CancerAriesLady
@CancerAriesLady
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Help with Libra
This story doesn't add up. You both agreed that you were not interested in a committed relationship. Then, out of the blue, he confesses it "hurt his feelings a little" that you didn't want to be in a committed relationship. That's your story's first lie. You acted like the what? Women have got to find out what exactly they want and who they want to be in a relationship. I smell a middle-aged game player.
Oh you gloat over your Aries moon which explains why you appear misdirected in relating to men. You can't be upset that he is seeing someone else if you are playing the ditsy "hard-to-get" or "I don't really need a man" thing. You're 43 and it's about time your maturity matches your age. You sound like a woman his age. You aren't mature for the dating world at that age and that should scare you as much as you claim your age scares him.
Oh you gloat over your Aries moon which explains why you appear misdirected in relating to men. You can't be upset that he is seeing someone else if you are playing the ditsy "hard-to-get" or "I don't really need a man" thing. You're 43 and it's about time your maturity matches your age. You sound like a woman his age. You aren't mature for the dating world at that age and that should scare you as much as you claim your age scares him.
at a guess, it sounds like he wants a relationship but doesn't see a future with you.
Posted by jeane
at a guess, it sounds like he wants a relationship but doesn't see a future with you.
Or the OP can listen to what I stated because she doesn’t need to be enabled. Stop enabling.
Posted by black773Posted by jeane
at a guess, it sounds like he wants a relationship but doesn't see a future with you.
Or the OP can listen to what I stated because she doesn’t need to be enabled. Stop enabling.click to expand
ok hun.
Posted by black773
This story doesn't add up. You both agreed that you were not interested in a committed relationship. Then, out of the blue, he confesses it "hurt his feelings a little" that you didn't want to be in a committed relationship. That's your story's first lie. You acted like the what? Women have got to find out what exactly they want and who they want to be in a relationship. I smell a middle-aged game player.
Oh you gloat over your Aries moon which explains why you appear misdirected in relating to men. You can't be upset that he is seeing someone else if you are playing the ditsy "hard-to-get" or "I don't really need a man" thing. You're 43 and it's about time your maturity matches your age. You sound like a woman his age. You aren't mature for the dating world at that age and that should scare you as much as you claim your age scares him.
What are you talking about? I’m not 43, I’m 23. Second, I’m not “gloating” about my Aries moon, I was saying my Aries moon appreciates how he’s direct. Third, I didn’t lie about anything in my post. You don’t need to be mean. I’m looking for help on why he got a girlfriend if he didn’t want one. And why he continues to want to see me if he’s in a relationship. I didn’t know I was going to end up falling for him when I told him I didn’t want a relationship at first. How am I suppose to tell the future— Really, you’re being quite rude. Don’t attack people for being confused and seeking advice.
After you said you didn't want a committed relationship it kind of hurt his feelings (maybe) and he downgraded you to a FWB relationship while dating the other woman in a serious way. He does want to move forward with a relationship with her and still have you as a FWB on the side (extra sex).
Posted by CancerAriesLadyPosted by black773
This story doesn't add up. You both agreed that you were not interested in a committed relationship. Then, out of the blue, he confesses it "hurt his feelings a little" that you didn't want to be in a committed relationship. That's your story's first lie. You acted like the what? Women have got to find out what exactly they want and who they want to be in a relationship. I smell a middle-aged game player.
Oh you gloat over your Aries moon which explains why you appear misdirected in relating to men. You can't be upset that he is seeing someone else if you are playing the ditsy "hard-to-get" or "I don't really need a man" thing. You're 43 and it's about time your maturity matches your age. You sound like a woman his age. You aren't mature for the dating world at that age and that should scare you as much as you claim your age scares him.
What are you talking about? I’m not 43, I’m 23. Second, I’m not “gloating” about my Aries moon, I was saying my Aries moon appreciates how he’s direct. Third, I didn’t lie about anything in my post. You don’t need to be mean. I’m looking for help on why he got a girlfriend if he didn’t want one. And why he continues to want to see me if he’s in a relationship. I didn’t know I was going to end up falling for him when I told him I didn’t want a relationship at first. How am I suppose to tell the future— Really, you’re being quite rude. Don’t attack people for being confused and seeking advice.click to expand
Glad you’re not 43 making these kind of mistakes. 👍🏾
You don’t have to tell the future. Anyway, you two are wasting one another’s time. There’s no denying that.
What’s the problem here exactly?
You were the one who lead with keeping things casual.
He was upfront with the fact he was seeing other women.
When a guy says he’s not looking for a relationship = translation: I’m not looking for a relationship with you.
Don’t be mad. It was casual. You didn’t want more. You can find another thristy Dick to ride on fb.
Thank him for keeping it honest with you and wish him the best.
You were the one who lead with keeping things casual.
He was upfront with the fact he was seeing other women.
When a guy says he’s not looking for a relationship = translation: I’m not looking for a relationship with you.
Don’t be mad. It was casual. You didn’t want more. You can find another thristy Dick to ride on fb.
Thank him for keeping it honest with you and wish him the best.
Posted by black773Posted by CancerAriesLadyPosted by black773
This story doesn't add up. You both agreed that you were not interested in a committed relationship. Then, out of the blue, he confesses it "hurt his feelings a little" that you didn't want to be in a committed relationship. That's your story's first lie. You acted like the what? Women have got to find out what exactly they want and who they want to be in a relationship. I smell a middle-aged game player.
Oh you gloat over your Aries moon which explains why you appear misdirected in relating to men. You can't be upset that he is seeing someone else if you are playing the ditsy "hard-to-get" or "I don't really need a man" thing. You're 43 and it's about time your maturity matches your age. You sound like a woman his age. You aren't mature for the dating world at that age and that should scare you as much as you claim your age scares him.
What are you talking about? I’m not 43, I’m 23. Second, I’m not “gloating” about my Aries moon, I was saying my Aries moon appreciates how he’s direct. Third, I didn’t lie about anything in my post. You don’t need to be mean. I’m looking for help on why he got a girlfriend if he didn’t want one. And why he continues to want to see me if he’s in a relationship. I didn’t know I was going to end up falling for him when I told him I didn’t want a relationship at first. How am I suppose to tell the future— Really, you’re being quite rude. Don’t attack people for being confused and seeking advice.
Glad you’re not 43 making these kind of mistakes. 👍🏾
You don’t have to tell the future. Anyway, you two are wasting one another’s time. There’s no denying that.click to expand
I see your comments on other people’s posts. You’re not very kind. You should be more open minded and learn kindness.. your way isn’t the only way nor is it the “right way”. Take care.
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