Help.. so confused.....

I've been dating this libra for 6 months now and we havent had sex yet. We only kissed. And when the topic comes up. He always say we're going to have our time. My first thought is he Gay. And wen I touch him he tense up. Like he don't wanna be touched. Sometimes I think he's not interested or dnt like me some how he always does things to make me think otherwise.. he also tells me he loves me. I'm so confused...HELP.

Posted by Librasetting
That's just odd 6months of no sex? Its just a hunch but I'm say he's fucking someone else and he's smart enough to know you'll smell her on him...Just a hunch.

LOL smart enough?... Perhaps he would be smarter "erasing" all smell of previous girl, while on a date with present girl.

OP. Speak to him about how you are feeling. I don't get why couples cant speak to one another about the problems they have going on in their relationships. This is why relationships fail time and time again. Be confident, Ask him whats up, look him in the eyes when doing so. They are the window to our souls.

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Posted by Librasetting
That's just odd 6months of no sex? Its just a hunch but I'm say he's fucking someone else and he's smart enough to know you'll smell her on him...Just a hunch.

LOL smart enough?... Perhaps he would be smarter "erasing" all smell of previous girl, while on a date with present girl.

OP. Speak to him about how you are feeling. I don't get why couples cant speak to one another about the problems they have going on in their relationships. This is why relationships fail time and time again. Be confident, Ask him whats up, look him in the eyes when doing so. They are the window to our souls.

Lol you're right but you know what I mean...You can't wash vigina smell off it stays with you even if you do wash it takes time for it to fade.

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LOL I get what you saying. I am having visions of a penis look and smell inspection before sex though.

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Posted by Librasetting
That's just odd 6months of no sex? Its just a hunch but I'm say he's fucking someone else and he's smart enough to know you'll smell her on him...Just a hunch.

LOL smart enough?... Perhaps he would be smarter "erasing" all smell of previous girl, while on a date with present girl.

OP. Speak to him about how you are feeling. I don't get why couples cant speak to one another about the problems they have going on in their relationships. This is why relationships fail time and time again. Be confident, Ask him whats up, look him in the eyes when doing so. They are the window to our souls.

Lol you're right but you know what I mean...You can't wash vigina smell off it stays with you even if you do wash it takes time for it to fade.

LOL I get what you saying. I am having visions of a penis look and smell inspection before sex though.

Lol my libra ex gf did that shit to me before we got together..I told her to take her time lol.

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LOL... I say good thing she is an ex then

Posted by TheCanBull
6 months is a very long time....

Come on, no guy can go for 6 months. We all know he is hitting it elsewhere.

OP confront or move one. (assume you are of legal age to have sex, if nothing after 6 months of course)

or a thought, perhaps it's religious reasons 😉

Is this his first relationship? When was his last? Why did they break up?

OP

Next time he comes over, make him come up to your room...

Or surprise visit him and go into his room.

set the scene...

Vanilla scented candles, lights off...you laying on his bed naked with just a red rose across your stomach, so your silhouette flickers on the walls.... Your feet propped against the windowsill, and then take if from there.

If he still not keen, well find someone who does want to shag you.

@Librasetting

The biggest red flag of all; is when someone starts accusing you of stuff you KNOW you did not do (ie cheating)

It's their guilt that leads them to start accusations when none are there.