Hello everyone :)

Hello, I m new and very shy but I love this board ! You all re wonderful !

Welcome. Thank you, but ya gonna have to give up more info than that to participate...

Oh, come on! It's the internet! Besides, if you have been lurking for a while, you know all our nitty gritty dirty... Hahaha! 😉

Welcome! Okay, so we'll start slow, since you are shy... Are you a Libra? Male or female? What's you favrite sexual position?!? Sorry, I had to. I'm a Scorp... That and I did it to poor LibraPersonified. Fair is fair, and Libras like fair. 🙂

Nothing to be shy about. You have great taste in boards so obviously you are fabulous!

Friendly =/= patronizing but thanks for playing!

You assume too much.

You like to think ... but you don't.

more than you ... but keep acting the ass.

huh?

I am pissed at you because you are trying to make it seem like everyone's friendliness was not well intentioned. How that proves me wrong about anything, I dunno.

I know my motivations better than you do.

That was what I was saying.

Oh. I thought it was a shot at me.

I think everyone was being genuine.

and even if they weren't .... why do you care anyway?

What a way to welcome a new member.

That was what I was thinking nic. That was why it pissed me off.

"That was what I was thinking nic. That was why it pissed me off."

I could tell, I felt the same way about it. There were two posters before you and I don't think anyone was patronizing or insulting or "fake".

Welcome to the board.

Shaka if you don't like this board don't post on it. There are lots of other boards to post on.

Trying to start trouble here, where everyone pretty much gets along, just makes you look like an ass.

shoooo!

I'm not shy about stirring up the pot when necessary but I don't think that was at all applicable here.

I know were not about taking criticism from someone who has no real bearing on us, so I don't know what your trying to achieve here. LS is right, no ones holding a gun to your head, you don't have to be here if you don't like it.

YEAH! What nic said!

lol!

Libras aren't very judgemental. We just accept who you want to be. (shrugs)

"wellcome exams... take no offense, it is nothing but fun here on dxp...
... welcome aboard... ready to fly ... "

YES!!!

Sorry for the thread hijack....tell us a bit about yourself and don't be shy about questions no one else is, especially our resident Scorps 😉

"Now if you excuse me..."

Gladly. Have fun.

ummmm cause there is nothing to argue about?

"ummmm cause there is nothing to argue about?"

Exactly. We love substancial argument, just as much as our good friends Gem and Aqua....but trivial bickering is just lame.

Hell, nic, alcheme, and I got into a huge fight a few weeks ago. None of us cares. Life goes on.

You can't take life or love personally. It isn't.

"It seems Ive been honoured with a response by the guru of the libra board...I'll get back to you later Mister."

No need. Really now.

Sidetracked by Stupidity

anyhow welcome exam!

Wow!! Exam, I hope we didn't scare you away... Come back, come back, Shaka, you might have to be banned from posting on "new comers" posts, only veterans, cause as you can see we can handle ya!!! LOL!!!

I 'm sorry that my friendliness offended someone and obviously caused arguments...Sorry...The truth is that I ve read all 20 pages in Libra board!I m obsessed!😄
Ok , maybe I m not shy but I m inexperienced in love ! I'm still little girl in her early 20, I just started dating a Libra for a month now ...We started as friends first(2 months) then he confessed that he liked me "more than a friend" ...we had many romantic moments , all the holding hands, hugging, kissing stuff , no sex ! I'm wondering if his feeling is genuine because he want our relationship kept in secret at the moment as it might affect his career! I m fine with it but just wondering sometimes...
I m a Scorpio by the way and here is my chart .Thank you everyone for your warm welcome 🙂

Sun Scorpio
Moon Scorpio
Mercury Scorpio
Venus Scorpio
Mars Aquarius
Jupiter Pisces
Saturn Sagittarius
Uranus Sagittarius
Neptune Capricon
Pluto Scorpio
True Node Aries

House positions (Placidus)
Ascendant Sagittarius
2nd House Capricorn
3rd House Aquarius
Imum Coeli Pisces
5th House Aries
6th House Taurus
Descendant Gemini
8th House Cancer
9th House Leo
Medium Coeli Virgo
11th House Libra
12th House Scorpio

* I'm wondering if his feeling is genuine because he want our relationship kept in secret at the moment as it might affect his career!

Me no likey. How would it affect his career?

Damn you have a lot of scorpio in you!

Do you guys work for the same company? What is the basis behind it affecting his career.

Sex is if anything usually too soon with a Scorp Girl/Libra Guy, so that is a little strange. However if you both have strong influences from your sun sign I'd wager it is going to take a while for him to disect his emotions for you. The attraction from a scorp girl can be a little overwhelming at first which is taken by us with an equal amount of intrigue and suspicion. But chances are he will come around to you, even though you haven't had sex who is the agressor in that department?

"Me no likey. How would it affect his career?"

This can go either way really.

I was in a similar situation as I was dating a superior and the request for secrecy on her part was reasonable. Not a scorp though. But a lot of scorp in her chart.

I think the good or bad perspective is really situational, not to say it's not the bad version but we just don't know yet.

He sort of having a part time "career" in organising and welcoming events for international students and I m one ! We come from different countries , cultures ,backgrounds , not even speak the same language ! Yet we like each other so much...I just dont know...For me , it s all right as long as he is happy .It s my first love by the way so I also wanna take things slow , not rush into the "bedroom" stuff .In fact, he also asked me frequently whether things moving too fast for us , shall we slow down..I didnt answer but asked him "what do you think?" .He ll go "I think maybe we should slow down , on the other hand , I like you so much!" ...Anyway, thanks for reading this 🙂

exam. Whenever you do have sex with the Libra, girl... I hope you are ready... This combo is like an outer body experience sexually. It will knock your young socks off.

Damn girl you are a scorp to the bone. Damn.!!!

It sounds like he wants to do right by you, and at the same time he is sort of playing chess between you and his career.

It sounds like he is right, openly dating you could have bad effects on his job. I don't think in that case secrecy is bad, two people like each other, aren't supposed to see each other so they keep it secret. Maybe it's just me but that kind of secrecy can be a turn on so I wouldn't worry about it too much.

It sounds like your both holding back. For me, and most Libra guys the intensity of emotion is realized in the act of sex, so it will be a real breaking point for the two of you when it happens IMO....and things will really pick up from there. It is a very strong area for Libra male/Scorp female and while societally it isn't ideal, a lot of the relationship will revolve around it. But for these two signs it is ok, since it carries a great deal of importance to them individually as well.

"For me, and most Libra guys the intensity of emotion is realized in the act of sex, so it will be a real breaking point for the two of you when it happens IMO"

This is very interesting and I think I'm currently going thru this with my guy. It's amazing, but you do have to be ready for it and you have to be ready for the steady stream of confusion it might bring.

Thanks Queenscorpio! I ll keep that in mind !I read your posts and Nic , LS and other Lbras, found them very useful ! Any ideas how to keep him interested or signs that he is serious in the relationship?
Thanks 🙂

How to keep him interested:

They like to take initiative...sometimes they are indecisive and it's OK to offer suggestions, but let them think they came up with the idea. They know they're indecisive and your patience will let them build up confidence in that area in no time.

Don't call him too much. Let his fingers do the walking.

Don't be too available for him. They like women who can live their lives independently of theirs, even if they sometimes secretly want to "own" you.

Thanks Nic! I m fine with secrecy ! Just abit confused sometimes by his actions..you know, hot and cold! Luckily , he explained it to me !
Then again , I also go into hiding sometimes (need my space!) and he understand it , hence so far so good 🙂

Yes Houston! we did the calling quite equally! Recently , he called me more while I just want little space !lol!

As long as he's sincere with the reason he wants the relationship secret, you're all good. If you support his wishes, the outcome of your relationship will be outstanding (If he's sincere). When our love interest support us, we keep them close and give them limitless loyalty. We're best at expressing our feelings through lovemaking to. It's our best characteristic ;-{)

Just my 8 quarters and 2 dimes.

I hope you re right LibraP ! At first , he said he didnt want get into too deep-our relationship! But recently , he seemed wanna spend more and more time with me , making plans for weekend and weekdays! Looking for me if I m not with him! He confused me yet he said I wonderfully confused him! No idea 🙂

Let's not for get you're a Scorpio. He absolutely adores you if he has any of my traits. Hence "Libra Personified". Scorpios just light my fire. Whenever I date a Scorp girl, Sometimes i want to hit her in the head with a jagged tree branch (metaphorically speaking of course), but most of the time I want to grab her by the throat, pin her up against a wall, rip some otherwise sexy garments off her body and just.... oh I'm sorry, I get beside myself sometimes.

I truly apologize for the vivid details.

No need to apologize LibraPersonified! Love the vivid details *wink* lol!
He does have mood swing I think ! Yet when I asked him shall I leave him alone , he said I dont mind! How to know when he needs to rest ?
Here is his chart :

Sun Libra
Moon Taurus
Mercury Libra
Venus Scorpio
Mars Capricorn
Jupiter Capricon
Saturn Scorpio
Uranus Sagittarius
Neptune Sagittarius
Pluto Scorpio
True Node Taurus

HOUSE POSITIONS (Placidus)
Ascendant Gemini
2nd House Gemini
3rd House Cancer
Imum Coeli Leo
5th House Leo
6th House Libra
Descendant Sagittarius
8th House Sagittarius
9th House Capricorn
Medium Coeli Aquarius
11th House Aquarius
12th House Aries

Astrology is fun but I dont know much !