How are you in Love, Libra?

I honestly can't say that I have been truly in love for a long, long time. When I was..it was all or nothing. Making sure that my partner was happy and well taken care of emotionally and physically. Giving my all. Waiting on that spark to see how I am in maturity.


Sun- Libra
Moon — Sagittarius
Mercury — Virgo
Venus — Scorpio
Mars — Virgo
Ascendant — Libra
Midheaven - Cancer

When I am in love, I am completely devoted to my partner. I love to spoil him, and treat him like a king. I want him to walk into ANY room and know, in his heart, that no one there is more loved than he. I too will want him to be physically healthy, and I am likely to be seen chasing after with 300 SPF sunscreen in hand.

I will say, however, that I still need my space. I have to be able to see my friends, do my own thing, and have my own physical retreat.

While I am by nature a very pragmatic and logical person, I find that I can be extremely gullible when it comes to love. This realization has led me to be a lot more guarded with heart and who I give it to. I've come to learn that actions, not words, are what do it for me. Trust is everything, and I can be extremely jealous and possessive (could be the Scorpio in me), so the best relationships are where my partner does not provoke either of these reactions. Don't talk to me about your exes. I will find out what I need to know on my own.

Love, LS67

Libra/Scorpio cusp
Moon in Taurus
Venus in Virgo
Aquarius Ascending

@LibraScorpio you are me in a nutshell. However shielding my heart until the action prove still doesn't work for me. I've had guys bending over backwards for months at a time for me some even years, but the minute things go physical they change. The guy may not even bring up sex, but now that I'm writing this I'm thinking in my head, they may not have been saying it, but their actions at first were dead giva-ways and I should've ran. But instead I gave them time to change their approach. Hmmm, wont happen again. I'm only 23, I'm mature enough to say I'm still learning. 😉

As for the jealousy thing, I can be jealous too but it's very mild and very seldom does it get out of hand unless my partner does something deliberately disrespectful with the opposite sex. I have a Pisces moon and a Leo in Venus, so my ego is my prized possession. If I feel it's going to be damaged even a little bit I flee before the show even starts. I'm THAT protective of it, perhaps I should be more protective of my heart huh. I love to hear about the ex's so long as they truly ARE the EX'S and nothing more. Meaning you dont still talk to them, I don't wanna hear about you hanging with them ect. But sure we can talk about them, but not too much or I'll feel you are reminiscing which is a HUGE red flag. However in the beginning hearing about HIS ex, lets me know what he's been through and gives me an idea on where he's trying/willing to go in his next relationship, but that's just me. But ironically I absolutely HATE talking about my ex's to a new guy. I feel it just lets the new guy see how dumb I was, especially if I were mistreated in the past relationship.

when i'm in love i'm very accommodating and self sacrificing. but i will turn cold once you cheat on me. i'll toss you out of my life like a piece of garbage and no second chances.