're in a committed relationship, they're committed.
If you never received that commitment from them, do you really have the right to consider them disloyal?
They keep their options open like Sagis. I totally get them. They'll date multiple girls at once until they find the one that want to commit to....what's the problem with that?
No problem if they are honest about it.click to expand
It sucks that you felt lied to. I would be irritated too.
But I doubt he meant to be dishonest. He probably was just trying to protect your feelings. & yes maybe string you along a little.
He knew if he told you straight up he was still seeing his ex, wasn't ready for anything serious, and/or wanted to date around for a while - you probably wouldn't have talked to him. (Be honest, you wouldn't.)
He liked you, enjoyed hanging out with you, but just wasn't sure what he wanted to do with the situation with his ex, and he surely wasn't ready to commit to you. So he had to kind of tell you what you wanted to hear so you wouldn't be like *deuces*
Posted by LibraSidPosted by brianafay
Frankly, I think it would be kind of stupid of anyone to focus all their attention on one person at a time while dating considering you could find yourself a month down the line wishing you hadn't wasted your time and passed up a bunch of cool people.
I think it depends how quickly you shift your focus to one person. If it's right after the first time you met for coffee, yeah not a good move. The guy she was talking to had been at her house day in and day out talking about marriage and raising kids... I'd have assumed we were 'steady' 'monogamous' whatever. Don't jump in too quick but at some point you do need to shift to just the two of you.click to expand
Oh. I didn't follow her story. :x
Posted by THEKingofLibraPosted by brianafay
Frankly, I think it would be kind of stupid of anyone to focus all their attention on one person at a time while dating considering you could find yourself a month down the line wishing you hadn't wasted your time and passed up a bunch of cool people.
That is the Sag wisdom people don't see. Its absolutely true and logical, but personally I can't date more than one girl at a time. I get attached pretty quickly and would feel weirded out if I was kissing another girl in the same day. Technically since its mostly about the other person for Libras, I guess its about fairness - you are cheating on both of them, and ultimately jeopardizing yourself because you are likely to end up with neither one.
I can love multiple girls at once, but I can't date them all at once.click to expand
I'm the same way, once I've decided they're worth it.
I think it's normal for anyone regardless of sign to date multiple people until they decide on one and then commit to them.
In this case he had already promised me that he wanted to commit to me and was waiting for me to make the commitment to him. Then when I finally gave in he said that he was "confused" about something but kept trying to keep me around. I couldn't understand what happened.
A few days before all this he sent me this message..
"Words cannot express how soon I want you in my life all for myself. I just want you to understand that the sooner you make up your mind the sooner you are worry free! I have no intention of devoting myself anyone but you. I love everything about you and just the thought of you makes me smile. So when you are ready to promise so am I... Life's a gamble mami and I'm all in!!"
So then I decide to finally give in and he says he's confused!! Instead of being honest and telling me what was going on he just left me in the dark analyzing everything wondering what could have possibly happened... He still says it's not because of the ex that he was confused but that he just realized how fast we were moving... Yeah we were because that's what HE supposedly wanted! Had he just told me what he is telling me now from the beginning there would be no problem!
In this case he had already promised me that he wanted to commit to me and was waiting for me to make the commitment to him. Then when I finally gave in he said that he was "confused" about something but kept trying to keep me around. I couldn't understand what happened.
A few days before all this he sent me this message..
"Words cannot express how soon I want you in my life all for myself. I just want you to understand that the sooner you make up your mind the sooner you are worry free! I have no intention of devoting myself anyone but you. I love everything about you and just the thought of you makes me smile. So when you are ready to promise so am I... Life's a gamble mami and I'm all in!!"
So then I decide to finally give in and he says he's confused!! Instead of being honest and telling me what was going on he just left me in the dark analyzing everything wondering what could have possibly happened... He still says it's not because of the ex that he was confused but that he just realized how fast we were moving... Yeah we were because that's what HE supposedly wanted! Had he just told me what he is telling me now from the beginning there would be no problem!
Posted by brianafayPosted by luvlylady2010Posted by brianafay
If they're in a committed relationship, they're committed.
If you never received that commitment from them, do you really have the right to consider them disloyal?
They keep their options open like Sagis. I totally get them. They'll date multiple girls at once until they find the one that want to commit to....what's the problem with that?
No problem if they are honest about it.
It sucks that you felt lied to. I would be irritated too.
But I doubt he meant to be dishonest. He probably was just trying to protect your feelings. & yes maybe string you along a little.
He knew if he told you straight up he was still seeing his ex, wasn't ready for anything serious, and/or wanted to date around for a while - you probably wouldn't have talked to him. (Be honest, you wouldn't.)
He liked you, enjoyed hanging out with you, but just wasn't sure what he wanted to do with the situation with his ex, and he surely wasn't ready to commit to you. So he had to kind of tell you what you wanted to hear so you wouldn't be like *deuces*click to expand
Exactly.. He knew I wouldn't go for that and I understand (even though I don't think it's right) why he wasn't upfront about it because he knew he would lose me. I actually don't think he's the biggest jerk in the world but when and if he figures it out I may talk to him again but not for awhile.
Posted by THEKingofLibra
Man you old people crack me up
Speak up sonny boy, I don't hear to well anymore...
Posted by luvlylady2010Posted by brianafayPosted by luvlylady2010Posted by brianafay
If they're in a committed relationship, they're committed.
If you never received that commitment from them, do you really have the right to consider them disloyal?
They keep their options open like Sagis. I totally get them. They'll date multiple girls at once until they find the one that want to commit to....what's the problem with that?
No problem if they are honest about it.
It sucks that you felt lied to. I would be irritated too.
But I doubt he meant to be dishonest. He probably was just trying to protect your feelings. & yes maybe string you along a little.
He knew if he told you straight up he was still seeing his ex, wasn't ready for anything serious, and/or wanted to date around for a while - you probably wouldn't have talked to him. (Be honest, you wouldn't.)
He liked you, enjoyed hanging out with you, but just wasn't sure what he wanted to do with the situation with his ex, and he surely wasn't ready to commit to you. So he had to kind of tell you what you wanted to hear so you wouldn't be like *deuces*
Exactly.. He knew I wouldn't go for that and I understand (even though I don't think it's right) why he wasn't upfront about it because he knew he would lose me. I actually don't think he's the biggest jerk in the world but when and if he figures it out I may talk to him again but not for awhile.click to expand
Well don't expect him to just go away. 🙂
If he really felt something for you, he will probably keep coming back until you give in again.
"You can't have it both ways... this is the Libra forum. Are we all unstable or just KoL? Amethyst is an Aries (hence the ram avatar)"
Librasid, just like you said that not all libras are cheaters or messed up or whatever you said in one of your post to Aquagirl, I'll go from there and say KOL is the messed up libra. You don't seem demented like KoL. So, I guess I can have it both ways if I go by no generalizations, which you seem to promote. lol
Librasid, just like you said that not all libras are cheaters or messed up or whatever you said in one of your post to Aquagirl, I'll go from there and say KOL is the messed up libra. You don't seem demented like KoL. So, I guess I can have it both ways if I go by no generalizations, which you seem to promote. lol
Posted by TasteOfChaosPosted by brianafayPosted by THEKingofLibra
Lol.. This bitch is out of her element. I wish I could find that Libra dude and get his side of the story, probably the usual 'eww dude she MAD ugly' feedback would come up about her, and 'SHE FARTS AND SNORES AT NIGHT' among the more curious trivialities about this bitch ^^
I am amused.. bemused.. totally. nevermind, bored again.
Hahahahahaha omg I almost died.
I think I'm in love.
(Don't tell TOC, she'll disown me)
😕
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Haha are you jealous? *raises eyebrows*
You know I'm all about you babybbyyyyy
Posted by LibraSidPosted by aquarius09
I noticed that fellow Aquagirl, Krysrenee and myself seem to understand each other just fine. So, I know it's not me. It's you =Pclick to expand
Don't compare yourself to aquagirl if you are going for a sanity defense 😛
I guess you are right about that. I joined this website last week. I presume you all know each other's problems from before. I read Aquagirl24's thread in the libra forum today. WHAT?!! I can't believe it!! I didn't know she's in an abusive relationship with Mr.Crazy who says weird shit.
To Aquagirl: Why the hell are you with an abusive man?!! Very unlike aqua trait. I'm ashamed of my sign right now 😢 Why would you want to be someone who thinks you are not the one for them when YOU are the one putting yourself on the line to help him? WTF is up with women wanting to save every idiot out there, especially when they're really messed up. A wise man once said: "Misery is contagious". It truly is. Your bf is retarded. Stop trying to save him. Save yourself! You think you are saving him when all you're really doing is drowning yourself. My ex was a very miserable man, and me being an amateur at the time wanted to save him. I wanted to help him with his problems. Those who truly want help are the first ones seeking it out. Well, if he thought he was seeking help by bringing me in his life. Well then I'm no psychiatrist :S He didn't want it. All he wanted was company for his misery. So, the end result was he wasn't helped but I sure did drown in the process of "helping him". 😢 Moral of the story is never again am I going to look at people who need help and aren't making active effort on their part to seek it. Misery is contagious and once you get it, it lingers with you for a while like the new flu strain goin around 😉
Haha. Lurked this so hard.
I think the real problem is the perception of one's "perfectly committed relationship". Let's face it, it varies. There are people who wouldn't mind waiting as a Libra looks at three different girls and weighs the pros and cons as much as there are people who are quick to think of it as complete and utter cheating.
I think we all make mistakes in love. Some of which are natural and reoccurring.
I believe the key word here is take it slow. And don't be upset when you lose. There's other fish in the sea, but from what I see, having a Libra commit is totally worth it if they choose you.
In short: Whatever floats your love boat.
I think the real problem is the perception of one's "perfectly committed relationship". Let's face it, it varies. There are people who wouldn't mind waiting as a Libra looks at three different girls and weighs the pros and cons as much as there are people who are quick to think of it as complete and utter cheating.
I think we all make mistakes in love. Some of which are natural and reoccurring.
I believe the key word here is take it slow. And don't be upset when you lose. There's other fish in the sea, but from what I see, having a Libra commit is totally worth it if they choose you.
In short: Whatever floats your love boat.
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